Ask the class meeting on interpersonal communication to speak?

Look at the following defense, I hope it will be useful to you. M: What is the warmest thing in life? Is it a cold fire in winter? No. W: What is the most emotional thing in life? Is it a sweet voice? No. Together: it is friendship, pure friendship, warm friendship, which can melt ice and snow and keep out the scorching sun. Now, the theme class meeting of our class officially begins. Man: A life without friendship is a barren life, a desolate life, just like a land without green life and a dead tree without branches and flowers. Woman: Life without friendship is a dark life and a monotonous life, so we are eager for sincere friendship and eternal friends to light up our lives. One: Let's enjoy the poem Boys and Girls in Our Class. The boys and girls in our class are handsome enough to carry their shoulders on the road. It is really heroic and imposing to say that we should open our hearts to argue when the weather is not too hot. What's more, the ruder we are, the more masculine we look. However, when we walk with girls, we all become timid, as if we are stupid and want to pretend to be elegant, and we are all uncomfortable. Strange to say, the taste of "two-faced people" is really unbearable. We all want to escape quickly. The girls in our class claim to be romantic. When it comes to fashion and fantasy, they argue endlessly. The notebook is full of fashionable songs, and there is a wall of pictures of movie stars on the bedside. We used to cheer for Nicholas Tse at the performance venue. We are still talking, because we are only eighteen years old, and the eighteen-year-old sky needs beautiful friendship. In life, it slowly flows through ripples, but it moistens our dried-up nerves. The long road of life, a true friend wishes friendship to accompany me all my life, so that my emotions will never be thirsty, my soul will never be lonely, and my friendship will last forever. Male: The heart of youth needs friendship to water female: Understanding emotions needs sincere understanding. M: Interpersonal communication is an indispensable part of our life. The friendship between boys and girls has become an unavoidable topic. Second, women: intellectual complementarity, emotional mutual comfort and behavioral mutual encouragement have narrowed the distance between boys and girls, while others' eyes and teachers' interference have added a lot of troubles. Please enjoy the innocent friendship narration of the sitcom Youth Station: this is a sketch about the normal communication between male and female students. The story happened the night before self-study. There are several students in the classroom, some are reading, some are doing their homework, some are lying on the table to rest ... at this moment, I don't know which corner of the voice broke the silence of the classroom. Essay 1 Chen: Hey! Why is it so difficult? The teacher is too inconsiderate of the students. It's all multiple-choice questions and judgment questions. what can I do? A kind and lovely student like me can't be "wrong" or "right". A, B, C and D are randomly selected! What shall we do? I have to find someone to help me. (Looking up at his classmates) Shan Bin, Shan Bin. . . . . . . . . Sa: What's the matter? Chen: I want to see you. Singer: A yawn. Chen: Come here quickly. I really need your help. Sa: What's the hurry? It's really annoying I am sleepy. Really, I look like a girl. Chen: I can't find you if I have nothing to do. Just for this test paper. It's too difficult. Are you an expert? I want you to teach me. Sa: OK, who am I? The master of the masters, Gao, is the right person to find me. (Look at the test paper) These questions are easy to do, easy to do (touch the coat pocket, touch the trousers pocket, touch it several times, touch out a dollar and shake it in front of me). I promise you to do one question, one question, two pairs and three questions. . . . . . . . . . . Chen: All right, stop talking and teach me how to do it. Dan: You don't understand. There is no way to have a low IQ. I'll teach you how to judge whether there are only "right" and "wrong" questions. Chen: Yes. Dan: Is there only two sides to money? Chen: Oh, you don't mean that I should choose "right" face up and "wrong" face down: boy, Confucianism can be taught and has great prospects. I'll give you a try first! What did the first question say? Chen: First, the angle less than 90 degrees is an acute angle sheet: (throw the money up and cover it with your hand) Guess: right, wrong, right, wrong, facing up can only explain one truth. This topic 100% is correct. Just choose the right one. Chen: Oh, what about the next question? Dan: Let's look at the next question. Chen: Let me do it. (I accidentally threw the money on a boy's seat) Kim: What is it? Come to my side, I was shocked. It turned out to be a coin. Chen: Hello, that's my money. Kim: What are you doing? All the money flowed to me. Chen: Thank you. (Jin Peng turns and walks away. ) Oh, by the way, have you finished your homework? Kim: What are you doing? Do you want to copy? Chen: No, no, you see, I did it. I just have a few questions that I can't do or understand. Kim: Then I'll teach you. The first question should be how to do it. . . . . . . . . . . Sa: I don't know what you mean. Let him teach you like this. Just copy it. Listen to it yourself if you want. I'm leaving (the mountain returns to my seat). Kim: The evening self-study is about to begin. Let's get ready first. I'll teach you the next topic later. Chen: OK. Kim and Chen quit. Narrator: Shan Bin returned to his seat impatiently, looked around carefully, picked up a pen and paper and wrote a note to his good friend Yu. The note said, "I'll wait for you at the old place of Fushan Park on Sunday afternoon 1: 30", and then I turned around and threw the note to Yu. It's getting dark Ding, the students left the classroom in twos and threes after the evening study. On Sunday afternoon 1: 30, Shan Bin waited anxiously for Yu's arrival in the old place of Fushan Park, because he was going to do something to surprise her today! Essay more than 2: Hey! Singer: You scared me. Y: Why? Mystery, words that can't be said in class. Singer: Yes. I have something very important to say to you today. . . . . . . . . . Today. . . . . . . . . . Y: What's the matter with you? It's not like you to speak hesitatingly. Sa: I want to say, you are so beautiful today! Y: Is that why you called me here? Sa: No, I mean that we have been good friends who talk about everything since junior high school. Now I seem to have a little for you. . . . . . . . that . . . . . . . . . Y: Well, tell me quickly, or I'll go. Sa: no, it took me several nights to get up the courage to tell you that I ... . . . . . . . . I like you. Y: Sorry, I don't think I can accept it. After all, we are still young. Sa: Not small, not small. We are all 18 years old, and we are not children, are we? Y: Yes, but I think we are more suitable to be friends. I hope we can still maintain a pure friendship, care for each other in life and help each other in study. Sa: All right, stop it. You always only know how to study. Have you ever thought about how I feel? Y: Well, forget it, I understand your intention and I understand you, but if we communicate too early now and spend time on it, what will our classmates think of us and what will our teachers think of us? Have you thought about this? Singer: I don't care Yu: But I care. I don't want to see the strange eyes of my classmates. If you really like me, please think about it for me. Will it be good for us if we date now? We should encourage and make progress now. Sa: In that case, I won't force you. For your sake, I accept. 3.m: After reading this sketch, I can't help wondering whether there is friendship between boys and girls and whether the affection for the opposite sex is love. Let's discuss whether the advantages of intimate communication between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Chairman: Dear students and teachers. Friendship is the most precious wealth in the world. It can't be stolen or melted. Throughout the ages, how many people with lofty ideals have admired it, and how many people are willing to shed their blood for it. Pure friendship left an unforgettable impression on our beautiful youth. However, there is a problem, but it exists. Do you think the advantages of intimate communication between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages? Or do more harm than good? Now, I officially declare the debate officially started. Next, we sincerely invite Mr. Bao from the Student Affairs Office to be the judge of this debate. Next, please ask the representatives of the pros and cons to introduce themselves: Lou: I'm Yi Debate. My name is Lou: I'm Er Debate. My name is He Li: I'm San Debate. My name is Jin Pengtao. My name is Tao Jiaming. My name is Chairman Yu Danming. Lou: Thank you, Chairman, teachers and students. Hello! Our view is that close communication between boys and girls is harmful to us. For us in the school stage, too close communication between boys and girls will inevitably affect our study! PRESIDENT: Thank you for your speech, Lou Tengjiao. Next, let's ask Jin Peng, the first representative of the opposition party, to state his position. Kim: Thank you, Chairman. Hello! Our view is that the advantages of communication between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages. For example, learning can help each other, progress is more conducive to learning, and life can take care of each other. Why not? PRESIDENT: Thank you for your wonderful speeches. Let's enter the free debate session. Before the meeting begins, please allow me to remind the representatives of both sides that your speaking time is three minutes. Let's start now. Ho: Our secondary school students are in adolescence, and their thoughts in all aspects are not mature enough. If boys and girls get too close, there are some emotional factors, and the consequences are unimaginable. Tao: I think the interaction between boys and girls will have unexpected effects if the two sides complement each other. Ho: But now in the middle school campus, it seems that there are not many examples that can really grasp that degree and help each other. Tao: Is it puppy love for each other to fight for their fingers? Personally, I think this problem can be completely avoided as long as boys and girls communicate with each other in a measured way. Li: Do we think the other debater can completely guarantee that every boy and girl will be so rational? There are countless cases in which boys and girls become puppy love because of close contact and get hurt. Yu: The reason why boys and girls are hurt by too close communication is entirely because of their own reasons. We can't deny the existence of friendship between men and women just because such a thing has happened, can we? Give yourself a chance, don't be so sensitive! Lou: puppy love itself is a sensitive topic! Kim: But the communication between girls is not necessarily just puppy love! We don't need to treat "puppy love" specially. It's just that we have the same interests and become friends. Ho: We always think that if boys and girls get too close, it will help both sides in some ways, but if they are not careful, they will become puppy love, which is not good. Students don't allow us to make a wrong step in life. I think it is essential to be cautious on this issue! Tao: Speaking of puppy love, I don't think a certain feeling between boys and girls because of too close communication is necessarily love. There is a protective film there. As long as everyone doesn't pierce it in youth, isn't it another taste to have such a hazy feeling? Li: But how many rational teenagers are there? Isn't the story that shouldn't have happened already? Y: Boys and girls have had close contact. This is because they were misunderstood by vague feelings between the opposite sex in adolescence, and something should not have happened. PRESIDENT: Time is up. Now please ask the pros and cons to sum up. Li: Teachers and students, now let me represent our point of view: obviously, the disadvantages of male-female communication outweigh the advantages. Just now our debater has given relevant examples. Therefore, when we communicate with the opposite sex, we must always keep in mind the rules of male-female communication and never cross that line. I also look forward to the beautiful and pure feelings between the opposite sex! Y: Now let me sum up our views. Intimate communication between boys and girls has many advantages. In learning, boys and girls exchange ideas and ways of thinking and learn from each other, which will certainly help each other's learning, so we always think that the advantages of intimate communication between boys and girls outweigh the disadvantages! President: At the end of the debate, please ask the judge, Mr. Bao, to comment on the Student Affairs Office. . . . . . . . . . . . . W: Some people say that if men and women get too close, there will be no friendship. M: No, we have many shy boys. I hope we can give them some advice on making friends. W: We have some introverted girls who are not active enough to find their own friends. They always look at people and laugh silently. Four: M: How can I clearly know that I have sincere friends? How can I know my ability to make friends? Let me tell you to write and let us evaluate ourselves. According to our actual situation, the negative answer will be 0 and the positive answer will be 1. From now on-1 Do you have any intimate friends who can talk to each other besides parents or brothers and sisters? Do you have two or more old friends? Besides your peers, do you have any friends who have forgotten the Chinese New Year? Can you easily find a friend to help you when you have an accident? Do you go to your friend's house once a week? Will you miss your friends when you meet holidays? A friend invites you to play. Under normal circumstances, will you find some excuses, such as I am too busy recently and politely refuse? When a friend is in trouble, will you take the initiative to show concern? Do you often keep in close contact with friends far away by phone or letter? 10 Do you make new friends every once in a while? 1 1 The purpose of your association is not to gain some convenience for yourself but to win friendship? 12 When I was busy, I happened to meet a friend visiting. Will you still receive it warmly? 13 Do you have any other ways to promote friendship besides giving gifts? 14 When you encounter misfortune or feel lonely, do you go out to complain to your friends? 15 A friend of the opposite sex asked you out. Are you going? M: Are all the students finished? All right. I'll announce the criteria. If the total score is above 12, you have a strong ability to make friends. 9- 1 1 points, indicating that you have a good ability to make friends. A score of 6-8 means that you can still maintain the friendship between friends. A score below 5 indicates that your ability to make friends is still lacking. Come on! W: Now, please raise your hand if the total score is above 12. We congratulated them with warm applause and asked them the secret of making friends. Li: Actually, there is no secret to making friends, and there is no secret. Because a person's life is inseparable from friendship, it is natural to make friends. There is no right or wrong, only right. Under the sky of 18 years old, we are eager to make all kinds of friends, because only friends will experience ups and downs with you. Except for your parents, boys and girls can find pure friendship as long as they keep their beliefs. X: I think it takes two people to maintain a friendship. Of course, if you treat everyone around you sincerely, they will treat you sincerely. Friends often lose trust because of misunderstanding. Speaking your mind sincerely can not only eliminate misunderstandings, but also further deepen your friendship. Don't go beyond the boundaries of friendship with the opposite sex, because there are many such examples in real life, and you can't be lovers. Sun: I think making friends is mainly about keeping promises. If you don't keep your word, it will make the other party think that you are cheating or playing with him, giving people a feeling of insincerity, which will greatly reduce your reputation and easily lead to estrangement. Ma and Enges, two great friends, let the world know what true friendship is and what love is perceived by the world. Did we have such a noble friendship when we were eighteen or nineteen? The answer is no, so why is the relationship between boys and girls always too close? I think it may be the infinite temptation of the outside world and my endless curiosity! It makes boys and girls of our age unable to control themselves, which leads to something that should not have happened, and even deviates from the direction. Making friends is a flower, which can always give you fragrance, while those insincere and immoral friends, like a hedgehog, will only bring pain, sadness and unforgettable memories. Mr. Hu: There is no secret in making friends. You can make friends as long as you know the meaning and true meaning of friendship. Friends need sincerity. American writer Rogers said, "Sincerity is the foundation of people's communication and the premise of people's friendly coexistence." Being sincere with others will be welcome. We should manage interpersonal relationships with an optimistic attitude, and the friendship between people is very valuable. Hundreds of years have passed, in exchange for knowing each other in this world. We should cherish the flower of friendship and let it last forever. I think as long as we can be sincere in our communication, we will naturally have more friends.