As a parent, please be kind to your children, and don't always add harsh words, because you may not know that these words you often say to your children are like needles!
1. Do you have a brain? It's not that simple!
My neighbor asked me to help his daughter with extra lessons, but the child is just in the first grade. Is the study pressure so great now? With a confused mood, I went to my neighbor's house. The child's mother was helping her with her homework. Standing at the gate, I could hear how hysterical her mother was inside and imagine how helpless the child was. "Do you have a brain? It won't be so simple! " Many parents should have said this to their children, but when you complain about "what evil did I do in my last life, and I will come to help you with your homework in this life", did you notice the sweat in your children's palms and the fear in your eyes?
Please don't use your current level of knowledge to measure a child's IQ. How well did you do when you were a child? Your scolding over and over again will only make children self-deny, and those words like knives will leave lingering scars on their hearts.
2. Look at other people's children, and then look at you!
every time Xiao Ni's mother sees a child performing talents on TV, she will point at Xiao Ni and say, "Look at these children. They are not as old as you. This one is several years younger than you. People are so powerful. Why not look at you again?" What child would not want to be the pride of his parents? Parents think that they can give their children the motivation to move forward by saying this, but such cynicism will only bring their children scars all over. So, please turn your eyes from "other people's children" to your own children and take a good look at him. In fact, he is not bad.
3. Go away, it's been a long day!
Every time my parents quarrel, I will take Qiangqiang as a punching bag. Once my parents quarreled fiercely, my mother rushed out of the door, and my father sat on the sofa drinking and tried to persuade my father. But as soon as the word "dad" came out, my father shouted at him, "Get out of my face!" He doesn't know what he did wrong, which will make his parents hate him so much, and he doesn't know what he should do to win the love of his parents.