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The oars are flat, and the green hills lock the shore. How do you live when you go home and I go home?
I will never think about it, so don't think about me either. Give your past and my heart to others!
-Xie Ximeng's "Bu Operator" (Song)
Such a heartless poem, even if wrapped in your breath, feels heartbroken with cold.
Xie Ximeng in the Southern Song Dynasty is a vivid replica of Liu Sanbian in the Northern Song Dynasty. He is a great thinker, a brilliant student and a disciple of the bohemian poet Lu Jiuyuan. He hangs out in brothels every day.
Qian Qian has thousands of kinds of love, but his heart is just a gust of wind. A romantic wit, a beautiful geisha, congenial, affectionate and committed to life and death. Such stories also flooded to the extreme in ancient times. This love, though not vigorous, is enough to make people deeply grieved. Watch him build tall buildings and watch him go crazy. When the "Yuanyang Building" was built, so many celebrities and beautiful women were wondering: Who is it? Who is such a lucky lover?
Geisha Lu became the happiest woman in the world. After that, she was the hostess of the Yuanyang building. Since then, the Yuanyang building has been cleaned up, and Ling Ge sang all night, thinking that that day was unusual.
These days didn't last long. One day, Xie Ximeng suddenly felt homesick, took French leave and quietly went home. After Lu Gen's daughter found out, she chased after the river and cried. Xie Ximeng wrote this parting poem.
Don't go now and never meet again. I deleted you from my whole world, so don't miss me. It turns out that good love finally turns to dust with the wind.
9. Don't be two wide, each has its place.
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All the reasons for the couple, the past three generations became attached, and the couple in this life began to be worthwhile. If we don't get along, we are enemies, so we come to each other ... because the hearts are like peas in a pod, it's hard to be United, and we will soon meet all our relatives and repay each other. I hope that after my wife leaves, I will comb my sideburns again, sweep my eyebrows, skillfully show my graceful figure and choose the head of a senior official. Settle the feud, let alone hate each other. One is two widths, and each has its own fun.
-the agreement on releasing wives in the Tang Dynasty
It is said that this is "He Li Shu" unearthed in Dunhuang Mogao Grottoes in the Tang Dynasty.
One is two widths, and each has its own fun. When writing these eight words, I wonder if there is a trace of bitterness in his heart? No, why does my brow suddenly recall past lives?
Buddha said that looking back 500 times in the past life only brought us a meeting in this life. The fate of husband and wife in this life is the fate of three lives. That's why there will be a hand-in-hand trip by the West Lake, and the thrush under the lamp will be for you. These years of gambling and tea splashing have finally been replaced by irritability, anxiety, resentment and ignorance, becoming a farewell.
Things have changed, she is no longer his good marriage, and he is no longer her obsession. Since the heart is ashes and turns into ice inch by inch, it is better to bear the pain of this division. Let's talk about treasure, treasure, treasure
8. passers-by from now on.
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The prince's children rushed back, and the beautiful woman was wet with tears.
Xiao Lang was a passer-by as soon as Houmen entered the sea.
-Cui Jiao's "Give Handmaiden" (Tang)
This poem has a very touching story.
Cui Jiao's aunt has a beautiful maid. Cui Jiao likes her very much and falls in love with her. Cui Jiao has been longing for this handmaid for a long time. One spring, Cui visited the countryside and met her maid. Cui Jiao was filled with emotion. However, the maid will soon return to the important person's home. At the moment of their separation, Cui Jiao wrote this poem sadly.
Some people say: the world is very big, if you miss it, you won't know it; The world is small, too. The moment we look up, it's fate! That's what he is to her. Like a dead end, meeting each other is like a grand farewell. After that, you are you and I am me.
Tomorrow night, you will be a stranger. There is no need to miss it, and there is no nostalgia.
7. Don't hesitate ...
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First, it is best not to meet each other, so you can not fall in love. Second, it is best not to know each other, so that you can not miss each other. Third, it's best not to accompany you, so you don't owe each other. Fourth, it is best not to cherish each other, so that you can not remember each other. Fifth, it is best not to fall in love, so as not to dislike each other. Sixth, it is best not to face each other, so there is no need to meet. Seventh, it is best not to make mistakes, so as to make mistakes. Eighth, it is best not to promise each other, so you can not continue. Ninth, it's best not to depend on each other, so you don't have to lean together. Tenth, it's best not to meet each other, so we don't have to be together. But we met as soon as we met, but we never met when we met. Andrew and Jun are absolutely in harmony, so they won't teach life and death to be lovesick.
-Cangyang Jiacuo (Qing)
Some people say that this "Ten Commandments" was written by Cang Yang Jia Cuo. Others said no.
Yes or no, we don't know. What is important is that we are willing to believe that this beautiful poem was written by a loving living Buddha; We would like to believe that these proverbs of love come from a lover who despairs of love.
A supreme living Buddha, an affectionate prodigal son. Which one does he want to be?
Cangyang Gyatso died in Qinghai Lake at the age of 24. Judging from his poems, I prefer to believe that he is a prodigal son. He born to love, died for love. As a victim struggling to survive in the political crevice, only love is the panacea for his soul and makes his life alive.
However, he is also destined to love. Buddha said that you can get everything except love. So, let go of this lovesickness, let go of you, and let go of this affection. In this way, there will never be harm until the end of death.
6. Holding hands and looking at tears, I was speechless.
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Cold and sad. The pavilion was late and the shower began to rest. All the accounts are not in the mood. I miss places and Lanzhou to urge me to send them. Holding hands and looking at each other, tears swirled in my eyes until there were no words at last, and a thousand words stuck in my throat and I couldn't say it. Thinking about thinking, thousands of miles of smoke, dusk, chutiankuo. Love hurts and leaves since ancient times. What's more, it is a cold autumn festival. Where did you wake up tonight? Yang Liuan and Xiaofeng are dying. After the New Year, it should be a good time and a good scene. Customs are strange, who to talk to.
-Liu Yong's song "Lin Yuling"
After the Anshi Rebellion, Xuanzong entered Shu, heard the sound of rain and bells, thought of Yang Fei, and got Yulin Ridge.
The song "Lin Yuling" of Sanbian is not farewell, but it is more sad than farewell, not breaking up, but more sad than breaking up. A talented scholar and poet naturally wears white clothes. But in the end, I put up with floating names and sang in a low voice. This is liuyong.
Even if "the lyrics are written in order", why is there still unevenness in the brow? Even if you live in a brothel, why do you still care about your career? Even if you want to go far away, why should you burst into tears?
Two affectionate lovers, by the river and at the bow, holding hands and looking at each other, were in tears, and there were thousands of words in their throats. Think of this parting, it is a journey after another, thousands of miles away, waves of smoke, the dark night sky is endless.
He knows that this is the secret of life. Many of them are flat and turn into gullies in the blink of an eye; Many goodbye, a wave of unrest, a wave of rise again; Then, let me cry for you for a long time and tell the pain of parting.
5. Meet in the grave, don't go against today's words!
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Also persecuted, so is your concubine. See you in the grave, don't go against today's words!
-"Peacocks Fly Southeast"
Anyone familiar with this sentence knows that this sentence comes from Peacock Flying Southeast.
These are the last words of Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing. We already know the final result. Liu Lanzhi goes to Qingchi, and Jiao Zhongqing hangs the southeast branch!
There are thousands of ways to break up in Qian Qian, so affectionate, like a swan song. They also had a deep feeling that "the monarch is a rock, my concubine is a reed, and the reed is like silk, and the rock does not turn", but in the end, it is inevitable that "I will die today, and my soul will die!" Love tragedy.
Liu Lanzhi is a tragedy. Fortunately, there are two luckiest things in her life. One is that time has finally exhausted her love for him. One day long ago, she met Jiao Zhongqing.
Even if she went to the swimming pool, she wouldn't hesitate. Facing the powerful enemy of feudal ethics, we can only fight with the sword of love!
From now on, don't miss each other again. Acacia and junjue.
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The person I miss is in the far south. Why ask Yi-jun? The double beads are tortoiseshell, and the jade color is dazzling. Then I heard that you changed your mind, and I broke my hair hairpin in anger. When the wind blows, it will be destroyed and burned. From now on, don't miss each other again. Acacia and junjue. I'm determined to break up with you, but I think of the sweetness when we first met, and I'm afraid. When the princess shouted, the autumn wind cooled the morning wind. The east will understand in an instant.
-"Thinking"
I have to admit that thousands of years ago, such a simple farewell was rare.
Even if you say, "From now on, don't miss each other. Acacia junjue. " People who make such remarks are somewhat sad behind them. A stubborn and helpless woman, in the face of breaking up, should she cry for help or pretend to be happy in front of others?
I don't know the beginning of fate. The end of fate, I don't know where it ends. If we lost you and didn't collapse in front of you, you might think we didn't love enough, right? However, even if you collapse, he still can't come back, right?
Why don't we write a farewell poem? Over the years, there should be all kinds of beautiful scenery and thousands of customs. And the traces you left in your life will one day drift away like snow claws and memories of past lives.
Losing love is not necessarily a bad thing! Your palm has left his fingerprints, and your heart has been loaded with the most prosperous things in the world, which is enough. I feel sorry for your loss, but this is just a dead love.
3. I still have tears in my eyes, and I don't meet each other before I get married.
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You know I have a husband and you want to give me a pair of pearls. I thank you for your love and pin the pearl on my red shirt. My home is connected with the imperial garden, and my husband is on duty in the palace with a halberd. Although I know you are sincere to Lang Lang, I have vowed to share my life and death with my husband. Return your double beads, my eyes are full of tears, and I regret not meeting you before I got married.
-Zhang Ji's Yin Jiefu Tang
How to choose a new lover when he meets an old one?
A woman met a man who fell in love with her passionately after marriage, and he gave her two "pearls" to show his love. Women also have a good impression on men, but they can't do without their husbands. Hold back your tears and return the pearls sent by men. At that time, she must have endured tears.
It must be false to say that there is no resentment in my heart. Only complain, meet each other late. Even if you are the person I admire, I can't live up to your sincerity.
True love is rare. A casual meeting will become an indelible Zhu Shazhi in her heart! However, the regret of love is not because it is not obtained. The most painful regret in love should be that after meeting, you can't get it and lose it. Just like this song, "Tears belong to the pearl, I hate not meeting before I get married."
This love should be long-lasting. If you don't care, I'll rest.
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Lonely pillows are easy to have butterfly dreams, and singing shoes is afraid of going to the phoenix building. This should be a long-term relationship. If you don't mind, I'll take a break.
The first time I knew this poem was in Book and Sword by Mr. Jin Yong. Yu Yutong is infatuated with robing, but he doesn't know that he is heartless. Yu Yutong was disheartened. Seeing this sentence by chance, he suddenly woke up and converted to Buddhism.
Of course, this poem is not a Buddhist rhyme. Some people say that this poem was written by Zhang, who "took the whole Tang Dynasty in one stroke". In fact, judging from the style of poetry, it should be modern poetry, and it is impossible to know who wrote it.
Whether it's an ancient poem or a modern parody, when it comes to the rejection of love, this poem is no less than Zhuo Wenjun's "Whitehead Poetry". Love has never been a commodity, not how much you pay, how much you can get. Falling in love with you is my wishful thinking, and leaving you is my own business. If I can't stay with you for a long time, then stop. I don't like you either.
Sounds like anger. Who can say that this is not a kind of letting go? Just like Goethe's "I love you, it has nothing to do with you", love is a state, an emotion and a mysterious feeling. Frankly speaking, I like it, frankly speaking, I am sad, frankly speaking, I promise, frankly speaking, I love and give up, sincerely speaking, I will never be obsessed, I don't care about what I like, and let go so freely. This relationship should be long-lasting. If you are careless, I will rest. This is the dignity of love.
1. Zhuo Wenjun: Jinshui, and Ji!
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Like snow in the sky, as bright as the moon in the clouds. I heard that you have two hearts, so I came to break up with you. Today's fighting party will lead to tomorrow's ditch water. On the butterfly ditch, the river flows east and west. It's sad. When you get married, you don't have to cry. I hope to win a heart and never give up. The bamboo pole curls, the fish tail swings, and the man's spirit is heavy. Why use a money knife?
-Zhuo Wenjun's "White-headed Song"
When Zhuo Wenjun wrote "The Ballad of Bald Heads", he attached a book "Chunhua Fang Jing, five-color Su Ling, the sound of the piano is still in the palace, and the new sound replaces the old! Jinshui has a honeymoon period, and the Han Palace has water. This is new, and the embarrassing people in the world don't know! Zhu's string is broken, the mirror is out of sight, and he looks at Lulu, smells fragrant, sings with white heads, and leaves sorrow. Try to eat as much as possible, don't miss the concubine, and make soup with water and talk to the gentleman! "
In the face of her husband's change of heart, she has no little woman's cry, no woman's accusation and anger. She has a clear mind and uses sentence-by-sentence reading as a footnote. I think she has always loved him and doesn't want to lose him. She wrote this poem with blood and tears to express her affection and her attitude.
How simple and simple it is to want to live with someone forever. This wish has been passed down for thousands of years, and how many lucky people have received it? This extravagant hope sounds far away, but if you love me, we will go hand in hand. If not, please get out of my life.
Jinshui Tang Tang, and Chang Jun tactic!
Since having her, the book of love has become a magnificent epic!