# Video number: Lin Lang Amber
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The true meaning of life
Never been anywhere else.
In the daily struggle bit by bit.
Every return trip
All for a better start.
Every stop
It's all about accumulating strength.
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Putting words into children's hearts: high-quality parent-child communication
2. How to make children fully trust us?
There is an essential difference between trust and confidence.
Self-confidence means "believing in what you can do and what you have the ability to accomplish", which is the driving force of behavior;
Trust is "I believe I deserve it and I have the ability to give it", which is a strong sense of security.
Take away the pure trust of children, mainly because of the following three behaviors:
First of all, parents' "love recovery" for their children will inadvertently send a signal to their children that parents are not trustworthy.
Second, strict or harsh discipline is a terrible act to destroy children's simple trust.
Third, closing the door for help is the last straw to crush children's simple trust.
appreciate
I still slept late last night. Today, my mobile phone 1 1 turned off automatically, and I didn't bring my mobile phone into the bedroom. When I wake up in the morning, it is 5: 13, leaving early and returning late. The live broadcast of Sister Fengling is still at 5: 30. I feel that life is so regular and rhythmic! Love this feeling! Starting today, we have to adjust 1 1, so we have to sleep.
Today is the 50th day when Sister Fengling accompanied her to read The Analects.
Today's learning content:
All three schools are committed to "courage". Confucius said, "Look at each other and see the crowd, and the son of heaven sees it."
Translation:
Uncle Sun and the three sang the poem "Yong" to eliminate the sacrifice. Confucius said, "The poem" Yong "says that" all governors come to help sacrifice, and the emperor is ready to sacrifice ".How can it be used in the temple of the three doctors?"
Thanks to Sister Fengling for her careful preparation and interpretation every day! The live broadcast room has attracted more and more big coffees!
I am grateful to the friends who write the Analects of Confucius every day.
Today is the third day that Dabao dropped out of school and the second day that he will never hit his children again. I talked with three teachers of Dabao last night, and had a heart-to-heart talk with him before going to bed, which obviously played a role and made great progress compared with the previous two days. Get up early in the morning and read early. Make a list of the homework assigned by the teacher and set your own time. The biggest progress is in writing, which is much neater, and the situation of writing and erasing is also reduced (it needs to give him time). It's really the mentality that determines everything! Today, I am busy with my work. He does his homework in the online class and submits photos to the teacher. You offered to help me after class! The atmosphere suddenly became harmonious. Emotional guidance has played a certain role.
A good mood every day begins with getting up early to study! Today is 1 1 day of Happy Reading Club, and the content of * * * is 9 1- 100 page. Continue reading Chapter 4 today and learn from today's study:
1. Why doesn't the reward work?
A lists some common problems that may be caused by rewarding.
B. What to do if you don't praise (list five practical methods)
2. What if the child loses his temper?
The author shared four skills according to different situations.
No matter what kind of temper, don't be tit-for-tat with your child. The more parents try to control their children, the more they will resist. Respect and guidance will be of great help to parents to guide angry children, and unconditional love and care of parents will make children really happy.
3. What if the child loses his temper in public?
(The book provides three methods for reference.)
Be grateful
Grateful sister Fengling leads everyone to learn The Analects at 5: 30 every morning. At 5: 30 in the afternoon, I will lead you to read Partial Psychology.
Thanks to Koharu for feeding me early in the morning. I feel beautiful all day!
Thank you for your careful interpretation and sharing! The atmosphere in the live broadcast room is very good. Thank you for your active interaction!
Thanks to Sister Fengling for the Heilongjiang specialty!
Thank you for your silent efforts!
Appreciate Mr. Dabao's concern and patience during the suspension period!
Thank you for your cooperation!
Appreciate yourself for your continuous efforts to grow.
Be grateful for the beauty of life!
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