1, train your sensibility. When sensitivity is sharper, richer and richer, the connection with everything and people will be deeper and closer. Like the roots of a big tree, it extends in all directions and hugs the land tightly. Like the veins of thousands of leaves, feel the information of every wind.
In this way, the tree of life is alive. The deeper and thinner the roots are, the more stable the tree will be and will not blow in all directions. The stronger the heart, the less easily it is influenced.
"Feeling" is your own, belonging to the body and mind. "Knowing" often stays in your mind and you can't say your own words, so the feeling of "being alive" will be a bit weak.
2. accurate expression.
Expression is too important, especially in interpersonal relationships.
When people speak, there are often two levels, one is the factual level and the other is the emotional level.
In the same way, there will be different directions in different time and space.
What matters is the feeling, not the preconceived concept of the mind. The sense of use is also to live in the present, and set with patterns, often people are in front of you, but you can't see the real him (her). Being in the beautiful scenery, you will miss it face to face.
3. Poetic habitation does not necessarily mean that you should be able to write poems, but you should have a keen sense to make life lively. In the relationship, being able to be truly present is to truly observe yourself and understand each other in the present time and space; Can describe clearly and express accurately, without causing too many misunderstandings and reducing emotions.
If life has more smooth flow, feels more beauty, experiences more beauty and creates more beauty, it has already begun to live poetically.
Of course, in modern society, we study and write poetry, not in vernacular Chinese, three or five lines, as in modern poetry; The most important thing is the poetry represented by The Book of Songs, as well as the excellent poems of various dynasties. Nowadays, many places talk about the Book of Songs, online and offline, and outside the group, often emphasizing learning poetry, which helps to improve their "sense" ability; The deeper you learn poetry, the stronger your ability to feel, the stronger your humanity, the richer and more delicate it is, and the more human it is.
Poetry, poetry, is to be written and sung; So the ancients used music to educate people, which is called music education. The ancients attached great importance to music education, whether it was family or court. The origin of poetry, and most of the time in history, is for enlightenment. In other words, poetry is a very advanced education. In ancient times, there was a special music guidance office, and the civil servants engaged in music education were music officials. The person in charge of writing lyrics, that is, the official who writes and collects poems, is the poetry official. Music officers in a broad sense include a whole set of work from lyrics, composition, arrangement, production, singing and performance, choreography and instrumental music.
Poetry is an important part of etiquette and music education, and it is the basis of governing the country by virtue. Among the six Confucian classics, The Book of Songs and Jing Yue rank second, which shows the importance of The Book of Songs. So the ancients attached great importance to music education. If music education is chaotic, people's morality will be chaotic. Confucius said, "There are 300 poems. In a word, it says' thinking naively'. " The political function of the 300 poems in The Book of Songs can be summarized by a poem in The Book of Songs Truffle Biography, that is, "Respect the right path of the three kings and be impartial."
If you don't learn poetry, there is nothing to say; If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it * * * Encourage!