In the popular variety show "Multiple Choice in Life", Stephy said: I don't believe in love at first sight. Love lasts for a long time, and you can't just fall in love with someone who only sees one side and doesn't know it.
So, is love love at first sight or love for a long time?
Stephy and Nathan Scott Lee got to know each other because of the shooting of a TV series. When they first met, they didn't think much of each other, and even felt that there was nothing they liked about each other.
However, after getting along with each other for a period of time, Qi Wei slowly discovered the bright spots in each other's body, and these bright spots became her favorite reasons.
Later, after they confirmed their love relationship, they got married in less than a month, and less than five months later, Stephy gave birth to their daughter lucky, the crystallization of love.
In Life's Multiple-choice Questions, Qi Wei once revealed herself: I don't believe in love at first sight, and love takes time to grow. If you don't know someone, how can you like them for a long time until you get married?
Because Stephy and Nathan Scott Lee got to know each other before marriage, and knew all the shortcomings and advantages of each other, and they understood and tolerated each other after marriage, they always looked sweet and happy when they appeared in public after five years of marriage. After marriage, Nathan Scott Lee also started the mode of showing off his wife.
When Nathan Scott Lee participated in a variety show in South Korea, she proudly said to the Korean host: My wife is Stephy, and she is one of the top ten beauties of China stars. The photo of Stephy and him was specially announced in the program, and no one in the audience did not praise him. Unexpectedly, the photo of Stephy and him was the first in the hot search the next day.
After getting married, Nathan Scott Lee made Qi Wei a princess. In China, the traditional marriage mode is that the man is the master and the woman is the master, while the two are the master and the woman. Apart from daily work, Nathan Scott Lee spends most of his time taking care of his family and his daughter. Someone once questioned him, but Nathan Scott Lee said: They are my family, and it is my greatest responsibility to take care of them.
A writer once said, "Love is the real fate after a long time. People who like you want your present, while those who love you want your future. "
that kind of love at first sight is like a flash in the pan. Only after the precipitation of time, the feelings in the long-lasting love will be stronger.
In love, only those who really know can accompany you to go further.
2 Xu Zhimo and Lin Weiyin: Love at first sight
There is such a fate: when two people meet in the subway, love at first sight appears at the moment when two trains heading for different directions open the door at the same time, and the two people standing opposite each other look at each other, and the intense feeling of generate is instantly blooming?
this is love at first sight.
When Xu Zhimo met Lin Huiyin, she was in her youth. This great talent in poetry felt her extraordinary temperament and was fascinated by her intelligence, beauty and liveliness. What he dreamed of most was her love for literature and her keen observation, which became the reason for falling in love with her at first sight.
Subsequently, Xu Zhimo launched a fierce pursuit of Lin Huiyin, and Lin Huiyin became the goddess in Xu Zhimo's poems and the object of his eulogy.
The famous poem Farewell to Cambridge is written by Xu Zhimo for Lin Huiyin. In the poem, "In the gentle waves of the Kanghe River, I am willing to be a water plant", which implies that Xu Zhimo would rather be a water plant and be with Lin Huiyin at all times.
In the face of Xu Zhimo's infatuation, Lin Huiyin didn't indulge in it. She knew that Xu Zhimo's love at first sight was just an illusion and spiritual sustenance for love, so she didn't promise him.
Later, Lin Huiyin chose Mr. Liang Sicheng, who shared her ideals. Together, they supported each other and made great contributions to the construction industry in China.
Lin Huiyin once said: "Xu Zhimo didn't really love me at that time, but he imagined Lin Huiyin with the romantic mood imagined by the poet, but I was not the person he thought."
Love at first sight is only about the face, not the appearance. True love still needs time to test whether the other person is suitable for you. Only the one that suits you is the best match.
Some people envy Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin's love at first sight. "Once they meet, they will see each other for ten thousand years"; Some people like the long-lasting relationship between Stephy and Nathan Scott Lee, saying, "Time will tell, and the water will flow forever.".
In fact, truly happy love is mutual understanding after falling in love at first sight or growing up for a long time. The two people have the same view and the same taste. When they are together, they can understand and tolerate each other, stand the time and stand the test.
in love, whether it's love at first sight or love for a long time, only what suits you is the most important.
the monk asked, which do you think is better, a piece of gold or a pile of mud?
the seeker answers, of course it's gold!
the monk said with a smile, what if you were a seed?
gold is certainly pleasing, but for a seed, it is not gold that is suitable for it, but a pile of mud that provides it with nutrition.
love is like putting on shoes, and you won't know whether it fits on your feet or not. Whether it is love at first sight or love for a long time, it is really appropriate to be comfortable together.
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