Dai Wangshu's love

I used to like Dai Wangshu's Rain Lane. "Holding an oil-paper umbrella, I wandered in a long, lonely rain lane. I hope to meet a girl with a lilac knot. " Today, many years later, poetry can still be blurted out without thinking. At that time, I didn't quite understand the meaning of that poem, but I really hope that I am the girl who is both sad and angry. Dai Wangshu's poems are romantic, soft, delicate and gentle. But his love is like a withered flower, pale and powerless, which is different from his poems. Dai Wangshu had his first love, but it ended without results; I have had two painful marriages, both of which ended in Lao Yan's parting ways. Unexpectedly, such a versatile poet committed suicide many times in order to save his first love and his marriage. Suicide didn't bring him what he wanted, but only increased the pain in his life. As the saying goes: "Gold is not full of red, and no one is perfect." Who would have thought that a lover and his wife would turn against a man who can write such affectionate and romantic poems because he is boring? There are always many people and things living in a corner of this world in ways we don't know or know. We can only sigh but have no right to judge. We always read about ourselves from other people's stories. My girlfriend's husband is a very talented person, eloquent and enviable. When you are in love with your girlfriend, letters, love letters and love poems keep coming, which often surprises your girlfriend and makes us envy. But in the end, he betrayed his girlfriend, betrayed his marriage, and told his love poems and love words to one woman after another, only to his wife, and never had this talent again. Throughout the history of literature, many of them are well known to us. Most of them are passionate and romantic, and the women around them are like beautiful flowers in the four seasons, which have opened one crop after another. Perhaps a passionate life can inspire people to create such touching stories and poems. As everyone knows, there are many women's tears, sadness and unknown pain behind the beauty. Some things, some people, can only be impeccable when they are far away, shining in the external outline, especially dazzling. Close, visible and tangible, is the real life, even if it is not riddled with holes, it is also covered with lice robes. I was deeply moved by Dai Wangshu's love. Also let me know that ordinary people, like us, feel at ease to be themselves, which is the most important. A lot of seemingly harmonious love and life may have been destroyed inside. Only those who are in it can appreciate the taste. Fortunately or unfortunately, it is not enough for outsiders. So, don't envy, don't desire, what you have may be the most suitable for you. Envy things you don't know, including love, career, children, and all kinds of things in life, a little lost, a little lost. As the old saying goes, contentment is always happy, and only contentment can make you happy.