In the 21st century, we live in an era of rapid development of information. The Internet is highly popular, and computers, tablets, and mobile phones can be seen everywhere in our lives. We are surrounded by the invisible network. We have become netizens, mobile phone addicts, and bowheads.
We are always sitting, lying down, or lying down, swimming in the online world. Watching your favorite movies and TV series, watching how your favorite gods or goddesses interpret their "life", as the plot develops, you may be happy, or feel sorry for their miserable lives; or you may play online games and be in another world. In it, they interpret the life they like, whether they are happy and grudges, or in the Mood for Love, or passionately conquering the world, or eating chicken happily with strange brothers and sisters; or gossiping about celebrities' scandals, scandals, and anecdotes on entertainment headlines, whatever Comment without remembering the consequences, and become a fan for no reason, and then become an Internet troll without knowing it; or become addicted to a certain chat software, join a certain group because of a certain interest, and meet friends from all over the world. , chatting, gossiping, teasing, playing, and having a great time; or abandoning all shyness, putting on beautiful clothes, showing beautiful photos, becoming a talented and beautiful woman, free of charge Try to seduce the heart of that real or fake god (goddess) with all kinds of sweet words and all kinds of jokes that you can’t say anymore. Don’t waste your time bombarding the other person with all your heart. You just want him or her to smile happily and remember you. Look forward to developing a love romance with him or her.
Our lives, our lives, are unconsciously tied to the Internet. Eating, walking, waiting for the elevator, going to the toilet, before going to bed, etc., always seize every scrap of free time, pick up the phone and take a look, whether there is new information or not, habitually scroll through the circle of friends and look at the various posts of friends. They take selfies or laugh at themselves about life and work, and passively accept the invasion of their various positive or negative energies.
At some point, our lives have become indispensable without mobile phones or computers, and our lives cannot be separated from the Internet. When eating, shopping, traveling, or alone, I always pick up my phone to browse, search, pay, or kill boring time. Without WIFI or Internet, we would always feel inexplicably lost, inexplicably uncomfortable and frightened, not knowing how to deal with ourselves and how to pass the days without Internet.
Many times, when we are addicted to the Internet, at home, at the dinner table, in front of the TV, or at the bedside, we always look at our phones from time to time to see what we are browsing, for fear of missing something. Interaction and communication with family members are becoming less and less. The picture of laughter and laughter no longer becomes the background of the home, and the joy of sharing has become the joy of being alone. The warm and harmonious scenes are no longer replaced by scenes of each other looking at each other speechless, each bowing his head to amuse himself.
In many families, we can often find such a scene. After the meal, the adults sat on the sofa, each with his head down and holding his mobile phone, happily watching the show, browsing various messages, chatting, or playing games; while the children were also playing with their heads down. On their mobile phones, they watch their favorite cartoons, or play games, and happily point the way to start a passionate life. The whole family is playing their own thing without disturbing each other. The scene is very harmonious and quiet.
Poetry and distance are no longer a journey to get close to nature, savor the beautiful scenery, let yourself go and gain a good mood. Most of them take selfies, post various beautiful pictures, record where they have been, what they saw, what they ate, and look forward to the routine activities of friends to like them.
Communication between people no longer relies on the proximity of space. Face to face, I look into your eyes, listen to your words, feel your sincerity, and receive the information you send. They rely more on the Internet. In the virtual world, they receive information from each other through pictures, text, and voice. They simply judge each other's sincerity and hypocrisy based on personal preferences, and screen the authenticity of the information.
In this way, the speed and slowness of the Internet affect our emotions, the length and duration of the Internet control our happiness index, and our lives are inextricably bound by the Internet.
When there is no WIFI, no network, and the phone is out of battery, we feel a little uncomfortable and frightened. Do we remember that the Internet was once our means of obtaining information? Do we remember that the Internet is just to make our lives and work more convenient? A convenient tool?
It is undeniable that we cannot live without the Internet in the Internet age. But our life and life cannot be limited to the Internet. We should not also be in love with the virtual world. There are many things worthy of our attention.
The love and hate in the real world, the warmth and warmth of human relationships, and the joys, sorrows, and joys of life require us to participate and comprehend; the warmth, harmony, and joy of home require us to participate and create; the world between people Trustful interaction and the authenticity of emotions require reality testing, which cannot be replaced by the Internet. The online world is just a virtual world. Even if there are all kinds of good things in it, we have to return to reality eventually. We need to face daily necessities, need to face the warmth and coldness of human relationships, need reality, and need to live.
Finally, I would like to advise those who are addicted to the Internet: put down your mobile phone at the right time and stay away from the Internet world, talk with your family, talk about their confusion or happy things, play or work together to create a happy family; go outside Walk around, look at the scenery everywhere, savor the magnificence of natural scenery, and talk to nature. Don’t constantly take pictures to refresh your circle of friends and blaspheme poetry and the purity of the distance; when you are alone, read a book, or novel, or prose, or poetry, Have a conversation with the author across time and space, and of course you can also listen to music.
Living in the Internet age cannot be without the Internet, but the Internet cannot replace everything in our lives.