Lin Daiyu is sentimental and has strong self-esteem. She is out of tune with Li Jingjia's family environment. She is arrogant and aloof, not for anyone's shallow arrogance, but for the pride, arrogance and self-esteem of troubled times and its representatives, and will never bow her head! Xue Baochai is more calculating. He is smooth, talented, knowledgeable, intelligent, highly cultivated and has a deep kung fu. His level and skill in dealing with personnel are beyond the reach of ordinary people.
1, Daiyu is idealized and Baochai is realistic.
Daiyu's ideal behavior is much higher than that of people of her time, but her ideal is contrary to the world, and she loves to act according to her own mind too much, and she loves to maintain noble quality too much, and she doesn't care about the people around her, so it is inevitable to lose. Baochai's realistic thoughts and behaviors are in line with the realistic concept, and she treats people just right and is smarter than others. It's not surprising that you finally won the favor of your grandmother.
Daiyu is a poet and Baochai is a politician.
Lin Daiyu is talented and quick-witted, and her poems are superior to others. She is kind and pure, rebellious to realistic thoughts and opposed to Baoyu's' career economy'. She is sincere and practical, and her emotions are all outside, but narrow-minded often hurts people. Baochai is sensible, tolerant and easy-going, aware of the times, taking care of the overall situation and caring about practical interests. Baochai generally gives people the impression that she is "open-minded and practical". Daiyu was a little depressed and didn't get angry with her. Baochai never took it to heart. Baochai's meticulous observation of people, the likes and dislikes of grandmother Jia, the temperament and habits of sisters and maids are all kept in mind, so she often wins people's favor. Xue Baochai is a typical politician who understands the world.
3. Daiyu is too romantic and Baochai is realistic and rational.
There is nothing wrong with romance, but being too romantic becomes infatuation, infatuation and bondage in love, looking for sadness and hatred, depression and unhappiness, difficulty in speaking, jealousy and anger. Of course, it is lovely to be angry like Daiyu. Why else would Baoyu like her so much? Baochai's reality and rationality not only brought her a good reputation, but also brought her indifference; Brought her the success of secular marriage and the failure of love. On the contrary, Daiyu succeeded in falling in love. Although she died, she won the love of Baoyu's life. Because Baoyu only has Daiyu in his heart, Baochai has been like a puppet all day since she married Baochai. It can be seen that Baoyu's soul has gone with his sister Lin.
Comparison of poetry creation;
The poems of Baochai and Daiyu are difficult to compare. Xue Baochai's "Crab Poetry" is a masterpiece, and I'm afraid it's unprecedented, and there will be no one after it. She has many other well-written poems, and of course there are some poems suitable for occasions. But compared with Daiyu, it is very different. For example, Baochai used four genres, while Daiyu used eight genres, namely, five unique, seven unique, five laws, seven laws, poems, words and so on. Baochai has 4 kinds of 9 words with 444 characters, Daiyu has 8 kinds of 25 words with 256 sentences, 1659 characters, and the genre is three times more than her. Through this statistics, we can also find some problems: Baochai and Daiyu are both good at writing poems, but Baochai only participates in group activities and has no free activities. Many activities of Daiyu are her personal freedom. Moreover, Daiyu participated in group activities in order to give full play to her talents as much as possible. She won three topics in one lap and should write more. Baochai didn't sing, but Daiyu's poems about flowers buried in autumn windows were well written.
Daiyu uses poetry as a means to express her inner feelings and anguish, so her poems are full of blood and tears and sincere feelings. Even though this feeling may sometimes be narrow, or even misunderstood and misleading, it is sincere. Look at her handkerchief poem. She writes three poems at a time, and one poem can't fully express that feeling, so she has to write a song and a long poem can fully express her feelings.
In the final analysis, the difference between them is caused by their poetic ideas, that is, their differences lie in their different values. Xue Baochai takes poetry as the way, and talented women as the virtue. It's best not to read, because writing too much will make learned people laugh at us for not keeping our duty. She couldn't help taking part in the group activities. I'll write if you write. Daiyu is not like this. Part of Daiyu's life form is poetry, which has been integrated with her life.