In this letter dated19541the evening of October 30th, Fu Lei thinks that young people should understand the feelings of their elders and respect the opinions of the elderly. Elders should overcome their weaknesses such as backwardness, pedantry, impatience and lack of attention to speaking skills.
In the letter 1954 10.02, it is mentioned that his son is facing setbacks and mental pain. As a father, Fu Lei first comforted his son in the letter so that he didn't have to worry about his parents. Secondly, two points must be affirmed: first, parents will always be the object of their children's distress; Second, people's life is spent in the ups and downs of emotions. Finally, as an experienced person, I give Fu Cong some advice on how to deal with emotional ups and downs.
4. In a letter to his son Fu Cong in May 1955, Fu Lei said: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty or inexplicable, but has several functions.
"First: I really regard you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second: I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people and let my father get some fresh nutrients. It can also be transmitted to other young people; Third, it is not only your words that exercise you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth: I want to remind you all the time, whether in life or in other aspects, to be an "artist with excellent morality and art"
In the letter dated1May 24th, 956, Fu Lei said, "I totally agree with you to take part in the Mozart Competition". The reasons are as follows: "first: because you are sure; Second: because you don't need to practice your skills too hard; Third: the program is not too heavy, and in the summer vacation, it does not hinder learning. "
6. In his letter to his son in March 1957, Fu Lei mentioned the law of life and the balance between body and mind, hoping that his son would always be a compassionate and strong man.
Extended data:
The Letter from Fu Lei is an excerpt from the letters that Fu Lei and his wife wrote to their children Fu Cong and Fu Min during the period of 1954- 1966. This book is an excellent reading for teenagers' ideological accomplishment, a classic model of quality education and a masterpiece of teaching children full of father's love.
Their two children (Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher) who have been painstakingly trained, educating them to be human first, and then to be "home" is a successful embodiment of cultivating children to think independently and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so the Fu Lei couple have also become China's model parents.
Fu Lei (1908- 1966) is a translator and literary critic. He translated Hong Fu all his life, with 34 translations.
References:
Baidu Encyclopedia-Letter from Fu Lei