This is not only a common sense lesson, but also a way for mother and son to experience the rhythm of life together. If you get up in the morning, say "good morning!" " Give it to the fetus first. Tell him (her) that morning has arrived. Open the curtains, ah, the sun is rising and the sun shines all over the earth. At this time, you can tell your baby, "Today is a sunny day." There are many things to teach about the weather, such as cloudy days, rain and snow. In addition, the external temperature, wind and humidity can all be used as the topic of prenatal education. You can also explain your daily habits, such as why you wash your face and brush your teeth, why your father shaves, why your mother wears makeup, why soap bubbles, and why a hair dryer can dry your hair. Even a small bathroom is enough for you to talk about a small topic continuously every day. Then there is clothing and appearance. Imagine yourself in the mirror and send the information to the fetus in the womb. When you are ready to wear it yourself, your thoughts and actual images are expressed in words. In the mind of the fetus. When you are ready to wear it yourself, your thoughts and actual images are expressed in words. In the process of transforming thinking into language, your thinking impression becomes more vivid, and the fetus will gradually accept this information. In short, describing everything in life to the fetus is the most important and basic thing in prenatal education. By feeling, thinking and acting together with the fetus, the bond between mother and child is stronger, and the foundation of the fetus' trust to the mother, sensitivity to the outside world and thinking ability is cultivated.
Secondly, we can't ignore literary language. Literature, like music, easily affects people's mood. Conveying elegant literary works to the fetus in soft language is the best teaching material to cultivate children's imagination, originality and enterprising spirit. Let the fetus and mother feel the interest of literature together, cultivate the emotion of art and promote the development of the brain.
Literature is an emotional art, which can inspire pregnant women to love their sons. Pregnant women slowly recited Zhu Ziqing's Moonlight on the Lotus Pond. Beautiful artistic conception and quiet charm can not only eliminate worries, improve mental state and promote physical and mental balance, but also optimize the fetal environment, so that the fetus has good personality and emotional stability after birth.
Pregnant women need to choose to read literary works. Many literary masterpieces are good in ideology and artistry, but they are not necessarily suitable for pregnant women. Most women like sentimental novels, and pregnant women often read such novels, which will make them think too much and increase their psychological burden. Novels describing violence and pornography will also make pregnant women fear, sad and disgusted, and should be avoided. It is best for pregnant women to read more fairy tales, fables and children's picture books, and enlarge their fantasy world and your imaginative brain to the fetus to promote the healthy mental growth of the fetus. Read some ancient poems, feel the interest of literature in noble literature, and thus achieve the purpose of nourishing emotions. When reading and communicating with the fetus, pregnant women must pour out their emotions, and all emotions will be transmitted to the fetus through emotional tone. Moreover, not only reading aloud, but also visualizing these languages through your five senses, so as to convey them to the fetus more specifically, because the fetus accepts your language not with the body, but with the brain. Reading more literary works can make life during pregnancy artistic and optimize the mood of pregnant women. This will not only enable pregnant women to spend their pregnancy better, but also better maintain the mother-child relationship.
Observe the fetal reaction
Telling stories or reading poems to your baby every day will make her feel at ease and happy. Repeating the same story will cultivate the baby's sensitive language awareness, curiosity about things and understanding the family's love for her.
Choose a fairy tale you like and two poems suitable for your baby. Choose rich, lively and happy stories, preferably stories full of love and peace. Never avoid stories with violent and sad themes.
In addition, don't choose stories that must take more than 10 minutes to finish. Because after two or three days, you don't want to read such a long story. Choose short stories with illustrations.
You can choose the same or different stories as your husband and read them to your baby in turn every day. About a month, pay attention to whether the baby has a special reaction to some sentences in the story.
For example, when you tell a story, is the baby quiet? Did the baby kick his stomach when he said some special sentences? Of course, this does not mean that the fetus understands the meaning of the sentence, but maybe it is just the baby's reaction to different tones. Change the story and see if the baby's reaction will change. Does the baby react differently to your voice and your husband's voice?
However, don't expect the baby's reaction too much, and don't worry because the baby doesn't respond. It should be believed that the sound transmitted to the baby every day will inevitably improve the sensitivity of the fetus to language little by little.
Skills of talking to the fetus
I hope you can try the following suggestions:
(1) Please relax yourself and choose a comfortable sitting position; Don't take talking to the fetus as a kind of homework, don't force it, and don't set too many goals. It's best to do it in nature.
(2) Take the baby's name first, and then call him (her) with this baby's name.
(3) Emotional intonation. Slow down, the fetus can understand better. Fetuses don't like high and sharp sounds.
(4) Please talk to the fetus in an adult tone and try to avoid children's language.
(5) It is advisable to talk to the fetus for no more than 10 minutes each time, and then rest for at least 40 minutes.
(6) Observe the rest time of the fetus from the fetal movement and choose to have a dialogue when he is awake.
(7) Talk to the fetus, tell stories, and try to use "repetition" to teach words and vocabulary. You don't have to worry that he will get bored, because "repetition" is conducive to the accurate learning of the fetus.
The content of the dialogue with the fetus
For the following suggestions, you can choose a few that are more suitable for you:
(1) Say good morning to the fetus and wake him up; Say good night to him and wish him a sweet dream.
(2) Share your feelings and reasons with the fetus, whether good or bad. Always say "I love you".
(3) Tell the fetus what you ate this meal, how it tasted, and how it helped your health.
(4) tell the fetus what you are doing now; You can explain "why" to him when you encounter negative things.
(5) tell stories to the fetus. You can make it up by yourself or read it according to the book. The most important thing is to bring your feelings in, or add some interest to make the story more vivid.
(6) Sing for the fetus, whether you are tone deaf or not, please sing with your heart, slowly and clearly.
(7) Prepare some picture cards for preschool children, with words, numbers or animals written on them (not too many), and concentrate on reading them to the fetus one by one at a fixed time.
Tell the baby a story.
There are prenatal education classes and teaching materials everywhere in life, depending on whether you have the heart, whether you have poured all your love, patience and confidence into your baby. Pregnant women should have children's literature literacy, not only classical literature and poetry, but also children's favorite nursery rhymes, fairy tales and stories. They can choose appropriate content and recite it to the fetus in their spare time after meals.
Tell the baby anything.
Talk to the baby in the womb every morning and evening, no matter inside or outside, as long as it is in your heart, you can tell the baby. The only thing to grasp is that no matter what you say to the baby, what you and your husband can say to the baby must be told to the baby. The only thing to grasp is that no matter what you say to the baby, you must pass on the love you and your husband have for the baby.
When work pressure is high and life is not smooth, you can try to talk to your baby. Talk about your feelings and express your love for your baby. Talk to your baby in kind and sincere language, and use plain language. Never abuse loudly.
If it is inconvenient outside, you can also say it in your heart instead of saying it out loud. When husbands or other people want to talk to their babies, they should also be encouraged to talk to them as much as possible. When the husband is not at home, he can also record it and bring it to the baby.
Chapter VI Music Prenatal Education
Classification of prenatal education music
There are two kinds of prenatal music, one is for the baby in the womb, and the other is for the pregnant woman herself.
Special prenatal music for pregnant women is prenatal music that pregnant women listen to themselves. You can listen to it with headphones or from the speaker, and the volume should not be too loud. Beautiful music can adjust our psychological mood and physiological function, make us relaxed and happy, and make our heart, blood vessels, digestive organs and even endocrine in a normal state; Smooth melody and rhythm is a good stimulus to the development of fetal brain, which can make the fetus feel calm and beneficial to the development of fetus.
Fetal Music is a music tape of fetal education, which has special requirements in frequency, rhythm and emotional characteristics. Listening to music tapes for the fetus should start in the fifth month of pregnancy, when the fetus has already heard them. Listen to the fetus 1 or 2 times a day, each time 15 minutes. Choose melodious piano and violin music, not exciting rock music. Don't turn up the volume too loud. In order to facilitate the baby's memory, each piece of music is played repeatedly for about 10 days.
The benefits of classical music to the fetus and pregnant women
According to scholars' research, classical music can provide good auditory stimulation for the fetus, which is quite helpful for prenatal education. Some scholars even pointed out that classical music, especially the music of Baroque period, will promote the formation of the brain and make the spirit more stable. Studies have shown that the fetus begins to have hearing ability at about four to five months. After that, if the fetus is regularly stimulated by sound, such as classical music and parents' whispers, it can promote the development of fetal sensory nerve and sensory center of cerebral cortex. Repeated stimulation with the same sound can form a shallow memory in the fetal brain, which makes the fetus' hearing more sensitive after birth and lays the foundation for intellectual development.
Many pregnant women have had a similar experience that the fetus can hear sounds outside the mother's body, that is, when the sky thunders, when walking on the road, when hearing sharp car horns or other unpleasant noises, the fetus in the abdomen is easily frightened and fidgety. On the contrary, if you play soft and beautiful music, the fetal movement will become softer and more regular.
On the other hand, the spirit and mood of pregnant women not only affect her, but also affect the fetus. In addition to having a direct impact on the fetus, pleasant prenatal music can also keep pregnant women in a stable state, maintain a relaxed and happy mood, coordinate the endocrine system of the body, and help the fetus grow and develop in the best environment. If pregnant women are often nervous, the body will release adrenaline, which will have adverse effects on the fetus through blood and placenta. Experiments have proved that if pregnant women are in a noisy and restless environment for a long time, the fetus may be lighter.
Soft classical music or new age music can also help pregnant women relax and divert their attention from the pain during childbirth. In the process of natural production, soft music is combined with Rameze's breath.