The ancients kissed, but most gentlemen did not kiss their wives, including during sexual intercourse. A gentleman only kisses his concubine, but his wife must respect her, so she doesn't kiss her. The ancients called kissing "be good", which was what they said after entering the bridal chamber when taking a concubine. Sometimes, on the night when the concubine is taken in, the gentleman stands at the door of the bridal chamber and refuses to enter (showing off in front of his wife). The wife pushes him in, whispers: "Be good," and then closes the door and leaves.
In ancient times, except for husbands and wives and concubines, all men and women were not allowed to touch each other skin-to-skin. As the saying goes, "men and women are not intimate in giving and receiving", even if guests came to visit, they could only say "Blessings".
In the 1930s, Chinese men and women mostly imitated Western-style "kissing" following movies and foreign culture. It was only in modern times that Chinese characteristics emerged.
Introduction: A university professor said to his students: "In ancient times, 'LV' means kissing. It is mouth-to-mouth, very vivid." One of the students asked: "What if 'LV' means kissing?" , then how do you explain 'pin'yu, three people kissing together?"
The professor was about to get angry, when another classmate stood up and said: "I think the word 'pin' is easy to explain, 'qi' Where's Yu? What's the point of four people and a dog?" The whole class burst into laughter, and the professor threw the book away.
This is a joke, just to relieve your boredom.
But the professor is indeed right. In ancient times, "Lu" meant kissing.
When did the surname Lu appear? Very early. Very early.
Kissing was something that could not be spread to other people in ancient times, but the so-called food and sex were also related to sex. The ancients, especially those in the pre-Qin period, were far more open than you and I imagined.
The ancients were probably very secretive about kissing. Therefore, there are no records of kissing in ancient classics. In other words, there is no trace at all. Looking at the ancient descriptions of "lips", they are basically limited to color and shape; and they are extremely boring. The most flavorful one is probably "Red Lips". The rest are just "red lips, white teeth" and the like. In the eyes of people nowadays, this probably only deserves one word, that is - "dizzy...!"
In terms of "lips" In understanding this point, people today can be said to have achieved a leap from phenomenon to essence. You see, today's writers and writers mostly focus on how to make lips "full" and "elastic".
In a short novel called "Zhou Yu's Train", one of the things that is repeatedly mentioned that fascinates the heroine is how good her ex-husband is at kissing. "Events" such as kissing contests can be put on the streets for people to "watch" and "reward", and they have become one of the popular entertainment projects.
At the same time, items used to beautify lips are also springing up, making the latest dictionary look embarrassing. Check the latest version of "Modern Chinese Dictionary", and there is only one "lipstick" in it, which is not satisfactory.
Little did they know that now even boys are applying "lip oil" and drawing "lip line"... And women are always superior to men in this regard, so they simply say to you - please read my lips!