The author denies three traditional views of love:
The first is the climbing Campbell flower. In order to satisfy one's vanity (show off oneself), pursue one's noble position, climb up regardless of one's own personal dignity. What kind of love is this? This is a kind of persistent love.
Secondly, spoony birds are birds that repeat monotonous songs for the shade. Because this kind of bird is infatuated unilaterally, it only sings for each other, but forgets to sing for itself with its own voice. She didn't realize the value of her existence, and she didn't know that "I am my own" while falling in love. She only knew that she was attached to the shadow of the oak tree, but she didn't want to fly out of the shelter of the oak tree and fly to her free sky. Therefore, this is a kind of.
Third, fountains, dangerous peaks, sunshine and spring rain. Most of these things are praised in other literary works. Although the poets here do not completely deny the first two, they also disagree. Because they are obsessed with the vigorous growth of oak trees without complaint, they forget to give themselves an independent world and create their own value opportunities. This spirit of self-sacrifice is commendable, but it is also inevitable. Therefore,
Ideal love:
There should be greatness and nobility, thoughts and souls, rooted in the same foundation, sharing weal and woe, and relying on each other.