Each of us is an apple bitten by God, and we all have defects. Some people have bigger flaws because God loves his fragrance.
Suffering the impact of all kinds of storms, we have tasted the joys and sorrows of the world. Whether it is joy or sorrow, we work tirelessly and stubbornly until we stop breathing.
Being alive, fascinated by desire and trapped by desire can be said to be the instinct of our animal.
If there is something immortal in life, it is the "soul".
Suffering tempers the soul.
Nine times out of ten things will go wrong in life.
But it is these sufferings that can temper our souls.
Only in this way can we achieve fruitful results in our limited life.
In this life, people always have to taste the ups and downs in order to see through all kinds of tastes and stand up to the changes of the world.
A piece of rough jade, a piece of good steel, after many trials and tribulations, is bound to be a treasure. The so-called jade is refined into steel.
The weather is sunny and the moon is full.
A person will experience some "hardships" more or less in his life.
It seems that the trap in deep still water was laid in an unexpected place, and accidentally hitting it is a life-and-death contest.
So, walking, we become cautious, wrapped in the faint hope of burning, wandering pale on the edge of the world, tasting the warmth and coldness of human feelings and pretending to be fearless.
Running, running again, full of red and white fireworks, bumpy feet.
Tired and struggling, I tried my best to squeeze into the prosperity and loneliness of the world of mortals in the gap of increasingly cramped life.
This has nothing to do with sadness or happiness.
Under the neat and gorgeous clothes, the heart is full of holes.
Chicken feathers are messy and the soul is thin and black.
What happened to those who met, some just passed by, some were still tragedies, but there are always some people who met, which can surprise time and make the rest of their lives warm and unforgettable.
This is life, always painful and happy.
Sweet and sour, joys and sorrows, where there are people, there are stories.
A lifetime, not long, is a kind of luck.
But who can erase the grandeur and elegance of going against the wind?
Seeing suffering makes people understand that everything in the world is hard-won. It makes people understand and cherish, learn to face the gains and losses calmly, suffer humiliation, and have no intention to stay.
Only after suffering can we be so calm.
Only the experience containing suffering, often with thick edges and corners, is deeply hidden in the rings of years, striking and frightening, so that you can't forget yourself and meet the most beautiful yourself without hesitation.
Because of the ups and downs at sea, we have to set sail again.
The world of mortals is rolling, and life is only a few decades in a hurry. We came to this world not to go with the flow, but to live a wonderful life.
Even the deeply buried grass seeds will break through the ground and become a landscape. Every step is fragrant and every journey is precious.
From the beginning of struggling to step into the first threshold of life, people have experienced thousands of difficulties and tests of life and death, and were born into the WTO.
Buddha said, people are born to suffer.
Suffering, in life, is inevitable, and we must face difficulties, difficulties, risks and obstacles.
These difficulties and obstacles come from personal desires, from natural and man-made disasters, or from the fiddling of fate, and they are always with you.
Some people are frightened by suffering, some people are struggling, and some people are resigned to their fate. Such a person will be like a drop of water, a grain of sand, and his short life will be lost in the silent history.
Someone conquered it and stood on the stage of history.
Prissy, who was in her seventies, was exchanged for the slave's "dog life" by five sheepskins, but she became an important minister of Qin State.
Bian He's three years' dedication to jade and perseverance made He Shibi famous all over the world.
Sima Qian suffered different punishments and eventually became the Historical Records and a swan song.
Zhu Chongba's family starved to death five people in three days, but they couldn't even afford to bury a coffin and a piece of land. He finally had to embark on the road of "rebellion", but he became Zhu Yuanzhang later.
In this way, suffering is not so terrible.
As Mencius said, "If heaven wants to descend on Sri Lankan people, it must first suffer its ambition, work its bones and muscles, starve its skin, empty its body and do whatever it wants."
In the face of suffering, we must first learn to be calm.
Tian is comforting himself, licking your broken heart with your tongue and comforting your broken soul.
Let it stop bleeding, jealousy and commotion.
When your heart is bigger, you are less likely to get hurt, and when you experience more, you can feel less pain.
Second, learn to "wait".
Waiting is patience.
For most people, waiting is a very painful process. Looking forward to or worried about the result, the tortured person may be dying. Even if the result is good, he may be as insane as Jin Fan.
Learn to grow up in "waiting", because no matter what the result is, personal emotions rarely affect the final result, which is tantamount to worrying about it. Therefore, it is better to improve and consolidate yourself while waiting.
If the "result" is not satisfactory, it means that you have accumulated the lessons of the last failure, and you can make a comeback with the direction of your next efforts;
Third, learn to "persist".
Persistence is fighting.
In the face of suffering, there is nothing to do, and it can only be easily crushed.
"Persistence" does not seek results, nor does it necessarily have results. You should know the truth of "do your best and leave it to fate", but as long as you stick to the right direction, you will at least achieve a different person.
The process of life is like climbing a mountain. "When politics enters the fence of a mountain, a mountain releases the barrier of a mountain." Suffering is like a mountain peak in front of us. As long as you keep climbing, you can "all other mountains look short under the sky".
The more you want to reach the top, the harder it will be. However, as long as you keep taking one step, you may reach the peak of success. If you choose to give up, the result is not necessarily to return to the original road and go down the mountain safely. Things have changed.
Tortured, I used to crawl on the ice, lie in the snow, have been exposed to the sun in the wind, have been sleeping on the street, and have been wondering where you are going. I am so happy.
Suffering is the ladder of my growth.
I have been suffering along the way, enjoying the difficulties and obstacles I face, because I can enjoy the joy of conquest from every threshold I cross, and I can feel that I have grown up again.
Suffering is a candy to me. Put it in your mouth and melt it slowly, because I know that the slower it melts, the sweeter it will be.
Suffering is my lifelong practice. Life has hurt me too much. I still praise the sun. Today, I am the result of my practice.
There are two trees in front of the house.
In order to hang clothes conveniently, neighbors hung a wire between two trees, and both ends of the wire were covered on the trunks of the two trees respectively.
As the trunk became thicker and thicker, the hoop became tighter and tighter, and it was slowly pulled into the tree.
Later, the iron ring became deeper and deeper, and the trunk was pulled out with a deep scar.
Finally, the iron ring actually grew to the tree completely, without traces of the iron ring, but left a faint scar on the epidermis of the trunk.
At that time, every time I saw these two trees, I was worried that I would be strangled by iron rings.
But until now, these two trees have not been strangled, but they have grown bigger and bigger, and the longer they grow, the more leafy they are.
For these two trees, when they can't get rid of suffering (iron ring), they use their lives to contain suffering (iron ring), "plant" suffering (iron ring) into their lives, and regard suffering (iron ring) as a part of life.
Many sweet fruits have bitter stone.
Why can a bitter core have sweet meat?
I didn't realize this until I read a poem by a poet.
The poet said: Every pearl has a painful core.
The poet's words reminded me of my childhood.
At that time, I saw round pearls, like seeds, so I planted them in the ground as seeds and kept watering and fertilizing them, hoping that they would grow a pearl tree and bear pearl fruits all over the tree.
However, pearls are not planted in the ground, watered, fertilized or cared for. It's that mussels endure hardships and use their life's hard work to turn their miserable sand into sparkling pearls.
For pearls, the core of pain is the sand that gives them disaster, misfortune and tears.
After suffering, a person's mind can be honed best.
People who have experienced vicissitudes are no longer impetuous.
It is calmer and heavier.
The calmness and heaviness in this character is necessary to undertake major events.
People who have experienced hardships often have a deep understanding of human nature.
People who have never experienced the indifference of the world may take human nature for granted.
No matter whether human nature is good or evil, people who have no immediate pain only understand concepts.
This understanding is often superficial.
Those who have experienced it can often penetrate the essence of human nature and understand what it means.
People who have experienced such a painful experience must have a deep understanding of human nature.
And their profound understanding of human nature makes them go more steadily and further in their careers.
When they encounter problems, they handle things more easily because they know human nature very well.
Like a phoenix bathed in fire, it is reborn in suffering.
Flying in misery, we can cross mountains and have a broader vision.
Taking suffering as a teacher, suffering will become valuable nutrition.
Let's be reborn from suffering and feel the practice of this life!
Rousseau once said: "Suffering is the grave of the weak, but it is the soil of the strong."
There is no natural strong man, only a wise man who still works hard after suffering and baptism.
As long as we try patiently, it is not difficult to find that suffering is a paving stone for the road to success in life and a kind of practice in life.
Suffering is the whetstone of perseverance.
A person has gone a long way in suffering, experienced the ups and downs of life, and looked down on the joys and sorrows of the world.
The sudden difficulties and desolation in life make us mature gradually. Those sudden storms and strong winds have some special significance in our trip. I have never missed a long or distant train again. Only I know the vicissitudes of life.
Those sufferings, those memories, those old days, passed many years in a flash.
The only meaning of the suffering we have experienced is to let it take root deeply in our hearts, then take root downwards and blossom upwards.
I don't know where the footsteps of life will go, and I don't know how much bitterness and depression are hidden behind suffering, but sometimes it comes so unexpectedly.
I am eager to break free from this cage and push myself to a wider ocean.
I am like a disaster-stricken floating cloud, swimming around in other people's world, quietly subverting everyone's life.
Actually, this is an illusion.
After too much suffering, I enjoyed the peace of the night alone and listened to the sadness alone.
Those stories that hurt the bone marrow, only you can understand, suffering, in a sense, is the best interpretation of life.
This is the world, the eternal truth. No matter what hardships you experienced last night and how you cried, the city is still busy in the morning.
How much suffering is engraved in memory.
Being hurt and rejected by others is a feeling that thousands of arrows pierce the heart. It really hurts. Only when it hurts can it grow rapidly.
Goethe said: "Please savor everything left by pain!" Once the suffering is over, it becomes sweet. "
If you encounter unexpected hardships on the road of life, please don't be angry, don't complain and don't give up on yourself. Accept it silently, then put it in an empty corner to dust off, and then create a new life.
Because only when people learn to forget the sufferings of the past, erase the memories of the past, or at least learn to let go, will the wounds there heal.
This is not a negative thought, but a positive reconstruction behavior.
Life will not go backwards, life will go forward, so we should raise our sails and continue to set sail.
Suffering can make people fall into the dust or soar in the sky.
If an uninvited guest appears in your life, please use it as a ladder and tell yourself, "Climb it and I will become a better person".
Perhaps on the way forward, there will be such difficulties as "I would like to cross the Yellow River, choke on ice and climb Taihang Mountain with snow", and there will also be such helplessness as "the north wind is whistling and the Yanshan snowflakes are as big as seats". However, these difficulties will eventually become the steps under your feet, allowing you to stand at the top of the cloud.
It is said that when God closes a door for you, he will also open a window for you.
Yes, through this window, we can see stars all over the sky and moonlight everywhere.
If bitter summer and severe cold are the practice of seasonal cycle, then hardship is the practice of life.
Dawn comes after the night, rainbow comes after the rain, and rebirth comes after the fire.
When we stand on the top of the sun and moon overlooking the earth, please let us fear life and thank suffering.
Balzac, a famous French writer, once said, "Suffering is the teacher of life".
People came to this world naked and started a long journey of life from the first loud cry, which can also be said to be a kind of suffering practice.
When he comes to the end of his life, how much suffering he will experience is unpredictable.
People don't go through eighty-one difficulties like the mythical Tang Sanzang.
Who can tell how much suffering a person has to go through in his life?
Life should face suffering, like the legendary phoenix, experience suffering, throw yourself into the fire and undergo tempering, so that you can be thoroughly remoulded, become a radiant bird and experience a colorful life.
I feel the change of the eagle, that is, only by bravely experiencing hardships and painful changes can we get a new life.
Eagle is the longest-lived bird in the world, with a life span of 70 years. When it is 40 years old, it must make a difficult and painful decision, because its claws are aging, it can't catch its prey effectively, its beak is bent and long, its wings are thick and heavy, and it is no longer suitable for survival.
At this time, the eagle is faced with two choices, one is to wait for death, and the other is to go through a painful process of self-renewal. For the continuation and rebirth of life, it will undergo the transformation of 150 days. The eagle first hit the rock with its beak to make it fall off and wait for a new beak to grow. It will pull out nails one by one with its new beak, and when new nails grow, it will pull out feathers one by one.
After five long months, new feathers came out and the eagle began to fly again. After suffering, the eagle regained its life for 30 years.
Difficulties, like happiness, are the rewards given by life. Man, without eternal pain, there is no eternal happiness. How to face it is people's concept and attitude. When some people complain that they don't have suitable shoes to run, have you ever thought that some people are running with artificial limbs, but they can't overcome difficulties, but they can't overcome their hearts? So, life is in your own hands. Taking suffering as the teacher of life, facing suffering bravely and overcoming difficulties optimistically is also life.
You have to believe that all hardships are tempering us.
You should be optimistic and tenacious, and give this fickle world a loud slap in the face!
Happy people are all the same, and unhappy people are unhappy in their own way.
What's more, it is struggling on the road of life!
Some people feel that this is the end of the world because they have lost their loved ones or are seriously ill.
But life has to go on and face hardships.
We must believe that these so-called hurdles will eventually make us stronger!
Suffering can make people grow and change. Let's rebuild our souls and achieve rebirth!
Facing life, our attitude should always be tough, tolerant, optimistic and firm, even in the abyss, there must be hope!
Even in the dark, you have to run forward, and you have to believe that the light is just around the corner!