In all elegies, eulogies, condolence articles, etc. Bing Xin's letter is quite embarrassing. On the sixth day of Xu Zhimo's death, Bing Xin wrote in a letter to Liang Shiqiu:
"Mo Chi is dead, and those who are still welcomed by a group of people in society by using cleverness under an inhuman and not bright behavior have a home! ..... a person dies too late. I didn't say a good word to him before he died. In the last sentence, he said to me,' My heart, liver and five internal organs are all broken. I want to go to your holy land to confess! "I said nothing. I have never been friends with him, but now I feel sorry for him. He really failed him! Speaking of women, is it' a woman who misses him?' Or "He missed a woman?" It's hard to say. Zhimo is a butterfly, not a bee, so the benefits of a woman are lost and the disadvantages of a woman are sacrificed. "
The "woman" in Bing Xin's mouth refers to Lin. She has been satirizing Lin, but she can make a fuss about Xu Zhimo's accident, which is very inappropriate and disrespectful to the deceased. Xu Zhimo has a good feeling for women, but the only woman who really loves Xu Zhimo may be Zhang Youyi, and love is sometimes so sad.
Ironically, Xu Zhimo never loved Zhang Youyi. After the divorce, Zhang Youyi became independent. She has done a lot for Xu Zhimo and her family. Xu Zhimo praised Zhang Youyi for many times as a courageous woman, but she never loved her. After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman was only 29 years old, and her suitors were still like a cloud, but she never remarried until her death. Lu Xiaoman's last words can be buried with Xu Zhimo, but the Xu family refused.