A gentleman can maintain a harmonious atmosphere with his surroundings, but he must have his own independent views on everything, instead of blindly agreeing with others; Little people have no opinions of their own. Although they are always consistent with others, they don't really care about real harmony.
When people mistake Yan Guang for Yan Guang, I am an unknown fisherman. -Song: Lu You's "Queqiao Fairy, One Pole Romantic Moon"
At that time, people mistook me for Yan Guang, who was fishing with a gun. However, I would rather be an unknown fisherman.
Swallow knows the ambition of swan. -Western Han Dynasty: Sima Qian's Historical Records Chen She Family
How can sparrows know the great ambition of swans? For example, how does an ordinary person know the ambition of a hero?
4. Confucius said: "A gentleman likes virtue, while a villain likes earth; The gentleman is pregnant with punishment, and the villain is pregnant. " -The Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period: Confucius's "Confucius Rites and Kindness"
Confucius said, "A gentleman loses his virtue and a villain loses his country; Gentlemen think of the rule of law, and villains think of grace. "
5. This joy comes from it and is also known by others. -Tang Dynasty: Bai Juyi's "Showing Simple Behavior with Wine"
Happiness is from the heart, how can others feel it?