According to a survey conducted by Sichuan Academy of Social Sciences, more than 20% of parents said their children were unfilial. In other words, one in five old people lives in the shadow of "unfilial children". Many old people are reporting that their children rarely visit themselves; I am a nurse and a part-time worker for children. ...
In the survey, 7 1.63% of young people think that filial piety means "being good at taking care of parents". Some people suggest giving parents enough money; Some people say, ensure your health; Others say that the old man is an "old child", and he will be fine after a few days of coaxing. In fact, filial piety also includes the understanding and comfort of spiritual life, the emotional harmony with parents, and the true feelings of children for their parents' companionship in their hearts.
There is an old story about filial piety: a couple is very unfilial, driving their elderly parents to a shabby hut and giving leftovers to the elderly in a small wooden bowl. One day, their son was carving a piece of wood. When asked, the child said, "I am carving a wooden bowl. I'll use it when you are old. " The couple suddenly realized, threw away the wooden bowl and treated the old man well. My son also changed his attitude towards them. Indeed, filial piety is a moral quality, which is cultivated. As the saying goes, "it's your father's fault not to teach." If you want to have a filial child, you must let the child experience the education of "love" and the edification of "filial piety" in the family from an early age. Specifically, it is desirable to establish a correct view of filial piety from the dribs and drabs of daily life.
First of all, clarify family relationships. In the family, we should create an orderly environment for the young and the old, so that children can know their seniority from an early age. For example, parents and elders can only eat when they come; Ask your elders for advice before watching TV.
Second, insist on detailed training. Children's moral standards and living habits are almost entirely established under the guidance of their parents. Therefore, specific requirements can be put forward according to the age and ability of children. For example, children in kindergartens and primary schools can be asked to "go home and say hello to their parents"; Middle school students can ask for "active care when their parents are sick" and so on.
Third, parents lead by example. Children are the best imitators, just like a "mirror" of parents. Therefore, parents must not let "small wooden bowls" appear in the family. You know, if you pour a glass of water for your parents today, your child may bring a bowl of soup to your bed in the future.