I will still fall in love with you when my hair grows to my waist ~ I met a book friend

Time flies, it has been more than 2 years since I joined Alipay community. This community, which is at arm's length from real life, has become a post station for my soul. I am an emotional person, but I live rationally in the real world. I thought it was difficult to find a bosom friend, but in such an impetuous society, I might become a lonely walker, looking around in the world of words.

I met a sea lion when I was browsing a social channel opened by a financial celebrity in winter. He used a black-and-white photo of "Eddie Peng Yuyan Rosa" to attract me to join a book club named after him. No online club has ever allowed me to stay for so long. Perhaps it is the purpose of "Let every book club shine" advocated by the Sea Lion Reading Club, which has enabled many book clubs to share a life story as an anchor at night through this platform and gain a shallow aura of concern. Perhaps through the book club, I met many like-minded friends and interacted for simple friendship. At the beginning of the group, it is estimated that as the president, he didn't think about the positioning of the group, and everyone in the group kept idioms solitaire, from morning till night, endlessly. Tired of reading, I opened the message "Do not disturb" directly, thinking that I had entered another tasteless group.

Until a winter night not long ago, I heard Beibei's voice in the group-clear pronunciation and mellow voice, full of gas, telling everyone about the tea ceremony in the form of voice. From the origin of her connection with tea to the tea suitable for people with different constitutions, she told me in simple terms and vividly, which made me know more about tea culture. During and after her sharing, the electronic flowers and praises of the admirers in the group jumped on the screen of the mobile phone, and I began to think that this was an interesting group.

After that, the sea lion invited me to start my live broadcast in the sea lion space with "Sister Molly said travel", and I really began to harvest a group of like-minded friends. The beautiful girl in Jiangnan is warm. As the name implies, she is creating her own little happiness in the corner of the city where she lives. Food, writing, wandering, she turned people's lives into beautiful poems; Mo Qian is a member of the Starlight Glimmer Book Club. Her book friends like her very much and affectionately call her "Little Sun". People are beautiful and considerate, but the age after 90 is as stable and tenacious as that after 80. These buildings have opened a hundred-day energy reading. Whether on weekends or in a hurry to go to work, she is never absent. She insists on broadcasting in the group every morning. This morning reading energy is slowly injected into her heart like a warm current, which plays a role in moistening things. In order to satisfy the desire of Hanfu lovers, a young talented woman came from warm Xiamen to cold Zhejiang. Looking back on Xun Mei, she inadvertently wrote a classic article between heaven and earth.

? Bald and anonymous, there are not many serious articles, but the classic comments to book lovers are in place, and frequent golden sentences often kill the original text. The beauty in the northeast is dingdong. The pictures and texts in the hair band are very sharp and often make people unable to understand. She took the initiative to add me and quietly deleted me if she was not interested. Now I don't know which stack she is jumping on. Yan Yuhua, a southern woman married to Zhejiang, has a good writing style and left an unforgettable figure in red against the wall in the group. Another little girl, Xiao Fang, suddenly jumped into the picture when everyone was talking about a serious topic.

At first, I thought he was the author of those things in the Ming Dynasty. Later, I talked slowly and found that although he lived in the countryside, he was "farming" and "repairing soil". However, I think he is more like a genius who fell into the countryside. He writes well, speaks standard and pleasant Mandarin, and has a delicate mind. He is a volunteer and works hard for the book club. Yue Ming was the first book club to change my name to "Sister". Since the name "Sister" spread, Jasmine, a senior member of the Sea Lion Reading Club, no longer exists, and there is a "Sister" suitable for all ages.

? Hai Shi, the president of Wenwen, is a man with a lot of ideas and loves to toss. He set up a reading club operation team, opened the official account of reading club WeChat and the life number of Alipay credit reading club, extending from Alipay reading club group to WeChat reading club group. He upgraded Alipay's voice sharing to a micro-course platform, and he led our operation team to launch an endless stream of innovative and innovative measures, all of which are closely related to the pulse of the times. I have also watched him get thinner and thinner in recent years. In order to study, it can be said that "I am exhausted for Iraq, and my clothes are getting wider and wider, and I don't regret it."

As the soul of the reading club, the sea lion arranges the members of the operation team to perform their duties in an orderly manner, separately looks for the live sharing objects, and then collectively writes articles with pictures, sends tweets and posts them on the official WeChat account of the reading club. Thanks to Qi Xin's joint efforts, the reading club polished a series of touching and high-quality sharing works, such as Where are the Good Oranges in the Three Gorges by Brother Orange, There is an Unexpected Happiness by Beibei, Why can a Hangzhou girl's breakfast explode her circle of friends, and I am not the soul of a nameless lake by writer Zhuang. In the second season after I moved to the WeChat community, I launched Talking about the Things in the Courtyard of Old Beijing after 1995, Uncovering the New Mode of Contemporary College Students Getting along with each other, and The Happy Maker Life of Southern Book Friends ... In listening and contacting, I can deeply feel the stumbling mental journey of each book friend and their respective life stories of sadness and joy.

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When I am in adversity, I will say, "He/she lives worse than me. Why should I complain? " Understand, and then let go. When it's good, I will envy "her daily life is so exquisite, and I want to take action to try …". It can be said that every book club has influenced and changed me more or less, and let me find beauty in the real life of a chicken feather. In the face of skinny life, my heart has become more and more plump and tenacious.

? In the process of communicating with locked sharers, I got to know Brother Orange, Xia Liangwu, Teacher Chen, Shicheng, Qiang, Xiaoyu, and many book lovers who haven't heard from me so far. Later, I met Mingyue, Louqun, Jianhui, Baishao, Liu Xiaofei, Four Mountains, Xiaobu, Luo Qi and Liang Bin. We greeted ordinary netizens until we gradually had a common topic, and then exchanged real names with each other. Slowly, I moved from invisible online chat to face-to-face offline communication space.

? Whether they come to Shanghai or I pass by their city on business, everyone wants to make an appointment by the way. When we met this deity, we all waved like old friends, said hello, naturally sat down to eat and chat, and talked about life while drinking tea, without any sense of identity. In fact, from the virtual space to the real world, the only way to eliminate all barriers and doubts is to be honest with each other.

After all, the reading club is a public welfare non-governmental organization, which has invested a lot of energy and time without any material benefits. With the decline of Alipay community popularity, the reading club, like many things, has fallen into a bottleneck period, the attention of book lovers has declined, and the community popularity has been low. Most of the WeChat reading club groups are new book lovers, unfamiliar with each other, and all of them are extremely simple exchanges, which are more distracting. Moreover, there are many strangers in WeChat who are scrambling to realize their writing style or improve their article views. The goal was clear, and I couldn't meet the expectations in the short term, so I turned around and left the group. Personally, I think it is enough to have a Platonic spiritual home, and it is not necessary to know each other after witnessing each other's efforts. But the president may not think so. Like most hot-blooded young people, he is eager to be recognized by the public and hopes that his efforts will eventually be rewarded.

? Gradually, I found that his attention began to shift a little. On the social channel named by a financial writer, he is very active as an offline organizer of the city circle, and strives to create a social circle of "urban middle class". Wisdom and diligence, people like him, after several efforts, have achieved initial results and won the top ten titles from all walks of life. In the photos of friends circle he shared, I saw the interaction and photos of common urban white-collar workers, and saw the unavoidable discussion site about financial trends and financial evolution in daily life. However, I can't smell the warm and real fireworks, and I can't feel the care and greetings from my childhood friends.

? I once joked that the relationship between WeChat social circle and Alipay community is "the original match of new love". The new love is full of fashion elements, while the original one may be more grassroots. You love new people who are unconventional and don't forget to look at the original match from time to time. As the saying goes, "a bad wife can't stay in court." After all, she wore a straw ring as a diamond ring and traveled around the world with an unknown person.

? Nowadays, people often talk about "don't forget your active mind in order to achieve your ultimate goal". Sometimes I think, what is the initial intention? Our initial heart may be our initial dream. Just walking in time, we forget the promise we made and try our best to realize our dreams. Accepting new things and integrating into new circles does not mean abandoning and abandoning the original camp. Most of the friends in the reading club are still there, but the president rarely shows up. Although everyone doesn't say anything, they all have unspeakable feelings of being left out. I remember when the book club was popular last year, there was a popular saying on the Internet, "When my hair reaches my waist, a teenager will marry me." She (he) who follows a young and frivolous teenager to create dreams, some people really look forward to glory. I believe that many people do not expect to get millions of fame and fortune in the future, but only cherish the millions of efforts made by people who are now in tune with them. However, the reality is often "they are afraid of long hair and waist, and teenagers fall in love with others."

I'm still worried about the sea lion reading club without it. After a long silence and waiting, the sea lion came back quietly. He rekindled the operation team and greeted everyone like an old friend. The familiar atmosphere of collective efforts and mutual help once again appeared in front of me. I am both moved and surprised to meet again after such a long separation.

? The world is very busy, every day people come uninvited, and naturally some people leave without saying goodbye. Maybe I will have a heart-to-heart talk with you tonight, and he (she) will disappear into the vast sea of people before dawn. Everyone is a book, no matter how long it is, even if you just turn over a corner in a hurry, you can get a glimpse of its wonderful.

In the sea lion reading club, the life of every reading club is not wasted. Liu Fei Jr., the sharer of Sky I yearn for, got married, and Linger, a grassland girl, became a hardworking and happy new treasure mom. Shang Yun, a slash girl, painted and described her life attentively. Brother orange, a good man from the Three Gorges, silently sent love oranges to children in poor mountainous areas and walked silently on the road of public welfare. ...

? Some people leave, some people return to their nests; In any case, thank you for meeting, thank you for your concern, and thank you for your ups and downs. I am growing up, and the life stories of every book friend constantly enrich my knowledge, inspire me, let me know how to cherish the present, let me know that I should be content with contentment, and let every word of mine be full of affection and strength.