When the person you love loves you, this is happiness in the true sense; when you love the person who loves you, you also give the other person happiness in the true sense. Lover is sometimes a broad term with divisible discontinuities; this is especially true for lover. It is impossible and unrealistic for you to let the person who stays with you love you for the rest of your life. There is no lover in the world who will live forever in life and death, and there is no emotional exclusiveness in the true or pure sense. A man cannot have feelings for only one woman in his life, and a woman cannot love only one man in her life. A person can stay with you for a lifetime, but she will never love you for a lifetime. Transference and emotional changes are the natural laws of human nature. Men like to fall in love with all the beautiful women in the world, while women hope that all the handsome men in the world will fall in love with her. Although this violates emotions and ethical laws, it is a reality in the world. No matter you are in good times or bad times in your marriage, you will experience it more or less: the person you love is often outside your marriage! Those who leave you with heart-wrenching memories are definitely not from the marriage compound. So some people say: Marriage is the tomb of love; So some people say: Family is the best economic mutual aid in human society;
Let the person you love truly love you. This is a successful chapter on your love journey. If the person you love no longer loves you, then your emotional road will come to a stop, and she or he will get off at this stop. Fortunately, there will always be someone who gets on at this stop. When she (he) left here, her (his) search made her (him) disappear into the vast sea of ??people. You can't be sure at which station she will get on the bus again. In fact, you no longer care about these things. The extreme one is that you take one more step at the end of love, so love turns into hate. The greater your steps, the deeper your hatred will be. So when the person walks out of your marriage compound, you will feel that she (he) also has your sentiments worth remembering. Therefore, by saving your successful love story, you will have a beautiful memory of the past. Although the reality is uncertain, the future is full of hope.
You don’t love the person who loves you, but she can become your wife after many twists and turns; you prefer the person who doesn’t love you, but she can easily become your lover. The former love enjoys pain in happiness, the latter love enjoys entertainment in pain. Think of the things left to you by the people who love you but whom you don't love, and are more precious than the things left by the people who love you but who don't love you. The person you don't love who loves you will have more memories of you and has a longer life or time value than the person you love who doesn't love you.
The person who loves you is like a falling leaf. After you pick it up and put it in any page of the book, she will treasure it there and never fade. Maybe you will forget this book. Existence, maybe you will never remember such a fallen leaf later, but the meaning contained in the true nature of this fallen leaf will always be yours! In the cycle of life, a yellowish fallen leaf has more existence value than a tree full of green buds. Those who love you but whom you don't love give you the tangerine of life; those who love but don't love you give you an unripe apple. So bitterness and sweetness are both ingredients of love.
There are two living examples in real life that make us feel confused or confused about true love!
Ah A’s love for Ah B is evidenced by the severed finger. When Ah A was 24 years old, he fell madly in love with Ah B. It turns out that Ah B only regards Ah A as his sister. Ah B never thought that there would be male love and female love mixed in with this sibling complex. Ah B is tall, fair-faced, tender-faced, and has good facial features. In today’s terms, he would be: the young man is extremely handsome and cool! Ah A is of medium height, plain in appearance, and has a light yellow complexion. Her biggest feature is her eyes. When you think she is looking at someone else, she is actually looking at you. That year, Ah A said to Ah B: "I have to marry you!" Ah B said: "I haven't considered this yet, so don't force me, okay?" Ah A said: "I'll ask you ten more times, every time If you don't agree, I will chop off one of your fingers. Do you believe it?" Ah B said, "Whatever!" Then Ah A actually took out the knife and chopped off his index finger. Only this time Ah A became Ah B’s wife. However, the broken finger did not bring Ah A a happy life. On the contrary, Ah A lived in hell every day. Ah B has been committing domestic violence against Ah A for many years. Ah A had a broken finger, but she could only endure it like this. She couldn't leave, and she had no face to leave. The severed finger brings scars all over the body and heart.
Ah C’s love for Ah D is also evidenced by the severed finger. Ah C is a strong-minded young man, outgoing and straightforward in his speech. When chasing a girl, he likes to say: "Marry me!" Sure enough, there is such a bold and open-minded girl who agrees to marry him. This girl is Ah D. Ah D is not tall, about 1.6 meters, but the heels of Ah D's shoes are 10 centimeters long. Ah D is very thin, with a narrow face, big eyes, and long hair. His walk is called a cat walk. Ah D's face is always painted white, which is very scary under the night light. Ah D only wore that kind of suspender top all summer, and that kind of miniskirt was low-waisted, leaving alluring grooves on the front and back. If you want to know where Ah D’s voice comes from when he speaks, you can only rely on your senses. If birds of a feather flock together, then Ah D will definitely be classified as a contemporary "young lady". Ah C was fascinated by Ah D like this. Ah C’s mother is a middle school teacher, a traditional kind of good wife and mother. We don’t have to describe how Ah C’s mother reacted when Ah C brought Ah D home. When Ah C wanted to marry Ah D but could not persuade his mother, he also resorted to the trick of cutting off his fingers.
Ah C said to his mother: "I will ask you ten more times, and every time you don't agree, I will chop off one of my fingers." The mother said angrily: "You are crazy, even if you chop off your head, I will chop off one of my fingers." I won’t agree!” Ah C actually went to get a knife and chopped off his index finger in front of his mother. Also just this time, Ah C married Ah D as his wife. Everything changed after Ah D became Ah C's wife. Her clothes became completely rural, and she gave birth to a white and fat little boy for Ah C. Less than three years after her son was born, her mother also accepted Ah D, but Ah C turned her back on him and secretly fell in love with Ah E. Ah E is simply a replica of Ah D three years ago, which brings Ah C back to the past. But Ah E is a wealthy owner, and his parents are high-ranking officials with financial power. So Ah E forced Ah C to divorce. When Ah C proposed to divorce Ah D, Ah D seemed very calm. Ah D said, "Okay, but you have to agree to one condition, just one condition! That is to chop off the index finger of your other hand." Ah C said nothing, and raised the knife and dropped it. But when Ah C came to Ah E with his severed finger, Ah E vaguely understood. Ah E did not agree to marry him now, nor did she mention the marriage. After the two broke up that day, Ah C never saw Ah E again.
Later I heard someone say that Ah E went abroad, and five years later Ah C only had four fingers on his right hand left, but Ah C never got married again.