Some time ago, the circle of friends was screened by the cloud-proof cloud graduation, and everyone was feeling that they were finally freed from the paper, but behind this relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, there were more parting worries brought by graduation and unknown confusion in the road ahead.
Graduation from college, the end of a stage, also means that a new journey is about to begin. But where is the end of this journey, it is full of countless possibilities. Whether we are looking for a job in a down-to-earth manner, preparing for further study in World War II, or starting our own business, these choices have made us insomnia several times.
2020 is a special year. The outbreak of COVID-19 epidemic has more or less affected everyone's life, and also brought great employment pressure to this year's graduates. Most of the students around me are unemployed, and occasionally a few find jobs, but just to get rid of this unemployment.
My friend Xiaowen is also one of the thousands of unemployed people in Qian Qian. More than once, she told me about the distress of not finding a job: she studied hard for more than ten years and didn't even have a decent job, and even asked her parents to give her living expenses. I feel timid when I think about it
I can probably understand her helplessness and indignation.
This feeling is like, you finally cut the watermelon, but at the moment you put it to your mouth, your hand suddenly slipped, not only fell off, but also stained your clothes.
You always think that there is a broad road ahead, but there is no way to go, so you settle for the next best thing, hoping to find a route to your destination, but you retreat after knowing difficulties, and you forget where the so-called destination is.
For many people, not being able to find a job is not the worst thing, but you can't get what you want after lowering your requirements again and again.
We also have a lot of hopes for the future, but under the pressure of reality, we are constantly changing our plans. Maybe you just want a stable life at first, but one day, when you are tired of running around in the traffic in the city, do you still remember your initial heart? Have you ever doubted the significance of what you are doing now?
There is a slow variety show called "The Life I yearn for" in Mango Taiwan, which records the simple life of several stars in the countryside. One of the guests once said with a smile, "Everything in the mushroom house is ultimately for a meal." In this regard, Huang Lei agreed, "Food is the most important thing for the people. So is life. Isn't the purpose of your hard work finally to earn food? "
At this moment, I suddenly felt a tingle. In other words, life is so simple. Aside from the interference of foreign objects, isn't what we originally asked for a guarantee?
Why do we find life suffocating? That's because people's desires are endless. At first, they just wanted to have enough food and clothing. Later, we wanted more and more things, such as wealth, power and beauty. So we have been carrying a heavy load. How can I feel relaxed?
Don't always complain that life has given you too much pressure. Suffering is not just around you. Sometimes please stop your hurry and ask yourself, what is the purpose of your efforts? Is it worth your time to realize it?
I saw a girl struggling to resign in the Reader the other day. She said that she couldn't stand the present situation, her salary was not ideal, and her colleagues around her were not easy to get along with. Most importantly, this is not her favorite job. But if I quit, I'm afraid I can't find a suitable position. What if the next job is worse? Resignation is accompanied by more uncertainty.
But I want to tell that girl that the future is indeed full of more uncertainties, but you can be sure that you are not satisfied with your current job, which mostly stems from the fact that the job is not from the heart. We work to live, not to work. Don't let your job kidnap your original life, and don't go against your heart to do things you don't like.
Life is only a few decades. If you spend all your time on things you don't like, you will not only feel like a year, but also live up to your arrival in this world.
We often miss our childhood, when we were carefree and did not have to worry about life. That was the easiest time. Although we can't go back to childhood, we can still find our innocence. Don't let this materialistic secular world get lost, forget your initial heart, and let yourself fall into anxiety and trouble.
Finally, I want to say to all my colleagues who are in the same general situation as Xiaowen: Don't doubt your ability, you just haven't found a Bole who understands you. Although the opportunity is late, it is better to take this opportunity to enrich yourself and meet the future challenges with a better attitude.
Although the road ahead is long, we can still look forward to it. Even if you pass by Qian Fan, don't forget to keep the original beauty. May you, dressed in anger, return to youth!