Finally, although the dramas after liberation seem long-winded and without passion, the love behind them is either shocking, romantic, far-fetched or obsessed. It was not until I read some novels that I understood where words were more shocking than videos.
The love between Xiuqin and Li Yunlong is the most subtle and simple love. They are willing to knit shoes, cook and wash feet for you. This is a kind of love based on admiration and dedication, more like a life and a marriage. Many modern marriages want this kind of love, but this kind of love is abandoned outside marriage (such as love) just because it is indecent. Xiuqin said: "Life is your life, and death is your ghost ..." This is not a kind of death in love, but a kind of forgetting to die.
When I read the love between Zhao Gang and Feng Nan, I realized that at that time, pure love was really the kind of love at first sight that "we seem to have met somewhere"; When I read the "execution ground" of Zhao Gang's revolution, I understood the sentence "Go away my dear The Decemberists" and what death in love is. In my opinion, they deserve the last word, "soul mates" in "Fairy Sword". This kind of partner is the love that enters marriage. This kind of love is romantic before marriage and based on Qi Mei after marriage. It is not like life, but it is detached from life. This kind of love does not need material things, nor does it need too many objective factors. It only needs two people to have the same point of view and complementary personalities.
It suddenly occurred to me that when Xiuqin told Zhao Gang Li Yunlong to hug her, there was a sentence in the barrage, which was praised by many people. "You can show your love by hugging, but it may not be yours when you sleep now." It was an enviable time when you could express yourself at will. Today's society is too impetuous, so love is perfunctory. You can get more than a hug. It's hard for you to have someone.
P The love between Tian Yu and Lao Li is actually a bit far-fetched in a sense, because there are obvious contradictions in their three views, which also leads to constant differences in their married life. I remember Tian said at the beginning: "What I like can only be the advantages of men, not women." In reality, there are not many such men in her mouth, but Tian feels that such men will have a sense of security to show their feminine beauty, but there are not many vigorous marriages, only plain, daily necessities. In reality, this kind of love will be overwhelmed by the smallest things over time, which will be very.
Zhang Bailu, her arrogance and narcissism, immoral love for friends, lack of moral sense, and so on, are hard to appreciate. Her love for Li Yunlong, I don't think it is the promiscuity of mistress. The second love is more real, but it has nothing to do with reality.
Looking at the distant figure of Zhang Bailu on TV, I suddenly have a pain. We can imagine the tragic fate of such an unruly woman who is so casual about love and sex in the following years.
But in reality, people who are too casual about love and sex will eventually lose themselves, because you are not Zhang Bailu and that person is not Li Yunlong. The three views are restrictive and too casual. They are like type O blood, they can be mixed with many blood types, but they will always lose it and never taste true love.
In fact, the love in Liang Jian is difficult to approach ordinary people, but the interpretation of the love view of female characters in Liang Jian shows four different love views with four female characters, which is the most unusual love in life now.
Nowadays, in many marriages, there is no spark of love, but time is used to spark love. Love is always enviable, but modern life is too material, so there is this sentence. After graduation and marriage, many people will say, "There is always someone who lives in his heart, but says goodbye to life."