After reading Wonderful and Terrible 1 this article, I hid my thoughts and suddenly realized that my parents' love is the same, but they express it in different ways.
When I first read this article, I really felt sorry for the author. His father is too harsh. However, after reading and understanding the content of the article, I envy the author for having such parents.
Mother's "wonderful" comes from the power of mother's love, which is the source of inspiration and creation for the author, and becomes the comfort of the author's heart, making the author insist on writing all the time. I feel the same way about it. Whenever I get a teacher's praise, I can't wait to tell my mother, who will praise me and encourage me. Just like the author's mother. However, only these are incomplete and may lead people astray. So it needs the power of warning to balance. Father's "terrible" is the power of this warning. He often reminds the author: be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve, so that the author can make faster progress. This also makes up for the lack of maternal love, and enables the author to gain strength from two aspects and move towards success. This is a sign that parents want their children to succeed.
Before I did something wrong, my father would immediately pull his face down and lose his temper, but my mother always protected me. They all hope that their daughter can fly to the branches and become a phoenix. My dad scolded me for hitting me, and I really hated him at that time. After reading this article, I finally understand that beating is kissing and scolding is love, so I am more proud of having two kinds of love.
In life, we need "wonderful" loving maternal love and "terrible" strict fatherly love. The loving mother's love is like a bottle of fragrant honey, which makes us feel refreshed and sail with the wind. Strict father's love is like a bowl of bitter medicine, reminding us to draw strength from these two kinds of love, so that we can keep moving forward.
After watching the wonderful and terrible, I feel that my buddy is really lucky to have such parents.
Buddy wrote a poem when he was seven or eight years old. As soon as his mother finished reading the poem, she excitedly shouted, "Dude, did you really write it?" How beautiful! Wonderful! When Dad came back, Buddy showed this poem to Dad, and Dad said, "This poem is terrible. "Ten years later, when he picked up this poem again, he thought it was really bad. Only then did he realize his father's love for him. These two extreme assertions have the same starting point, and that is love. Encouraged by love, Buddy succeeded.
Buddy is lucky to have such parents. In the bath of love, Buddy succeeded. Father and mother have opposite opinions, but love is exactly the same. There should be more than praise in life, and both criticism and praise are indispensable. If there is only praise, you will be carried away by pride; But it is not enough to criticize in life. If you just criticize, you will fail because you lose confidence.
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, I know that some severe love may not be seen in a short time, and the father's love for his son cannot be seen in the text. It's up to him to feel slowly or with his heart. I envy Buddy's parents and family background. If it were me, I would cherish it.
Reflection on Wonderful and Terrible III. After learning the text "Wonderful and Terrible", I benefited a lot.
This article tells the story of the author's childhood, when his father and mother gave opposite comments on his works, and the great influence of these two comments on him. I think father's warning and mother's encouragement are indispensable. Because only the father's warning will make people lose confidence; Only mother's encouragement can make people complacent.
I feel the same way as the author. I remember when I was a child, I got 99.5 points in the Chinese exam. It was a very simple topic, and I made a mistake. I went home from school to show it to my mother. After reading it, my mother said to me, "Great! Keep trying! Strive for a hundred points! " When I showed it to my father happily, my father said "wonderful" and "terrible" "This paper is terrible." Say that finish, also throw away the test paper. I can't accept it at the moment. During that time, I kept losing my temper. Now I pick up this test paper again, and I feel that this test paper really sucks. At that time, my father was right, but he loved in a different way. I didn't understand it then.
After reading Wonderful and Horrible, I understand better that everyone needs his father's warning and his mother's encouragement to make all-round progress, and the love of his parents is the driving force for all-round progress.
Comments on "wonderful" and "terrible" 4. Mother's love is spring breeze, which brings us warmth and comfort. Dad's love is autumn wind, which blows away our vanity and arrogance. Either way, it all comes from love!
The article "Fantastic and Terrible" tells the story of the first poem written by the author budd schulberg when he was a child, as well as the completely different comments of his parents on his works, as well as the great influence of these two comments on him and the love the author felt from it.
"Wonderful" is the mother's evaluation. This sentence is emotional, and the mother is more emotional and will say something encouraging to her son. "Terrible" is my father's evaluation. My father pays attention to the quality of poetry itself. He is more rational. I think buddy is very happy. He has both the kind love of his mother and the stern love of his father to keep him from being carried away by success.
Aren't my parents the same? Once, I wrote my first poem. My mother read it and hugged me happily and said, "You wrote well!" " "As soon as I heard it, my heart was fruity. But dad said disapprovingly, "What a terrible writing! There is no center. "
After listening to my father's words, tears swirled in my eyes. I secretly made up my mind that I must write better articles to satisfy my father, because I remember my father once said to me, "Failure is the mother of success." "This is my parents' two ways of love, which makes me surpass myself again and again.
After reading this article, I understand that everyone in life needs love encouragement and warning. Too much praise will make people complacent, and too much criticism will make people lose confidence. Therefore, praise and criticism should be included, so that you can get closer to success.
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, there are five different ways to love: one is the power of father's love-warning and reminding, being strict and not letting children go astray; The other is the power of maternal love-praise and encouragement, which is gentle and makes children enhance their self-confidence. These two forces are intertwined and correctly guide the growth of children.
So are my parents. My mother is considerate of me and does everything I want to do to help me buy delicious and beautiful clothes. She cares about me in life. Whenever I cough, my mother makes a fuss for fear that I will get seriously ill. I also have a strict father, who is very strict with my study. If I make a small mistake, my father will severely criticize me. He urged me to review my lessons every night, no matter how tired I was during the day. My parents have the same goal, that is, I hope I can grow up healthily and become a promising person when I grow up. Now my grades in the class are ok, thanks to my parents' meticulous care and teachers' education, so I will, like the author and inspired by my parents' love, try my best to paddle the boat of life bravely in the stormy waves, become a brave helmsman and make a contribution to society.
1. The special feature of this paper is that it does not state the story of the original text, but develops from the ideas expressed in the original text and connects with its own life reality. The discussion and narration are combined very skillfully.
2. Although the language is not gorgeous, the brushwork is exquisite, and the emotion is rich and true, which makes people happy to read.
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, this text mainly tells the story of 12-year-old Buddy writing his first poem in life. When his mother saw it, she quickly praised it and said, "It's wonderful". He was as happy as if he had stepped on a happy cloud. When it confidently handed the poem to his father, his father said the poem was "terrible". The happy cloud disappeared, and he rushed into the room and cried, while his parents were still arguing. When he grows up, he understands that love can be expressed in many ways, but their starting point is the same, that is love, and he will only take love to the door of success!
I have a similar example in my life. Once in a calligraphy class, it was my first time to write on rice paper, and I was very serious. Because I used too much ink, I was too nervous to write for the first time, and the words I wrote were ugly. When I showed my mother the words, my mother was surprised and said, "Did you really write this?" I said happily, "I wrote it." Mom became more excited. She wanted to put my handwriting on the wall. I proudly showed the words to my father, who said, "Come on, don't let mom post them. Don't make a fool of yourself. " At this time, I walked back to my room depressed and sad. I felt dark at that time, but I didn't expect my father to give me such an evaluation.
Motherly love and fatherly love are both great, and both are indispensable. With these two kinds of love, we can be full of confidence on the road of life.
Reflections on "Wonderful" and "Terrible" 7 The other day, I read the articles "Wonderful" and "Terrible" in the Chinese textbook.
Looking at the title of this article, I was deeply attracted by its peculiar proposition. What is "wonderful" and what is "terrible"? With these questions, I read carefully. This article is mainly about the first poem that Buddy wrote when he was seven or eight years old. After reading it, mother's eyes lit up with excitement and praised the poem as "wonderful"; My father, who specializes in literary creation, described the poem as "terrible". Over the years, these two voices have been intertwined in Buddy's ears. They are like two walls, holding Buddy in the middle, keeping Buddy moving in the right direction, without pride or inferiority, and eventually becoming a writer.
After reading this article, I feel that Buddy is a very lucky child, because he has both a kind mother and a strict father. With the encouragement of his mother, he was not inferior or proud, which enhanced his confidence in continuing to write. With his father's severity, he went on writing excellent works without being carried away by praise. This shows that in the process of growing up, a person needs both encouragement and praise, as well as criticism and suggestions, in order to continuously improve himself. Imagine if Buddy's parents either praised his poems as "wonderful" or commented on his poems as "terrible". How could Buddy later write many good works and become a writer? Therefore, it is really wise for Buddy's parents to educate their children.
In today's society, only parents like Buddy's parents can cultivate excellent children. Why don't you want all parents to educate their children like buddy's parents?
Comments on "Wonderful" and "Terrible" 8 Last semester in Grade Five, we studied the articles "Wonderful" and "Terrible".
This article tells the story of American writer budd schulberg, who received a different education from his parents when he was young. He got kind love from his mother and was encouraged by her. But his father gave him severe love and was often criticized and accused by his father. However, it is the combination of these two kinds of love that makes an outstanding writer. After reading this article, I am deeply touched.
I have been learning electronic piano since I was five years old. My mother is very strict in supervising me to play the piano, and often scolds me until I burst into tears, but my grandmother praises every tune I play. As a result, in this scolding and congratulations, I learned electronic piano level 7. I still remember that once I got 95 points in the Chinese exam, my mother immediately scolded me and cried on the road, but when I got home, my grandmother praised me for doing well in the exam. My experience is really similar to buddy's. We have all received kind love and severe love, and we should know that no matter what kind of love, it is true love for us. Kind love has given me great encouragement, a sense of accomplishment and made me more interested in learning. Strict love is like a strict ruler, which allows me to see my own shortcomings and make me move in a more perfect direction.
Reflection on "Wonderful" and "Terrible" 9 You must have heard many stories about loving your father and mother, and I am no exception. Among them, the words "wonderful and terrible" deeply touched me.
This text tells me that I wrote a poem. My mother's evaluation is wonderful, but my father's evaluation is completely different from my mother's, which is terrible. Later, I realized more and more how lucky I was. The starting point of the two comments is the same, both are love. Inspired by love, I strive to move forward.
In real life, we need not only praise and encouragement from our mothers, but also warnings and reminders from our fathers. Because Buddy understands the love of his parents, the inferiority and pride generated in the process of growing up are constantly moving forward with the encouragement of love. Parental love plays an important role in the process of growing up. Only when we are praised by our mother and criticized by our father can we move forward confidently without being carried away by temporary progress.
I had a similar situation. I remember once, I got the first place in my class in math. I am very satisfied with the result. When I got home, I handed the test paper to my mother. After reading my score, my mother praised me. I feel extremely proud and proud. I broke into my father's study and gave him a test paper. I thought my mother would praise me like that, and my father would certainly praise me, too. But what I didn't expect was that my dad said, What's the big deal about taking 100 this time? Can you guarantee full marks in the next exam? My heart pricked like a needle, and I burst into tears involuntarily.
This passage, let me understand, whether wonderful or terrible, behind these two extreme assertions, is love. As adults say, I criticize you because I love you and I hope you will make progress. Because I love you, I hope you will be encouraged and praised, and I hope you can build up your self-confidence and make great achievements again!
After reading this passage, I know that Buddy recalled that he wrote a poem when he was seven or eight years old, and his mother was amazed after reading it, while his father said it was terrible after reading it. I'm sorry about what my father said. In his later life, his mother always encouraged him while his father always reminded and criticized him. These two completely different kinds of love have a great influence on Buddy and lead to success.
This short message reminds me of my cousin. In her family, there is only good love. At home, she is a "princess" and everyone else is a "servant". She is obedient to her, and no one dares to lose his temper with her. Too much kind love means doting, and my cousin is caught in the deep sea of doting. She is over six years old now. She can't dress herself, take off her shoes and socks or even wash her face. She needs her mother to feed her when she eats. My cousin is trapped in such a deep sea, that is, trapped in a whirlpool, and will never get out.
I know now that there are severe love and kind love in life. Strict love is often used as a reminder, and kind love is often used as an encouragement. Only by educating children with two kinds of love can children embark on the road to success.
I will never be discouraged by the harsh criticism of love, nor will I be complacent by the encouragement of kind love. I will make persistent efforts and study hard!
Wonderful and Terrible Comments 1 1 I was deeply touched by the book Wonderful and Terrible written by American writer budd schulberg.
When the author was seven or eight years old, she wrote a poem. After reading this poem, her mother excitedly told the author that the poem was wonderful and made the author feel shy and complacent. She really wants to show her father her first poem.
When my father came back, his eyes were attracted by the poems on the table. The author thought that his father would definitely agree with his work, but he didn't. He thinks this poem is terrible. The author was very sad at that time.
As a writer, it should be said that everyone in life needs the power from his mother, and this power of love is the source of inspiration and creation. But this alone is not comprehensive and may lead people to try. So it needs the power of warning to balance, and someone needs to remind you from time to time: "Be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve."
In other words, in life, encouragement will make people more confident, and it will be a little unbalanced, which needs warning to balance. I also have similarities with the author in my life. Once, I drew a "space painting". My mother looked at it and said it was good at first, but later she found some shortcomings, which kept my smug freshness in balance.
Once in an exam, my mother helped me find out my shortcomings and let me correct them. Sure enough, I got 97 points in the next exam. This is kind love and severe love. Driven by these two winds, my boat of life is sailing smoothly.
Wonderful and terrible comments 12 after reading the wonderful and terrible, I can't help but feel puzzled.
The article tells the story of my first poem when I was seven or eight years old. My mom thinks it's wonderful, and my dad thinks it's terrible. The two men quarreled. In these two kinds of constant extreme assertions, "I" grew up healthily and finally boarded the palace of literature.
In life, many people only accept praise and praise, and hate warnings and criticisms. Yes, praise is everyone's favorite, and it will give people a sense of pride and accomplishment. People who receive too much praise often don't listen to advice and become complacent, self-righteous and self-righteous. People who get carried away with their achievements will eventually fail.
It is not good to accept too much blame. People who are blamed too much will begin to doubt their ability, be indecisive in everything, dare not try, and make a mess of things for fear of failure. Even if they are only one step away from success, they will not be cocky, but doubt themselves again and again, think about whether they want it or not, and then wait for the opportunity to disappear in their own thinking. If every article written by the author's parents says "terrible", can he continue to write? Can he still succeed?
So there must be praise and criticism, forming a virtuous circle of complementarity. We can't abandon criticism, nor can we rely on praise. Although criticism will make you depressed, but advice when most needed is least heeded, you will find it useful sometimes. Although praise will make you happy and strengthen your confidence, too much praise will make people feel complacent about the status quo.
Accept criticism and praise well. In this way, success will be closer to us.
Reflections on "Wonderful" and "Terrible" 13 I read the articles "Wonderful" and "Terrible" today. After reading it, I couldn't calm down for a long time.
The author of the article is American writer bud? He wrote his first poem when he was seven or eight years old. His mother's evaluation is "wonderful", on the contrary, his father's evaluation is "terrible". Inspired by these two different kinds of love, the author made unremitting efforts and finally succeeded.
When I read "I know from the bottom of my heart whether it is beautiful or terrible", these two extreme assertions have the same starting point-love. "Yes, people need encouragement, but encouragement alone may lead to blind self-confidence and arrogance; People also need to criticize this kind of love, but criticism alone may lead to too low self-esteem and loss of self-confidence. It is necessary to achieve a balanced effect between encouragement and criticism. The author is so lucky to live in two completely different kinds of love, which makes the author work hard. I am such a lucky person.
I remember once, I got 99 points in the exam. My mother kept praising me after reading it, which made me a little high. I quickly showed it to my father. As a result, my father just said faintly, "Don't be proud." This washed away all my happiness and even made me hate my father a little, but I know my father loves me, too.
In life, we should not be proud of being praised and discouraged by setbacks; We should turn encouragement into confidence and criticism into caution, so as to grow smoothly!
Comments on "Wonderful" and "Bad" 14 This text tells the different comments of parents on a poem written by the famous American writer budd schulberg when he was a child. My mother's evaluation is wonderful, because my mother knows that Buddy is still a child and he needs encouragement. Father's evaluation is terrible. The father believes that only strictness can educate children to write good compositions. As the article says: "A writer should say that everyone in life needs the strength from his mother. This kind of love is the source of inspiration and creation. But this alone is not comprehensive, and he may lead people astray. Buddy is lucky because he has a loving mother and a strict father, which is why he can get excellent grades.
If only the mother's evaluation, it is easy for children to be complacent and arrogant as soon as they are praised; If it is only the father's criticism, the child will be afraid of writing badly day and night, and will be criticized by his father, but will lose confidence in writing. Therefore, children must praise and judge.
Our success comes not from our father's excessive criticism, nor from our mother's excessive praise and encouragement, but from our unremitting efforts. Like the author, we should learn to remind ourselves from love: "Be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve." Motherly love is like honey in a honey pot, sweet, tell me not to lose heart when I fail; Father's love is medicine in a medicine jar. Bitterness makes me successful. Don't be complacent. I will be healthy and strong in these two kinds of love with the same goal. ...
Comments on "wonderful" and "terrible" 15 "wonderful" is appreciation, recognition and admiration for a program performance. "Bad" is a language that denies the performance of a program and doesn't like watching it. Wonderful and bad are a pair of antonyms. The article tells that the author Buddy wrote a poem when he was seven or eight years old and showed it to his parents respectively. Mother's action is to encourage him, give him confidence in writing poems and recognition of himself, hoping that he can create more beautiful poems. But his father's action was to say to him, "This poem is terrible!" " "Dad thought Buddy's poems were really bad, so he told the truth. Father thought: now praise my buddy, and he will be proud. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people regress. The father thought again, "This is terrible. "I will be strict with him so that he will not be complacent because of his temporary success."
I savored this article carefully and thought about the reaction of Buddy's parents. I think: My parents all speak from the starting point of Ebadi, but although they are completely different and have different views, they all love Ebadi. What parents in the world don't love their children? ! There is a lot of love in the world, including encouraging love and criticizing love. Memories of the kind words in maternal love have built our confidence. Another kind of love is strict love, which commands you strictly and points out your shortcomings. This kind of love is awe-inspiring and makes you very dependent on him. This is all kinds of love in life. In fact, parents' love is for us, and we should accept it humbly. In life, no matter what you do, you need two kinds of love: the love that encourages you, the love that points out your shortcomings, and the love that hopes you to correct. Let's cherish all kinds of love in life!