After all, things have passed, and we can't stay. Even if they are deeply hidden in our hearts, it is ourselves who are ultimately injured, so why leave these beautiful memories and the pain now? Some people will cry and be sad because of the surging memories of the past, but I don't think it is particularly good or particularly uncomfortable. If you really cherish your past love, then you won't choose to separate two people in the end, and you won't be unable to be together.
For the good feelings of the past, what is really bad is to look down on everything and take everything less important. Some people say that this mentality is more like a heartless person with no emotion at all, but I want to refute this statement. As an emotional person, to live in the pain of the past all the time, can't you look forward and forget the pain of the past? If you can't forget the past pain, how can you start a new life? How can I make my life better and meet better people in my later life?
For the good feelings of the past, what is really bad is to look down on everything and take everything less important. Some people say that this mentality is more like a heartless person with no emotion at all, but I want to refute this statement. As an emotional person, to live in the pain of the past all the time, can't you look forward and forget the pain of the past? If you can't forget the past pain, how can you start a new life? How can I make my life better and meet better people in my later life?
So I think there is nothing to argue about the memories of the past, because if you really care about those memories, forget them as soon as possible, which is good for both of us. Even if you love someone very much, you didn't cherish it at that time. Finally, the two men left, and each chose his own way. So what's the use of regretting now? What did you do at first? So don't keep those painful memories in your heart, forget them as soon as possible and start a better life in the future. Life has a long way to go. We don't need to blame ourselves for the past, but we should look forward. Only by choosing to move forward can we have a good life. If you keep looking back, your life will be a mess.