If people of this age group know how to keep pace with the times, they will have a more exciting life, see through everything and have the ability to give action plans!
People in their forties and fifties, who have experienced the joys and sorrows of life, tasted the ups and downs of the world, and tasted all the five flavors of cold and warm, have long since lost the vigor of 'a newborn calf is not afraid of tigers' And sharpness, "How many times in this life have we regretted the past, but Yamagata is still pillowed by the cold current", "There is no choice but the flowers have fallen, and spring has passed, and the heaven and earth are gone"! Oneself follows like a shadow. There is more to stop and look back.
But young people are different. They are like the rising sun, rising slowly and casting rays of light, illuminating thousands of miles of mountains and rivers; they are also like flower buds waiting to be bloomed, absorbing the essence of heaven and earth, and displaying infinite grace in a rage. , young people have a lot of time and energy to carve out their own world, and run anywhere in the world!
It makes perfect sense to stand tall at thirty, not to be confused at forty, and to know destiny at fifty!
Confucius once said: At thirty you stand tall; at forty you have no doubts; at fifty you know the destiny. It shows that people at different ages have different living conditions, and at the same time they should face life with the same mentality. I have passed the age of thirty, which is the transition period between the age of forty and knowing my destiny.
Along the way, whether we experience wind, frost, rain, snow or sunshine, it is a kind of growth for us, both mentally and physically, it is an experience.
When I was in my twenties, I studied and joined the society. I felt that I was finally independent after getting rid of the control of my parents. I was full of infinite longing for the future. Everything was unknown and beautiful. After a person runs rampant in society with his eyes closed and touches the scars all over his body, he realizes that there is a price to pay for growing. When we stand at the threshold of thirty, we start to think seriously. To be a real adult, we must know two things. First, we must be able to support ourselves, and second, we must be able to shoulder our own responsibilities. To have the ability to support yourself, you need to master various methods at work to make yourself qualified for the job, and use practical actions to work hard to do everything well; you must continue to study hard after work and follow yourself Charge. Take your own responsibilities, be independent in life, not rely on others, have a complete personality in your heart, understand that anything you do must be done to get rewards, and you must understand that life is never simple and easy. All in all, this is the most beautiful, hardest, sweatiest, and most hard-working age in a person's life. When you look back and look forward to your journey along the way, you will find that before you know it, you are no longer the ignorant and ignorant you at the beginning. You are a self who is very satisfied with yourself, and this result is the fruit of what you have sown along the way.
At forty, I have no doubts. I understand everything, no more doubts, and I am clear. With your own values ??and sense of cognition, you will not follow what others say, you will have your own opinions and ideas on everything, and you will not be confused by the outside world. If you have the support of your own beliefs, you will not be easily knocked down. Know what you want, what you don’t want, and what you should and should not do. We still need to accumulate strength, enrich ourselves, and work hard for our goals, but in this process, we pursue it in a way that suits us, do it for a long time, do it repeatedly, persist, work hard, be diligent, and be patient. So we made it to the end. As we get closer to knowing our destiny, we become completely open-minded.
Knowing destiny means understanding God’s orders, as if some things are destined by God and cannot be changed. You can only let nature take its course. How do people accept this idea? There are several aspects. First, the decline of physical functions. When I was young, I had endless energy every day. Even if I was very hard during the day, when I got up at night, I would feel energetic again, like a powerful machine, without fatigue or pain. But now it doesn't work anymore. When the weather changes, all the joints feel unbearable pain, telling you that your parts are sick. Don't move too much when walking, don't drink water too quickly, don't eat too fast, and don't eat too much. You can't go to some places. All of these are subconsciously telling yourself that you are old. Second, one’s own sense of responsibility. At this age, we have elderly parents and children who are not yet adults. We cannot get sick, we cannot fall, and we cannot let go of the old and the young. We can only continue to work hard and keep moving forward. It's just that in this process, people feel much more at peace in their hearts. They no longer care about gains and losses, nor do they struggle with themselves because of competition, but live with a normal heart.
This is my idea as a person who has immediately entered into knowing destiny. I don’t know if it can be recognized.
A person’s wisdom is not directly related to age. It is determined by personal quality and understanding.
For many people, their wisdom has stopped growing since they were 20 years old. There are many people whose physical age is increasing, but their minds are stuck at 20 years old.
There are many people who repeat the same mistakes for decades, and then pass it on to the next generation as "experience".
Many people have "died" at the age of 20. For the rest of their lives, they are just doing mechanical repetitive movements. Just like the "donkey pulling the mill", you can't escape the circle for life.
The most awesome person is 20 years old and wise at 50 years old.
——Angela Liu Yusi
Being born in 1976, I happen to be at this stuck point now! It’s too long ago to recall my youth! No confusion at forty, knowing destiny at fifty! If you are under this age, you will not understand it!
When people reach middle age, they are not as good as young people either physically or mentally.
Young people are full of energy, hard work, quick thinking, dare to challenge, dare to innovate, and have quick adaptability. However, young people lack life experience and experience, and are easily impulsive and impulsive.
If young people can humbly ask for advice, it will be of great help to their own discoveries, avoid detours, and grow quickly.
If middle-aged people can integrate into young people, they will also feel energetic and cheerful, give full play to their strengths, be diligent in learning, keep pace with the times, and actively participate in social welfare activities. Enrich your spiritual life. You can also participate in social and cultural activities to enhance your health and improve your immunity.
The reason why I am forty is because I am standing on the cusp of the storm. There are seniors and juniors. It is the time when all the pressure is on myself, and my age prevents me from doing whatever I want. I will do anything for five buckets of rice. Suck it up. Fifty has become relatively stable, and my heart has slowly settled down. I am more accepting of my fate than fighting for my life
At 40, Buhuo is probably more open-minded than young people, and is no longer confused about how to live in the future. Let’s face reality more calmly. 50 Knowing destiny is probably a kind of life that is easy to live with, and rarely fights with others. It is a Buddhist life. Young people should be positive. If you don't work hard in middle age, you will regret it.
More stable and realistic. There is no such thing as "easy" in the adult world.
The cost of trial and error for most adults is almost zero. They dare not change their jobs at will. They have wives and children, mortgages, and car loans. A continuous source of funds has become the key to family stability and harmony. .
Most adults don’t think much about dreaming and working to live, while most young people still have the option of “living to work”.
The hearts of most adults can no longer stir up the waves of their youth, but are more calm.
People's growth always goes through a process. The arrogance of young people will gradually be consumed as they grow older. Each of us is running for life.
What I work hard now is not for my current life, but for a better survival in the future.
Come on, stranger?.
This is like eating honey. Young people all know that honey is sweet, but they have never eaten honey and have not experienced the sweet taste of honey. People in their 40s and 50s have all eaten honey and can feel the sweetness and deliciousness of it.
Generally speaking, I have learned more from seeing and hearing than young people, and I have learned more than young people from experience.