Confessions of post-90s college students.
Our post-90s college students have the following characteristics.
1. Enthusiasm, openness and silence coexist.
Most post-90s college students are enthusiastic, open, energetic and good at talking. However, quite a few college students are enthusiastic, open and eloquent in front of familiar people or friends, but relatively silent and inarticulate in front of strangers. It makes people feel noble. According to some students, many college students have little communication with their classmates. Their contacts are limited to classmates in the same dormitory. Some students even seldom talk in the dormitory. Students will reflect that he is withdrawn and never talks to his classmates when he meets something. After a long time, other students will feel that they are unsociable and it is difficult to communicate. Gradually, everyone will get used to their silence and rarely communicate with them when they encounter things. In this way, they will feel lonely and neglected.
2. Independence and dependence coexist.
The post-90s college students have a strong sense of independence. They don't want others to disturb them. They hate that parents, teachers, classmates and friends care too much about their own affairs. At the same time, due to the large number of only children, many things are arranged by parents since childhood, and they rarely wash clothes and do housework by themselves, so their daily affairs and economic dependence are largely dependent on their parents. In addition, as an only child, she is spoiled and has poor ability to share and cooperate with others. At school, she will also have conflicts with roommates and classmates, feel lonely when something happens, and have a strong emotional dependence on her parents, but at the same time she is unwilling to have in-depth communication with her parents. There is always ambivalence.
3, the pursuit of novelty, strong ability to accept new things
The post-90s college students are also a generation growing up under the influence of the Internet. They are easy to accept new things and like to seek excitement and novelty, but they also have strong learning ability, active thinking and strong creativity. Always strive for innovation and change, and cannot be content with the status quo. And be good at receiving new information and learning new things from the Internet.
4, the sense of responsibility is often reflected in the critical moment.
Selfishness, lack of social responsibility, lack of historical mission, indifference to politics, indifference to others, only care about themselves, care about when to buy a house and a car, and so on. This is generally recognized by the society. But at the same time, we should also see that the social background of these students' growth is very different from that of the sixties and seventies. People in the sixties and seventies experienced the hardest life, deeply realized the life of being masters of the country brought by the * * * production party, the earth-shaking changes brought about by the reform and opening up, and had strong patriotic feelings. As for the post-90s youth, as some articles on the Internet show, they have had a good life since they were born. With the care of their parents, they don't know what to complain about. They don't need to care about political and national development. No one told them to pay attention to anything except their parents and teachers who taught them to study hard. Therefore, they obviously do not pay enough attention to the country and society, and their sense of responsibility is not very prominent.
But at critical times, we can also see the sense of social responsibility and strong patriotic feelings of young people born after 1990, such as "5? In the "12" earthquake, many college students rushed to donate money and blood, and many little heroes appeared in the touching stories of helping each other and sacrificing themselves in the disaster.
5, psychological endurance is not strong
Post-90s college students are special. After decades of development, the economy of this country has greatly improved. The economic conditions of each family are relatively better than before, and they will invest more in their children. Moreover, fathers themselves have suffered a lot, and they don't want their children to suffer any more. They want their children to live a superior life. No matter how tired you are, you can't suffer the child, almost materially. In addition, children are the care and love of the whole family, and they don't have to do anything except study. The whole family is centered on this child, and they can lose their temper at will and parents accept it unconditionally. These children have become flowers in the greenhouse, and they have never experienced the baptism of wind and rain. Once they encounter setbacks, they feel that the sky has fallen and the world is gloomy.
6. Lack of interpersonal communication.
Studies have shown that some post-90s college students still have some shortcomings in interpersonal communication, mainly manifested in: lack of self-confidence, being very stiff in social occasions, thinking too much about their own image, being self-centered and demanding too much of others. Find fault with other people's words and deeds, criticize and doubt, and lack understanding, respect and sympathy; Do not understand tolerance and will not put yourself in others' shoes; Too stubborn, willful, extreme, and even moody. Bored, empty, eager to make friends, but not active or do not know how to make friends with others, how to manage friendship.
Although we have many shortcomings, we are willing to change. Below I use a poem to express the feelings of our post-90 s college students.
It is said that we were born in the spring of the development of the times.
Is the favored son of heaven;
They said we were rolling around in honey nests,
Don't have to go through a hard life;
They say that we are well fed and clothed,
Nothing is lacking.
However, we ask ourselves, and we examine ourselves.
We are actually missing a lot after 90.
We lack down-to-earth,
Have fantasies but don't put them into practice.
We lack the ability to live independently,
We don't want to fight alone under the wings of our parents.
We lack honesty and understanding,
Many people use the banner of individuality.
Actually, it's just rebellion, too self-centered.
We lack maturity and stability,
Do what men and women want, regardless of the consequences.
While fully enjoying the material achievements,
There are relatives who love too much,
But lack of concern for others.
We lack a sense of responsibility,
Don't care much about social morality.
What we lack most is not IQ, but EQ.
Lack of good psychological quality and noble ideology and morality.
Lack of sense of teamwork and cooperation, open-minded personality.
We are precocious,
Mentally fragile.
Our gratitude for home is also very indifferent.
We take mother's delicious cooking for granted.
Take the living expenses earned by my father seriously,
We are impatient with the teacher's pure teaching.
We seldom appreciate society and our motherland.
We should use our own efforts,
Fill the vacancy;
We should try to improve.
Self-character;
We should have a filial heart,
We should be grateful to the society and the motherland.
One day, we will proudly say:
After 90 college students, we don't lack anything!