Contradictions and conflicts are inevitable on everyone's growth path. Conflicts are like a double-edged sword. If you are hurt, others will feel bad. It is also a snowy mountain of the soul, which makes people feel chilly ... opening the photo album of memories always makes me regret it.
After a busy day at school, I want to go home and relax. Who knows, as soon as I opened the door, my mother was rummaging through my things again and complained, "Look, your grades have dropped again. What should I do? " I said discontentedly, "Mom, grades don't mean everything." Mother said seriously, "that won't do." I can't let you back down. Wait, I'll get something. "
In the blink of an eye, my mother came in with a pile of exercise books and said solemnly, "Listen, you have to read a book and do two exercises on Monday night;" Tuesday night ... "I began to complain in my heart: why is my mother so annoyed that I have to do everything?" I disdained to say, "Mom, I don't want to do it!" " "As soon as the voice fell, my mother's face changed:" No "I said angrily," Mom, I am like a bird trapped in a cage. I long for freedom! " "Say that finish, I pushed my mother out of the door and slammed the door.
After closing the door, I have been in a bad mood and held back my tears. I think I went too far. After all, she is my mother. But what should I do now?
Until the evening, I passed by my mother's house and vaguely heard what her mother was whispering. I can't help but stop and eavesdrop. It turned out that my mother was blaming herself: "am I really too strict with my daughter?" Does she really hate me so much? " At this time, my heart shook. It turns out that my mother cares so much about me. Mother added, "Daughter, don't you understand my good intentions?" At that moment, my heart ached: everything my mother did was for my own good. I rushed into the room without hesitation and hugged my mother tightly, and my mother hugged me. At that moment, a beam of sunshine shot into my heart and melted the ice in my heart, which is incomparable in thousands of words!
This incident made me understand: when there are contradictions and conflicts, we should think from the perspective of others, so as to eliminate the friction between them.
The first day: my perfect memory
The second lecture on the contradiction between doctors and patients
Every progress of society will highlight its new and sharper contradictions! Today, with the rapid development of science and technology and broad economy, contradictions emerge one after another! Among them, the most common and typical is "doctor-patient contradiction!" Specific problems, specific analysis! (But it seems that this problem is not easy to analyze in detail! First of all, we must be clear: according to the overall situation of social progress today, such contradictions are inevitable! Below, I will briefly talk about this issue!
"Doctor-patient contradiction" usually refers to the collision and friction between doctors (medical institutions) and patients! And this kind of collision friction is not only from one side or two sides. The reasons should be various! Among them, the depth includes China's medical system reform, medical economy and technical limitations; The intensification of public opinion and the lack of government legal system, the low administrative efficiency of relevant units and other factors! (Of course, medical institutions and patients themselves are not excluded! )
As for the reason, please listen to me one by one:
Since China's reform and opening up, the financial sector's "care" for medical institutions has gradually decreased, and finally it has been systematically introduced to the market! And the guarantee system for maintaining a good medical system is even rarer! Therefore, medical institutions instinctively evolved into benefits, not charity! Due to the lack of technical support and financial subsidies from the state, medical institutions strive to maintain their operation in the market of economic disharmony, and soon various hidden rules and operational plans have been formed: generosity, selling counterfeit drugs, accepting red envelopes, and engaging in kickbacks ... For a time, the balance between morality and interests was seriously unbalanced! With the continuous improvement of material level and material requirements, coupled with the public opinion noise of the masses and the media, contradictions and conflicts are becoming increasingly fierce! The distance between doctors and patients is clear, lacking interaction and trust!
It is conceivable that the changes in social environment and humanistic thought will inevitably create today's situation. But in any case, this should never be an excuse for any doctor (medical institution) to cheat and abandon medical ethics. ...
Doctor, used to be called doctor and doctor! (Originally a senior official name of the imperial court, it was cited as the honorific title for doctors in the north and south of China after the Song Dynasty! ) "Doctor, practice medicine to help the world, and benevolent people are benevolent!" It can be seen that doctors have always been a noble profession! The so-called "doctor, doctor" is to let the patient's body and soul get timely treatment and rekindle the hope of life! But modern doctors only give physical treatment, and have less spiritual communication and contact with patients! "Doctors are heartless, patients are unintentional!" On the contrary, the exchange of interests is the most important thing for both sides! This can not help but lead to another in-depth exploration and reflection on human nature!
Throughout China in recent decades, ordinary people rarely feel depressed because they have no money to see a doctor! At that time, the social situation really created love for everyone: doctors were simple in medical style and noble in medical ethics, and medical institutions treated patients and saved lives. Patients actively cooperate, optimistic and positive, and know how to be grateful! Everyone is like brothers, everyone is like brothers! Compared with some silence in today's society, it really makes people feel sad and angry!
Fortunately, history is progressive! So are humans! We can't go back to the beginning! In the final analysis, the contradiction between doctors and patients is only a reflection of the qualitative change of society and human nature! At the same time, it is also a new direction of action for the promotion of civilization! Objectively speaking: it is also the pace of the times! Social progress leads to "material dispute", which will undoubtedly lead to economic chaos! This requires the national government to take the lead, strengthen supervision and solve them one by one! ! Here, I hope the country can continue to increase the crackdown on laws and regulations, and the education and dissemination of binding and moral civilization! I hope that the problem of "contradiction between doctors and patients" can be solved as soon as possible! Let everyone live a happy life!
Huang Zhaoxian, Grade Two, Tangkeng Middle School, Fengshun County, Meizhou City, Guangdong Province
The third article teaches you three tricks to write a wonderful beginning.
Set a specific scene
In the writing of narrative and prose, the description of environment and plot is essential. Environmental description can not only render the atmosphere, but also contrast the characters and promote the development of the story. If the scene and plot are briefly described at the beginning of the article, it can provide the background for the story, bring the reader to a specific story atmosphere and play a fascinating role.
Create contradictions and conflicts
Ceng Laoshi introduced that in the composition of the senior high school entrance examination, the narrative genre is generally dominant. When writing a narrative, you should be good at creating contradictions at the beginning, unfolding stories in contradictions and attracting people. When writing a composition, candidates can jump out of the conventional "chronological" thinking at the beginning, create a contradiction, quickly grasp the reader's heart and attract the marking teacher to read on. Showing the contradictory focus of events to readers at the beginning of the article can enhance the cadence and readability of the article.
Good at quoting from other sources.
Candidates can also start writing articles by quoting. Quoting is a very common way to start an article. At the beginning of the article, candidates can quote famous sayings, poems, old sayings, proverbs, couplets and so on without deviating from the theme. And you can also quote the lyrics in the song in order to lead to the following narrative lyric. Such a beginning not only easily resonates with readers, but also increases the literary grace of the article, killing two birds with one stone.
The only thing that can't be changed
-Ideas about the Strait.
The world is changing every day, and the earth is turning and changing every day. Things have changed, and the only thing that cannot be changed is this world.
What impressed me the most was the last sentence: "Look at me, this is the only thing that plastic surgeons can't change!" " "What can't change. Although the camera is always in front of him, it can change more than that.
Everything changes every day, but in people's minds, nothing has changed. I'm always used to going with others. If he changes, so will I. He said it would change.
When you see the essence of things, you will suddenly realize. It's a pity that what could have been the same suddenly changed in an instant. And the price that needs to be paid at this time may be life. ...
The film does not give more explanation to the conflict itself. But with the development of the plot step by step, it gives the most wonderful interpretation in the most subtle description.
No matter what changes, there is a common psychological feature, that is, on the one hand, they are afraid of being recognized, on the other hand, they are eager to be recognized. This kind of contradictory psychology is always revealed intentionally or unintentionally. Another similarity is the process before the change. Whether you like it or not, the target or attack point will always move in the direction of forcing it to change, which may be something that no one can change!
The fifth article teaches you three tricks to write a wonderful beginning
The beginning of the composition is an important position for the marking teacher to mark the paper, and it is also the first impression. A good beginning can be fascinating, so candidates must write a good opening paragraph when writing. Teacher Zeng Zhihong of Chongwen District Education Institute gave several methods to write the beginning of the composition for candidates' reference.
Set a specific scene
In the writing of narrative and prose, the description of environment and plot is essential. Environmental description can not only render the atmosphere, but also contrast the characters and promote the development of the story. If the scene and plot are briefly described at the beginning of the article, it can provide the background for the story, bring the reader to a specific story atmosphere and play a fascinating role.
Create contradictions and conflicts
Ceng Laoshi introduced that in the composition of the senior high school entrance examination, the narrative genre is generally dominant. When writing a narrative, you should be good at creating contradictions at the beginning, unfolding stories in contradictions and attracting people. When writing a composition, candidates can jump out of the conventional "chronological" thinking at the beginning, create a contradiction, quickly grasp the reader's heart and attract the marking teacher to read on. Showing the contradictory focus of events to readers at the beginning of the article can enhance the cadence and readability of the article.
Good at quoting from other sources.
Candidates can also start writing articles by quoting. Quoting is a very common way to start an article. At the beginning of the article, candidates can quote famous sayings, poems, old sayings, proverbs, couplets and so on without deviating from the theme. And you can also quote the lyrics in the song in order to lead to the following narrative lyric. Such a beginning not only easily resonates with readers, but also increases the literary grace of the article, killing two birds with one stone.