When I first heard this passage, I was still the "big lady" in my bones. If any man dares to say this to me, I will definitely spit his face. Unfortunately, the first person who said this to me was my husband now. As you guessed, we had a fierce quarrel. Because I don't think there are people in this world who are not related to me and can make me obey. I am the truth, and I am my own law. If men are all babies, why should I follow this bastard?
later, I changed shamelessly. Not because I "defected", but because I saw the most correct family model in the world.
As wives, we should encourage the "head" in our husbands' writers to use love as lubrication. In life, we encourage our husbands to stand up for us and give advice to our families. This will make the husband responsible, and it will be easier and easier to make the right decision. On the other hand, before a woman marries, if she is not sure that this man's IQ vision is above you, it is recommended not to marry. In particular, there is no way to answer the question of who to save first, whether to protect the big or the small, so there is no need to spend more time. A man thinks that his wife still has a chance to oppose his mother. He didn't separate the two sides from the beginning, protect his wife's position as a hostess at home, or let her go beyond her mother's dignity. Then there is no need for this man to entrust her.
when it comes to this, women are not safe yet. Let's go on to talk about what the correct family structure should be like. Husbands should naturally love their wives and not treat them badly. Is the opposition with your mother-in-law a bitter treatment? Definitely. Is it hard to support the family while carrying the work? Definitely. So, now in WeChat official account, Tik Tok, those evil mothers-in-law in love rat, please don't ask their wives to obey first, because they are crooked and don't deserve a good girl.
children listen to their parents in everything, whether it is right and wrong or not. Of course not. In strict family teachings, the word of God is what the whole family should follow most. Under this framework, the whole family has the same view and the same direction, and there should not be a problem of tearing opinions. And parents should follow the teaching and raise their children, and naturally they should not make unreasonable demands. Will there be children who don't respect their parents under such a frame? I don't think so. Today, with the prevalence of individualism, each generation feels different, and there is a "generation gap" that is not harmonious with the previous generation in terms of ideology, economic knowledge and lifestyle. It is always necessary to find out various reasons not to "listen to parents". God allows the existence of the "generation gap", and it is even more necessary to use the "generation gap" to let us learn to speak and act in the name of the Lord Jesus and do things that are pleasing to the Lord. The children and parents referred to here are believers.
Family needs discipline, but meaningless laws, rules and endless criticism, just like Jewish law, are full of minefields, which will not only "provoke children's anger", but also provoke their children's evil in their bodies and make them stay away from God. It will also make children "lose their ambition" and live out the style of a new person. Just as God treats unworthy parents with "compassion, kindness, gentleness and patience", parents should follow the example of the Father's heart and "tolerate and forgive" their imperfect children with "compassion, kindness, gentleness and patience". Parents "don't make their children angry" is the best practice to speak and act in the name of the Lord Jesus.
what if you don't respect your family and influence your family? Don't be afraid, because "those who do injustice will be rewarded by injustice;" The Lord is not partial to others. "