Life is only once, so the older you get, the more worried you are that your quality of life will be greatly reduced. If the body loses its basic self-care ability, it can be said that it damages the dignity of life. What's more, it will increase the burden on his wife and children. It is best to have a wife and share it with the children, but the wife may still leave first.
In the end, it depends on the children. However, the longer you stay in bed, the more likely you are to lose your filial son. No matter how much money or energy I continue to pay, it will be a test for my children. Besides, the elderly who have neither a wife nor children will be more miserable, which can be described as miserable.
Second, I am most afraid of loneliness.
When people are old, they are most afraid that their wives will go first, but it is very likely that one of them will go first. It is extremely complicated and difficult to find a suitable wife again, so it is likely that they will have to endure loneliness. Even if I can be with my children, I am not in the mood to talk to them. The gap between the two generations is not groundless.
When you go out to chat with your neighbors, you will have nothing to say except your unrelated parents, and you will be wary of each other with outsiders. You can't say what you are talking about, your worries can only be accumulated in your heart. At most, I talk to myself behind closed doors at home and talk to myself from time to time. Even if you say no more than five sentences all day long, you leave loneliness to fate until it comes naturally.
Third, I am most afraid that I have neither much income nor much savings.
With money, many problems that can be solved with money will be solved easily; Without money, even small problems that can be solved with small money will be stretched. In rich old age, even if children are unreliable, there is still room for manoeuvre. With enough money, we can attack and defend.
Don't think that money is not important. Money shows different degrees of importance in different stages of life. Some old people keep saying that money is irrelevant because they haven't met anything that needs money yet. Money is the last word in old age. Without money, you can't move in old age. At least, it will reduce the financial burden of children before their death and leave them a considerable legacy after their death.