However, as an ordinary woman, read too many books and indulge in them, okay?
If you read aimlessly and read miscellaneous books, reading too many books is not a good thing. Generally speaking, a woman who likes reading must be fond of fantasy, dissatisfied with reality and romantic and unrealistic. The more books she reads, the heavier her thoughts become, which is not conducive to the truth of her life and the practice of dealing with people.
In ancient times, it was very reasonable to advocate boudoir sewing. When a woman is tempered by a needle and a thread in daily trifles and nurtured carefully and gently, she learns how to be a real woman, how to be content with her duties and live a plain life. Xue Baochai's advice to Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions: If you read too many books, you will lose your temper. Women should be content with their duties, and do some things like the needle grate line that women should do, so as not to lose their true colors. I think this statement is very reasonable. In my impression, Xue Baochai is just a "pretty" person who plays well. He is proficient in personnel under pressure. However, these words of hers were really spoken by Cao Xueqin through Xue Baochai to exhort women all over the world not to be moved by books.
Although Lin Daiyu is brilliant and eccentric, Xue Baochai is superior to tolerance and ordinary. Daiyu's sorrow is that she walked into the book and never came out. Finally, because I am too obsessed with the perfect fantasy, I can't control myself, I can't solve it, I can't let it go. It's a pity that young people died young, which makes people feel sad. Lin Xiaoxu, a young actor, has been deeply involved in the drama since he was a child, so he is not delayed by books. China people's psychology has always been the most emphasis on happy ending and perfection. Lin Xiaoxu later succeeded in this world, outstanding, with extraordinary low-key brilliance, but he could not enjoy his life and died a natural death, which always made people lament. The beauty left by the yellow crane, and Shu Xian finally entered the Shu Xian forest. I hope this little humble opinion didn't disturb Xiaoxu's rest in peace.
A red chamber has trapped many women, feeling sorry for themselves and unable to dial it. Sad but unable to send away, melancholy but unable to be happy. And the' injury' in ancient poetry has also been all the rage. I don't know how many setbacks and polishes those once fragile and addicted hearts have experienced in the cruelty of this world before they can wake up. So, although I know the book A Dream of Red Mansions is very attractive, I dare not read it any more. If you don't have the ability to advance and retreat freely, you can be a little self-aware.
Women can sometimes compete with men, but women should never forget their true colors as women. When you get home, you should pick up what a woman should do. For example, knitting a sweater is a physical labor that can reflect a woman's nature and patience. In the process of knitting sweaters, women are careful, patient and attentive to every stitch and thread. How many troubles and worries are devoted to knitting, knitting a sweater is another brilliant day, what should I do? Go to work, buy food and take care of the children. Be content with every ordinary and real day, without having meaningless dreams. Just as a woman's survival is rooted in the intestines and needs vegetarian food and fiber, a woman can only do what a woman should do and eat necessary fruits and vegetables. A woman who wants to do something as much as a man may accuse me of ruining her ambition. However, seeing many women trudging in men's world, even if there is a little progress, they all pay an amazing price, which is bound to outweigh the benefits.
In fact, the strong woman who can really succeed in the end must be a woman who combines her own efforts with letting nature take its course and adheres to the true nature of women. She will also be a gentle woman. But this kind of mind and life connotation can't be influenced by miscellaneous books.