Essay 1 on Romantic Love: Because you are my wife, I should be kind to you
Author: Miss Pinball
The better a person's personality, the stronger his sense of responsibility. Being with such people is the most practical.
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A girl asked her husband, why are you so kind to me? If someone else were your wife, would you still be so kind to her? Husband said, yes.
The girl came to me sadly, and I thought it was quite hurtful at first glance, but when I think about it carefully, it's only because a husband is responsible for his wife that he will be kind to her as long as he is his wife, so this man must have a good personality.
Some people are motivated in front of leaders, loyal to their friends, and have a promising job. They seem to be suitable candidates for husbands. They are all good people in front of others. When they fall in front of their families, they are out-and-out assholes. In the final analysis, their character is not good.
I have a client who said that every time they have dinner or drink, there is an unspoken rule. Whenever a family member calls, everyone will stop talking, wait patiently for the people at the table to talk about business after the phone call, and the attitude towards family members can best show a person's character. Anyone who is impatient to answer the phone and has a bad tone will not want to have business cooperation, because the last thing to do is to fight for character.
What is character? It is the truest self after putting aside emotions, status and masks. Because you are my wife, I am good to you. Because you are my partner, I am honest with you. These are the most fundamental things in people's hearts. Even without love or friendship, you can keep your principles in your heart.
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I saw a sentence on the Internet before, and I agree with it very much:
You can see a man's character after marriage, because the state at home is often a person's true self.
When he stepped into the house and took off his coat, his body relaxed slowly. At this time, he no longer needed to play so many roles. Why do some people like to stay at home? Maybe they can't play others well, but they can play themselves. Then why do some people like to lose their temper with their families who love you? It's just because they hate themselves when they play themselves. It's like you hate something. If others like it and argue with you, of course you will be angry and terrible. How can you have the ability to love others if you don't even like yourself?
My best friend Wenwen has been married for more than a year, and just gave birth to a baby. One day, we went to see her, and she was still mopping the floor with her baby in one hand. She felt distressed and sighed with emotion, feeling that the literary young woman who dared to talk about Mount Everest in those days had returned to the world.
Wenwen's husband is in good condition, and he belongs to a good husband candidate who has a car and a house in the eyes of his elders. Wenwen, who is under too much secular pressure, is married just like her personality. Unfortunately, it didn't take long for her husband to disappear, and Wenwen can't ask him, and he will explode when he asks him. The family wants to redecorate and give the children a more comfortable environment, but the husband promised to delay the implementation; Wenwen wanted her husband to accompany her when she was pregnant with her baby. Her husband always shirked being too busy to go once. She thought her husband was a role that had not yet entered the family, and thought that he should get better when he became a father. Now that the child is born, the problem has not improved at all.
The literary style that has always been very tolerant once broke out. My husband came home drunk in the middle of the night and woke up the child. The child was crying. His husband actually said that even the child could not be a wife. Wenwen did not say anything, and took a taxi back to her family with her child in her arms overnight.
In Wenwen's husband's view, the wife should give birth to his children and take care of them, and take out laundry, cooking and mopping the floor. These things are natural. Doing well is the standard, and doing badly is your fault. What a shameless logic, because this is what his character structure is like. The wife is used for serving and the partner is used for selling, because that is his true self.
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In fact, a bad personality means that you don't like yourself, so you can't like others. How can a person with a bad personality talk about family responsibility, and how can he bear the responsibility of a family even if he can't afford himself?
If you ask me, what kind of man in this world is worth marrying, it must be a man with good character. Only a man with good character will have a sense of responsibility. Because you are my wife, I will treat you well.
speaking of which, I can't help telling my uncle's story. My aunt was an educated youth who went to the countryside. My uncle was still in the countryside, and the two of them became friends. My aunt's family was an intellectual, and the family conditions pulled us apart for several floors. At that time, everyone advised her not to be with my uncle. My aunt was also a malicious character. The next year, she directly took the child to her home and said that she would not get married. Her father almost swept her out of the house.
It's a pity that my aunt's family met with a lawsuit and lost everything to win the battle. At this time, my uncle had made a small achievement in his career. One day, he went home and said to his aunt's family, I don't know much about legal matters, but I do have this hundred thousand. My aunt recalled that it was the most cash she had ever seen in her life, and even now she didn't feel much about one million in front of her.
My uncle sold his factory, and everyone thought he was crazy. It was not easy to start from scratch. He said, I have no ambition. My job is to make my family better. Isn't it good now? On the tenth anniversary of the wedding, my uncle had to make up the wedding. At that time, all the prominent people in business came. My uncle was still simple, kneeling in front of my aunt on the stage and kowtowing. My uncle, who had little expression in my eyes since childhood, was in tears on the stage, and others didn't understand, but because you are my wife, it is appropriate to kowtow to you.
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People like my uncle may not say a word of love for you in ten years, but he always keeps the responsibility of loving you in his heart. A man with a sense of responsibility may not have much wealth, bring you a rich life, eat many delicacies and buy many luxuries, but he will fight for his family voluntarily, and he will never make promises at will, because he is afraid that it will not make you sad, and his actions are greater than any promises.
such a man is the one worth marrying.
A man worthy of marriage, a man with a sense of responsibility, will eventually return to his family, willing to give up unnecessary entertainment, such as playing cards, singing K and drinking, and leave time for his family. When you need him, he can give you a sense of security. If you don't even hurt your wife, don't blame Lao Wang next door.
You should remember that any elusive promise made by address unknown is not as true and reliable as the company around him. Where he spends his time shows what is the most important thing in his heart.
You are my wife, of course I should be nice to you. You are my child, of course I have the responsibility to teach you to grow up well. The person who has a sense of family responsibility is the one who can finally come back to you. Otherwise, no matter how good he is, it has nothing to do with you.
Essay 2 on Romantic Love: If you never leave me, I will be deeply attached
Years are quiet and warm as ever. Your smile, flowing through my heart, stirs up ripples in my heart lake. Can't escape your chase, shy in time, lingering in time, and tender in time. I have thought of your goodness, your truth and your fiery feelings countless times in my heart. It is you who light a heart lamp in my heart and make my life colorful and colorful. In life, with your presence, I will be satisfied, and I firmly believe that you are my only one and my solid support.
My heart is beating, tender and uneasy, and I can't escape the burning eyes you look at me, the persistence and seriousness in your eyes, and the gentleness in your eyes. In just one second, I melted into your fiery embrace, unable to help myself and breathe. Everything came so fast that I was caught off guard; Everything came so fast that I was surprised again and again; It all came so suddenly that I fell into a dream. Your temperature is enough to ignite my silence; Your eagerness is enough to influence my hardness; Your affection is enough to drive away my loneliness.
as time goes by, the world is stable. Give you my heart, I will. Although spring is good, it is not as good as the smile on your mouth; Youth is not old, and it is not as high-spirited as you; The sunny days are not as good as your sunny eyes. Now, I give my youth to you, I hope you can cherish it more; Now, I dedicate my love to you, I hope you can treat each other sincerely; Now, I leave my future in your care. I hope you can put it in a proper place.
Open the lintel of memory, let time flow and recall our good times. When I am bored, I like to go shopping alone and buy nothing. On sunny days, I like to watch the white clouds in the sky, the people coming and going in the street, the dazzling costumes in the clothing store, and the tall girls wearing red high heels gracefully shuttling through the crowd. When it is raining lightly, I like to meet the drizzle and the breeze, feel the coolness of the rain and the touch of the wind; I like to watch the misty rain pictures with clear sky, and I like to watch couples holding hands and smiling tacitly in the rain on the street.
we met at the corner of the coffee shop. It was raining heavily at that time. I rushed to the coffee shop, and my brown hat and white skirt were wet. Looking at the heavy rain, I can't help but imagine myself holding an umbrella, playing in the rain, and chasing him in the rain. Laughter, shouts and the sound of treading water melted in the rain. Unconsciously, a gentle and magnetic voice echoed in my ear: Miss, I wonder if I have the honor to open an umbrella for you?
I turned around and saw that the height parallel to my sight was your waist, which forced me to look up at you who was 2 meters tall. When you look up, you will never forget it. Your hair is thick and black, and your eyebrows are as thick and long as hair, just like a master of ink painting painted a thick and colorful stroke above your eyes. Your eyes are clear and expressive, affectionate and meaningful. Your melon-seed-like face and fair skin make you look handsome and delicate.
Looking at you, my heart is pounding, a red cloud is flying on my cheek, and I keep nodding. Your oversized umbrella is high above my head, sheltering me from the wind and rain. You said you like to walk in the rain with an umbrella and feel the rare gift of nature. I said me too. Therefore, no matter how big the rain is or how urgent the wind is, I like your tall and big black umbrella, and I like your extremely tall figure full of safety atmosphere.
From now on, whenever it rains, when I take shelter here, you will invariably appear under the eaves of the coffee shop. You are also tall and the umbrella, but gradually, I am attracted by your gentle talk, moved by your meticulous care and impressed by your extensive and profound knowledge. Just, walking, our hands are holding together; Hold on, you hold up half the sky for me; Watching, our hearts burn with passion.
that day, I took part in a TV knowledge contest, and I lost the contest, which inevitably made me feel a little depressed. Suddenly, a romantic music sounded, and I suddenly turned around. A familiar and tall figure was coming towards me in the distance. Still thick hair and eyebrows, still affectionate eyes, still handsome and delicate face, just holding a bunch of bright roses in his hand, dressed in a suit and tie. You came to me slowly, your mouth slightly raised, hiding a mysterious smile; The eyes are affectionate and serious, as if there is a fire burning in the eyes.
You came up to me, knelt down on one knee, and looked at me with tears in your eyes. You said that I was your angel, the best girl you met in this life, the woman you most wanted to be with in this life, your confidante in the ups and downs, and the person who knows and loves you best. You are willing to protect and love me all your life until the last moment. You asked me if I would hold your hand and grow old with you. Suddenly, my heart shouted a hundred wishes, a thousand wishes and ten thousand wishes. But I only said one thing: if you never leave, I will be deeply dependent.
it takes courage to love. In the face of other people's gossip, our hearts should be extremely firm, and we should not be influenced by others' dissension. In the face of inner questioning, whether our choice is correct or not, we should firmly believe our original choice without hesitation. In the face of opposition from relatives, if we can't get their blessing after hard work, we should not give up our original promise to each other. Just love each other, comfort each other and support each other. I believe our love will eventually touch everyone.
Love is not only the attraction of appearance and temperament, but also the result of mutual understanding and support. It is also the running-in and sharing of life, sharing troubles and happiness, sharing pain and sadness, and sharing success and failure. Love must stand the test of reality. In life, it is inevitable that there will be such hardships. Instead of quarreling with each other and finally ending in the cold war, it is better to share the burden with * * *, and the fortunes will be with * * *.
it's not romantic to leave love. I cook a delicious meal for you, and you brush my eyebrows and comb my hair. Love can't be separated from the same hobby. I raise flowers, you plant grass, and you keep a pet dog, giving it the value it deserves to treat a life. Love can't be separated from the same faith. We all love words and regard them as the sustenance of our lives. In our spare time, you grind ink and I write poems, and you draw pictures and I compose poems. Love is noble, it can't be mixed with any betrayal and lies. If you fall in love with another woman, please tell me frankly and don't secretly associate with her behind my back. If I fall in love with another man, I will confess to you at the first time, just as Lin Huiyin fell in love with Jin Yuelin, but still kept a clear head, only kept friends with him, and confessed to her husband Liang Sicheng, asking him for help and seeking his understanding.
There is a kind of love in the world, that is, you are terminally ill, and I still want to give you a complete wedding; There is a kind of love in the world, that is, you are paralyzed all your life, and I am willing to take care of you all my life, and raise my children well, and respect and support your parents as my own parents; There is a kind of love in the world, that is, we have no money and no right to have a greenhouse, but we support each other all our lives, and we have never turned red in our lives. When we are white-haired and wrinkled, we still hold hands and whisper to each other.
if you love, please love deeply; If you love, please really love; If you love, please love warmly; If you love, please love unconditionally. If you love, please never give up; If you love, please be affectionate; If you love, please be by my side; If love; Please give me a comforting word when I am sad; If you love me, please accompany me to watch the meteor shower on our wedding anniversary. If you love me, please accompany me to watch a movie and have lunch on my birthday; If you love me, please make a promise to love me forever, and then simply and ordinary, just finish this life.
Prose Essay on Romantic Love 3: Sweet Love
When the doctor called her out of the ward alone and told her about his illness, she was like.