People don't have to live vigorously in this life to be considered as not living in vain. Lin Yutang said in The Wind is Trembling: "There is no dispute, it is a great dispute: there is no dispute, and the whole world does not contend with it."
Sometimes, it is indisputable that this is actually the highest state of life. Look down, everything goes with fate, and life will be much simpler if you don't expect things that don't belong to you.
In fact, life is a journey of no return. Along the way, you will experience a lot of scenery and meet many people's hearts. You will eventually be indifferent to the world, and your heart will not be old.
Whether it's tears or laughter, it's a must-see in life. In fact, you really don't have to care too much. You will finally understand that being born as a human being should let nature take its course, which is actually the highest realm of life.
Mr. Jiang Yang used her whole life to perfectly interpret the word "indisputable".
Many people know Jiang Yang, perhaps because of the book The Three of Us. In this book, Mr. Jiang Yang wrote the warm past between her and Mr. Qian Zhongshu and their gentle and lovely daughter Qian Yuan with sincere and delicate brushstrokes.
From this book, many people see Jiang Yang, who is different from the usual media or some public discourse. He is humorous and kind, and sometimes even a little playful.
Outsiders say that she doesn't like meeting people, attending so-called celebrity parties, or even going out often.
However, only those who really know Mr. Jiang Yang will know that her life is just a pursuit of the word "indisputable".
She doesn't like fame and fortune In Jiang Yang's view, she is actually just an ordinary person, a speck in the world of mortals, no different from others.
However, when someone pushed her to a very high position, she said that she would feel very scared. It is a burden to associate with those prominent people, and she prefers to live her life in peace. So later, she simply stayed at home and refused those kind invitations, which was also a euphemism.
Perhaps, for Mr. Jiang Yang, indisputable is the most comfortable way to live in this world and the highest realm of life.
Of course, what kind of people will probably attract what kind of people. In fact, Mr. Jiang Yang's husband Qian Zhongshu is also like this. He doesn't like parties and hates visitors.
Low-key is the same value as both of them. Sometimes there are too many outside voices, so we often ignore the most important voice around us and confuse ourselves.
Although Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote in Fortress Besieged: "Marriage is a city, people inside want to come out and people outside want to go in", it seems that the triviality of life will crush love.
However, he is completely different from Mr. Jiang Yang. When Mr. Qian Zhongshu courted Mr. Jiang Yang, he said, "Before you, I never wanted to get married, but after meeting you, I never wanted to marry anyone else."
A very simple sentence, but it has touching power. In fact, love doesn't need a beautiful vows of eternal love, just a sentence of "always with you" is enough.
All writers may need some external honor to prove themselves, but Jiang Yang never thought so. His own words are only for those who understand.
Whether the readers are one or ten, as long as they are there, that is actually enough. As for winning or losing, it's not that important anymore.
There is no doubt that these may be two important words engraved in Jiang Yang's soul. In fact, life is like this. No matter how high it is, it will go downhill one day. No one will rest easy all his life. It is better to choose a flat road from the beginning, and the scenery along the way is actually not bad.
Mr. Jiang Yang's life is not very lucky. Some people say that the saddest thing is the death of his son in his later years. Qian Yuan, the only daughter of Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu, died of serious illness in her early years.
As a mother, Mr. Jiang Yang must be very sad, but she didn't exaggerate her emotions. She chose a more peaceful way to accept her daughter's departure.
Those memories and deep feelings about maternal love are left in her words, and the Sri Lankan has already left. Perhaps only in her best way can she express her inner thoughts and disappointment.
The word "indisputable" is easier said than done, because in this impetuous era, desire and temptation are enormous. If you are not careful, you may fall into a whirlpool and never get out.
Therefore, it is actually very difficult to maintain inner peace. However, Mr. Jiang Yang has reached the highest level in her life. She didn't fight for it, wandering between heaven and earth.
It is actually very difficult to break away from the secular world. Of course, this only refers to the spirit. It is always right to keep a certain distance from the world and be suspicious of the crowd.
Because many times, you can't decide the direction of a thing. If it's not within your cognitive range, then avoid it quickly.
Three thousand years after the floating world, some people walked through yan zhen and left their names, while others were silent. Being remembered by others is actually a very difficult thing.
But as long as you have that heart and want to leave something behind, you can always do it.
Mr Jiang Yang may not be a great person, but she used the word "indisputable" to perfectly interpret the highest realm of life.
As she said, "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with." This kind of free and easy and indifferent can only be said after seeing through how many lives.
Everyone has such a presence in their hearts. Like a holy lotus, she emerged from the mud without being defiled. Although you don't know her, because of her existence, you think there is always something worth fighting for and yearning for in this world.
Why fight or not fight? Why are you competing with those useless things? Is it not good for people to focus on the present and live their lives quietly?