And if you ignore them on this day, it will only make them feel that you are eager to leave this home, and it will be even more sad ... so if you really love them, don't leave such regrets. Remember to take care of their emotions on the wedding day. In addition to the traditional tea ceremony, the following little things will make them feel more gratified.
65438 +0? Remember to choose some good clothes for your parents. Don't just choose a wedding dress for yourself.
Outgoing clothes, ceremonial clothes, toast clothes, wedding shoes, and even all kinds of bras ...................................................................................................................................................... In fact, parents also want their children to stand beside them with dignity on the wedding day. If you can still put on the clothes your children give you, you will also make them feel proud. So, don't forget to choose some good clothes for your parents before the wedding.
Number two? Let your parents help you dress up and let them see your most beautiful appearance.
When we were young, our parents dressed us, combed our hair and patiently taught us some small things. But when we grow up, we always say impatiently to them, "Never mind." In fact, whether we are young or white-haired, we are just children in front of our parents.
On the most important day of your life, they want to do something for you, even if it's just to tidy up your clothes and help you button up. This is the way they have always expressed their love, and they also hope that you can get married in style. So don't refuse their love for you on this day, ask them to help you clean up, let them participate in it, and listen patiently to every word they say. After all, such opportunities will be less and less for each other in the future.
Remember to let them see you dressed up for the first time. They are more qualified than anyone to see the most beautiful you first, which will also make them feel gratified and proud.
NO.3 take more photos with your parents and don't disturb your family.
On the wedding day, the photo of the bride and her peers is very high, but parents actually want to get into your camera, so before leaving home on the wedding day, don't forget to take a few photos with your parents alone to express your love and leave the best memories of your life. Don't take two pictures in a hurry like a task. It's best to set aside 30 minutes to be alone and let the photographer take some pictures. By the way, you can also use this time to talk to your parents, talk about your current mood and talk about your childhood. Years later, you will definitely remember these precious 30 minutes.
NO.4 put photos of your parents at the wedding to let them know that you value them.
Although the wedding represents love, it will be much less warm without the blessing of family. Decorating parents' photos at the wedding scene not only represents the continuation of affection and love, but also makes parents feel valued, and relatives and elders will feel very moved when they see it. Put some things that parents cherish at the wedding scene, such as desks, diaries, letters exchanged between parents, etc. Parents will be deeply moved. Take a photo with your parents' wedding photos or group photos, or pose the same as your parents, which is more memorable.
NO.5 wear a piece of jewelry handed down by parents to express their love for their parents.
NO.6 integrate your parents' stories into the wedding and let them feel your intentions.
When parents were young, there must be many touching stories, unforgettable moments or favorite things. You can all incorporate them into your wedding. Although it is your wedding, these small details will remind them of many good times and love when they were young, which will make them extremely moved, make them love each other more, and let them see your intentions and love.
(1) You can put their souvenirs, or something memorable to them, in the wedding background, or make them into theme elements and arrange them at the wedding site. For example, parents who used to be soldiers can make a special military theme area on the wedding dessert table.
They can use their favorite music as background music.
(3) You can arrange the plot of their first meeting as a sitcom as your way of appearing, and then pick up your own story, so parents and guests will definitely cry.
NO.7 don't forget to say "I love you" to your father before you go to find your husband.
This is the moment when dad wants to let go most, and it is also the moment when dad is most reluctant to give up. Don't rush to find your husband, it will make dad feel that you are eager to abandon him. Remember to take care of dad's emotions, hug him, comfort him, and say "I love your dad" in his ear, and he will be fine.
NO.8 remember to design a grateful link, and you will be happy to do so after many years.
People in China always don't express their love very much, and only after saying it do they know how much they will move each other. The most direct way to make parents feel that they have not been neglected is to design a grateful link at the wedding, usually after the bride and groom ceremony, to express their love and gratitude to their parents. You can bow, hug, read a confession letter to your parents, or just say "Mom and Dad thank you for raising you, I love you" like Tan Tan, which is enough to move them.
Thanksgiving link should pay attention to is:
If you are extroverted parents, you can invite them to the stage. If you are an introverted parent, you'd better step down to express your love so as not to be too embarrassed.
If you don't want the wedding to be too emotional, you can change the form, such as making trophies in advance to express your love in the name of awarding prizes to your parents.
It's best to tell your parents in advance to avoid unexpected situations, but you can ignore the details and downplay them.
NO.9 to give parents a gift, parents said not to move.
Whenever they want to buy something for their parents, they always say no, they don't need it, but as long as they receive gifts, big or small, they will be moved and happy for a long time. On such an important day as the wedding, it is even more important to send parents a gift, which can be put in the gratitude link.
The gratitude video produced in issue 10 is the most precious, although it is tear gas.
Thanksgiving video can not only be displayed live, but also be used as a souvenir. In the video, you can show the photos of your parents when they were young, their wedding, your childhood and the photos of your parents when they grew up, and you can also interview your parents' relatives and friends in advance and record them to surprise your parents.
Finally, remember, it is best to print out the photos taken at the wedding and give them to your parents. Compared with the electronic version, they prefer to take photos and look at them often. Of course, it is important to do these things for your parents at the wedding, but it is more important to go home to see your parents often after marriage. Bamei hopes that you will always love your parents at the wedding and every day after marriage.