Background:
On a summer night, in the square behind my community, there were many uncles and aunts dancing, and many children playing.
Characters: Me, Dad, Mom
Scene 1:
Two strange scooter sisters were playing together, and I was also riding my scooter. If I want to join them, I will quickly follow behind them. Now my skills can definitely keep up with them. After two laps, a sister noticed me and wanted to switch scooters with me. I also liked her puppy scooter, so I agreed to exchange it, but the other sister offered to give her the puppy scooter to play with and her pink three-wheeled scooter to me, so the three of us exchanged it. , although it is not as cute as a puppy scooter, I reluctantly agreed.
Five minutes after the exchange, I offered to switch back. My sister’s three-wheeled skateboard was too slow. The sister who used my car fell in love with my car and kept following me and wanted to trade with me. I said I didn’t want to trade with you and I didn’t want to play with you anymore. The two sisters kept following me and kept asking me: you Who to play with? They said I was stingy, so I went to complain to my mother, who said she could handle her own affairs. So, I exchanged with that sister again, but her puppy was snatched away by another sister again. I had better be generous and let it go.
After we got used to it, my two sisters asked me: Did I come out with my parents? I said yes. I asked them if they also went out to play with their parents. They said: No, they went out with grandma.
The sister who was playing with my scooter said: "My father is sleeping at home, and my mother has gone out to play."
Another sister said: "My father is playing mahjong. He said The money earned from mahjong bought me delicious food and paid for my school fees.”
Although I don’t understand much, I still like my parents to play with me. When I get tired, I can sit with my mother. Resting in your arms, you can ride on dad's shoulders and play, and you can also race and play hide-and-seek games with mom and dad. . . It seems that I am happier than them.
Mom’s comment: Today’s parents are busy working for a living and making more money, but they only have so little time to spend with their children. The children spend more time with their grandma and nanny. Parents should be more "generous" with their children's time than with their money. Children's material needs are equally important as their spiritual needs.
Scene 2:
A brother burst into tears suddenly. I loved joining in the fun, so I went over with my sisters to watch the fun. It turned out that he was pushed by another brother and fell. I ran over and said to him: "Stop crying. If you cry again, I won't play with you anymore." Still crying, both mothers came running over. The mother of the brother who pushed the person asked her son what was going on. The brother did not answer or admit that he pushed the person. The brother was still crying, and his mother kept comforting him. . . The brother who pushed the person did not say sorry. His mother said sorry on his behalf and then left.
I ran to my mother and told her: That brother has been crying, and my mother asked me to go over and comfort him. I ran over and patted him: "Stop crying, you little crybaby. If you cry again, you won't be a good boy." . .
Mom’s comment: When a child does something wrong, parents must give the child a chance to explain, guide him to realize his own mistakes, and let the child apologize himself, which is related to the way they treat life. The attitude of others is conducive to building their self-confidence and cultivating their ability to act.
The world in the eyes of children is really like the world in nature. One flower and one world, one sand and one paradise. In such a beautiful world, our parents and our society should use more Face our children with a smile, because there is a scale between heaven and earth, and the scale is the heart of the child.