Mother xx is a cadre of xx Bureau. My daughter xx is a junior one student in Qingdao No.26 Middle School. Excellent academic performance and versatility, he was awarded the honorary title of "National Good Boy" by the National Youth Working Committee, and was elected as "Three Good Students" in Shinan District for many times, and his academic performance was among the best in the Ministry.
First, combine multiple roles to create a warm growth environment for children.
When my daughter was 5 years old, my mother came back from studying abroad. She has been longing for family reunion for three years, but she is facing the breakdown of her family. Holding a young child, she is determined to support this family and give her complete love and a happy life. When their daughter was 7 years old, they came to Qingdao, an unaccompanied city, and started a new life of mother and daughter.
As a single mother, she bears the responsibility of raising and educating her daughter alone. In the process of children's growth, she plays many roles, not only as strict father, but also as a loving mother and a mentor to her daughter. We must work to support our families, worry about daily necessities, and be responsible for children's ideological and moral character, cultural study and all-round development. She is very busy. No matter how tired she is, she insists on it, because she has a firm belief in her heart, that is, she must cultivate good children and live up to them. She is determined to overcome the negative impact of an incomplete family and cultivate her daughter into a sunny girl with a positive attitude and healthy personality.
She created a happy and democratic family atmosphere for her children. At home, the mother is the whole spiritual pillar of the child. In order to protect the children's sense of security, she gave up her development opportunities and spent all her spare time outside of work with her children as much as possible, so that they could feel their mother's love all the time. She respects children and treats them equally in life. In front of children, she always maintains a positive and optimistic attitude and a lively and cheerful personality. Under her influence, the child has formed a positive attitude towards life.
Second, pay attention to children's character education and habit formation.
She is good at appreciating children and inspiring their initiative and self-confidence. Mother and daughter are bosom friends who talk about everything. Every day, mothers talk to their children about what happened at school. The child happily reported the outstanding performance of the day to his mother. Mothers always seize every bright spot in their children, encourage and praise them, so that children can gain more confidence and strength from it, and the pursuit of Excellence has gradually become a habit of children. Children always try to express themselves at school and repay their mother's love with the best results.
She pays attention to cultivating children's excellent character and behavior habits. She teaches children to stick to whatever they learn and not give up halfway. Various specialties take up a lot of time, and mothers guide their children to allocate time reasonably and arrange their study and life in an orderly manner. Children are very disciplined. No matter how late the performance ends, they also finish all their homework carefully. They often rush to school as soon as they get off the plane. With this spirit of hard work and serious attitude, children's achievements in all subjects have always been among the best in the class, and they have all-round development in art and learning. Mothers encourage their children to actively participate in various competitions and activities in school and society, and exercise and improve themselves in the competition. In the face of setbacks, mothers guide their children to face the gains and losses correctly, encourage them to go on step by step and prepare for opportunities.
She helps children improve their learning methods and improve their learning efficiency. Every night, when the children are doing their homework, the mother is silently with them, answering the children's doubts at any time, so that the wrong questions will not last overnight. The habit of binding and sorting out papers in various subjects before exams and regularly sorting out wrong books has been adhered to since primary school, which has benefited children a lot. She found some thick English notes recorded in her school days and showed her children a good way to learn English. Keep listening and speaking English for 30 minutes every morning, read books for 30 minutes before going to bed, practice songs for 30 minutes every day, and practice piano 1 hour. After years of persistence, these study habits have already solidified into a part of children's lives.
Third, lead by example and set an example for children.
Parents' words and deeds are very important for cultivating children's fighting spirit. Mother has never stopped studying since her daughter was born. When my daughter/kloc-0 was 0, she got a second bachelor's degree and studied a second foreign language. When my daughter was 2 years old, she passed the TOEFL test with excellent results. When my daughter was 3 to 5 years old, she went abroad to study and read a master's degree in education. My daughter entered school at the age of 6 and got a doctorate in education with the first total score; My daughter took the national civil service examination at the age of 7 and was hired with excellent results. The back of my mother's tireless reading under the desk lamp is the unchanging scenery in the eyes of her children. In her young mind, she quietly planted the seeds of hard study and perseverance. Driven by her mother, her daughter loves to study since she was a child, and she has the perseverance that children of the same age rarely have.
Fourth, cultivate with heart and develop in an all-round way.
My daughter began to learn vocal music and dance at the age of 3, and began to learn composition and piano at the age of 7. Over the years, whether it's windy or rainy, cold or hot, both mother and daughter are on their way to study various extra-long classes in all their spare time. When I first started to learn composition, my children were still young and it was very difficult to learn. When a mother accompanies her daughter in class, she takes notes carefully. After returning home, she taught herself a lot of books on music theory, and chewed these profound knowledge thoroughly before explaining it to her children. Mother also made many learning tools, such as notes, syllables and interval cards of staff, and reviewed and consolidated the knowledge of music theory learned every week with her children by playing games. The mother encourages her daughter to do more exercise. Every time the teacher arranges to change a melody from a simple score to a line score, her daughter will write a line score of several songs. The teacher assigned two weeks to write a song. How many songs will she write a week?
Over the years, unremitting efforts have achieved fruitful results. In xx, the National Working Committee awarded her daughter the honorary title of "National Good Boy"; Chinese record company published her daughter's solo album "Music Girl"; My daughter passed the tenth grade of vocal music of Shandong Provincial Education Commission and the tenth grade of vocal music of China Conservatory of Music; He has won more than 60 national, provincial and municipal awards, such as the special gold medal in the 8th National Finals of "Star Torch", the first prize in vocal music of individual competition for primary and secondary school students of Qingdao Education Bureau, the second prize in the national composition competition for primary and secondary school students of China Little Writers Cup, and the first prize in the xx Summer Reading Essay Competition of Shandong Education Department. 48 songs written and sung by children themselves were included in 7 music albums of major domestic publishing houses, 38 poems were published in national journals such as Middle School Students and China Middle School Students Newspaper, and 25 composers were published in magazines such as Children's Music.
My daughter has many hobbies. In addition to vocal music and composition, hosting, piano, sailing, Sanda and badminton are also her strengths. As a little singer and commentator of CCTV music through train, a little host of Qingdao TV Station and a little reporter of Qingdao Evening News, her colorful social activities have broadened her horizons and exercised her comprehensive ability.
Fifth, encourage children to participate in public welfare activities and cultivate their gratitude.
Mothers often take their children to participate in various social practice activities and public welfare activities, and cultivate their love and gratitude from an early age. At the ceremony of xx Red Cross Dust Foundation, my daughter sang the theme song "Love" she created for the party, auctioned her solo album on the spot, and donated all the money raised to the Red Cross. In the Qingdao Love Baby Competition in xx, my daughter donated all the 5,000 yuan won by the champion to the disaster area in Taiwan Province Province, which was praised by the Red Cross and the school. She participated in the activities of the Municipal Education Foundation to help poor friends, and was awarded the honorary title of "Little Angel of Love" by the Education Foundation. She organized and set up a poverty alleviation task force to go to Yaerchang Village in Laixi City to carry out aid activities; She formed 26 China love groups and led her classmates to participate in the Qingdao Evening News Dust Charity Sale. During the holidays, she went to the children's welfare home to visit orphans' younger brothers and sisters, such as send warm and the elderly who live alone. She also used her literary expertise to raise money for disaster-stricken areas and sick children through charity performances.
Sixth, carefully record the growth of children and cherish every moment of their growth.
The mother actively supported and participated in her daughter's activities and recorded every wonderful moment of her child's growth with a lens. In xx, my mother set up a Sina blog for her daughter. Every day, the mother who is busy late at night insists on updating her blog to record the child's growth and progress. In the past five years, she has published 865,438+00 blog posts with 630,000 blog visits. There are videos and audio of children performing and publishing works, records of children's happy childhood life and study, and feelings of mothers in the process of educating children. Blog reading groups are very extensive, including songwriters and teachers in the music circle, editors and teachers in newspapers and magazines, parents and fans who love their daughters, teachers and classmates in schools, and excellent friends from all over the country. People often leave messages for their children on blogs to cheer for her. In xx, my mother set up a music space for her children in China Original Music Base, and uploaded more than 40 songs recorded by her children since they were five years old, leaving precious children's voice materials, with the number of hits reaching13.58 million.