~ ~ Fishermen who don't catch big fish ~ ~
"Enjoy life and don't compare with others." Condorcet
There is a man fishing by the river. He caught a lot of fish, but every time he caught one, he measured it with a ruler. As long as the fish is more than a foot, he will throw it back into the river. Other fishermen asked inexplicably, "Everyone else wants to catch big fish. Why are you the only one who throws them back into the river? "
The man replied easily, "Because my pot is only one foot long,
This fish is too big to hold. "
Meditation: Don't let endless desires seize your heart. "Enough is enough" is also a good attitude towards life. It was a terrible sight when people ate without fear in a full cafeteria. You don't have to be greedy to get what you need. This is also an important practice.
~ ~ ~ Conflict ~ ~ ~
The two warriors walked into the forest in unison.
The first soldier saw a golden shield under the tree.
The second samurai saw a silver shield under the same tree.
Golden shield and silver shield, two people quarreled about it.
I was so angry that the two men drew their swords for a showdown.
The two men have been killing each other for days, and they can't tell the winner from the loser.
Only when they were so tired that they sat on the ground panting, did they find out.
The front of the shield is gold and the back is silver.
So this is a double-sided shield.
A person who insists on his own opinions will lose flexibility.
~ ~ ~ Change ~ ~ ~
A crow is going to fly to the east.
I met a pigeon on the road.
Both sides stopped to have a rest under a tree.
Pigeons see crows flying very hard.
Asked with concern: where are you flying to?
The crow aggrieved said:
Actually, I don't want to leave either, but the residents of this place think my voice is not good.
So I want to fly somewhere else.
Pigeons kindly tell crows not to waste energy!
If you don't change your voice, you won't be welcome wherever you fly.
If you can't change the environment, the only way is to change yourself.
~ ~ ~ It's okay if you have something to do ~ ~ ~
Some things have not been done, and some people have nothing to do.
People who have nothing to do stare at people who do things and say, what do people do?
Let the people who do things do things badly.
So, the boss praised the people who were fine.
Because he can't do what he sees.
Therefore, the boss admonishes the person who does things because he can't do things.
Some people who have nothing to do always have nothing to do
Some people who do things always have things to do
Some nice people make trouble.
Let the people who do things have to do more.
As a result, good things become bad things, small things become big things, and simple things become complex things.
Arabic proverb:' If you don't want to do it, make an excuse; If you want to do it, you will find a way.
Touching story
On the way to Turkey, the bus passed the place where the 1999 earthquake occurred.
The tour guide took this opportunity to tell a touching but sad story, which happened the day after the earthquake. ......
Many houses collapsed after the earthquake.
Rescuers from all over the world are constantly searching for possible survivors.
Two days later, they saw an incredible photo in the gap-a mother,
Hands on the ground, with stones of unknown weight on his back: When he saw the rescuers, he cried desperately:
"Hurry up and save my daughter, I have been insisting for two days, and I can't go on ..."
Her seven-year-old daughter was rescued in a safe space supported by her hands.
The rescuers were frightened and tried to move the stones around them.
I hope to rescue the mother and daughter as soon as possible.
But there are too many stones and they are too heavy. They can't reach them quickly.
The media came here to take pictures, and the rescuers were crying and digging.
Hard-working mother struggled and waited. ...
Through TV and newspapers, Turks shed sad tears.
More people, put down what they are doing and devote themselves to the rescue operation.
The rescue operation lasted from day to night. Finally, a tall rescuer built his little daughter.
Pull her out, but ..... she's been angry for a long time.
Mother asked eagerly, "Is my daughter still alive?"
Thinking that her daughter is still alive is the only reason and hope for her to endure for two days.
The rescuer finally couldn't stand it, and burst into tears: "Yes, she is still alive. Let's go and see him off now.
Hospital first aid, and then I'll take you there, too! "
He knew that if a mother heard that her daughter had died, she would lose the will to live.
I let go and let the earth and stone crush me, so I lied to her.
Mother smiled wearily, and then she was rescued and sent to the hospital.
Her hands were once stiff and unable to bend.
The next day, the headline of the Turkish newspaper was a photo of her hands on the ground, with the headline "This is maternal love".
The burly tour guide said, "I am not easy to get emotional, but after reading this report,
I cried. I will tell this story every time I take a group through here in the future. "
In fact, not only did he cry, but we also cried in the car. ......
Think more about others, not just ignorance and selfishness.
What's wrong with doing your best? It is also good to do more good deeds.
The world just needs a little more warmth like this.
Think more, there will be many beautiful things in the world.
logic
Einstein said to the students:
Two workers were repairing old cigarette butts when they climbed out of them.
One is clean, but the other is covered with soot. Which one of you is going to take a shower? '
A student said:
Of course, the worker with a face full of soot will take a shower. '
Einstein said:
Really? Please note that the cleaner saw another face covered with coal ash.
He thinks it's really dirty to climb out of cigarette butts.
When the other person sees that the other person is clean, he doesn't think so.
I ask you again now, who will take a bath? '
A student was very excited to find the answer:
Oh! I know! When a clean worker sees a dirty worker, he thinks he must be dirty himself.
But dirty workers feel that they are not dirty when they see clean workers!
So the cleaner must have gone to take a shower. '
Einstein looked at the other students and all the students seemed to agree with the answer.
See Einstein said slowly:
This answer is wrong ... two people climbed out of the old smoke hole at the same time.
How can one be clean and the other dirty?
This is called "logic"
When a person's thinking is blocked, he often can't find out the root of everything ... logic.
If you want to find logic, you must …
Jump out of the "shackles of habit"
Avoid "thinking trap"
Escape from the "cognitive fog"
Get rid of "persistent temperament"
If you want to find logic, you must get rid of all artificial layouts.
Buddha has a story.
On the trip, I met a man who didn't like him. For days, a long way,
The man tried every means to slander him.
Finally, the Buddha turned to the man and asked, "If someone gives you a gift and you refuse to accept it,
So who does this gift belong to? "
The man replied, "It belongs to the original gift giver."
The Buddha smiled and said, "That's right. If I don't accept your insults, then you are cursing yourself? "
The man touched his nose and left.
The point is that as long as the mind is healthy, what others think will affect it.
No, we ... if we care what others think or say,
You lost your autonomy.