People who can comfort themselves in front of feelings are not ordinary people. You can't be normal Because, you just graduated, and your emotional experience is not too much. Helpless, depressed, annoyed, walking dead, crying without tears is the truest love.
Then, let's see if there is anything special about your case, especially if you can hide in your room and cry several times like a man and have nowhere to tell.
Long-distance love, I have never been very optimistic, and in the long-distance love I know, unless one party can completely sacrifice himself, otherwise, everything can only be a prelude to your marriage with your future wife. Your long-distance relationship is no different. The same job is unstable. The girl was moved by other men, so she couldn't support it. Give up her beautiful love and accept the realistic arrangement.
Your heart is broken. Can you put it back? It is estimated that it is impossible for you in a short time. But fortunately, you finally understand one thing: because of your incompetence, she said goodbye to you and chose an able person from a rural credit cooperative. I don't believe that man can really give your girlfriend a sweet feeling in a few days. It's just that your girlfriend can't drag you around, and there is no man to rely on. Therefore, any man who comes to see him, even a street sweeper, will be happy to walk with him every day and sing a few poems.
At this level, you are not incapable of finding a stable job, or what your girlfriend needs now is not love, but a sense of security and stability. If you have money, you can immediately run to her side, accompany her to watch the stars, the moon, take a walk and be sweet, even if you travel often and fly; And if you have no money and need to run around, she will see your instability and can't wait.
This thing tells us that when a woman chooses a man, she basically follows such a rule: she looks for what a man lacks. You don't have a stable job, she just wants stability, and she wants you to be a stable beggar, as long as you can have a rental house to shelter from the wind and rain; As long as you can have three meals a day, eat with her, as long as you don't play on time, go home and walk and chat with him.
Son, you didn't. Half of the reason is hers, and of course half is yours. Before you completely blame yourself, please be reasonable: she gave you love for the first time, but she felt that if she chose to leave you, you could not be responsible and there was nothing you could do. After all, not everyone can be Bill Gates, and not everyone can be admitted to the civil service. Two years of love cannot resist the interference of time and space, which proves that love is not strong enough. Even if you have a stable job now and can accompany her for a whole month, then her next question is likely to be: Why do you have to work overtime so late every day? Can't you go home early? Why can't you work more freely? Why can my classmates drive a BMW and wear Chanel, but I can't?
Needless to say, many couples who have ended their long-distance relationship are worried about these problems, and quite a few people still post to you for help online.
What you have to do is not to comfort your broken heart, not to cry. You have finished crying, you have done a walking corpse, the pain is pain, and the memories are almost the same. Now, all you can do is clean them up and understand one thing: in the future, please remember that your girlfriend left you because you didn't have a stable job, so your next goal is to get a stable job and find another girlfriend. When you find a job, your new girlfriend thinks you have no money, please work hard at once and earn more money with your actions; If they can't wait, don't worry, because in 82, Jin Yong found a beautiful 28-year-old female secretary, and in 82, Yang Zhengning got married again. They all set a good example for you. Until you do, people are sincere and kind, the economy can support yourself and women, and you can live in peace with your colleagues at work. That's enough. Look for women at this time, not because they choose you, but because you choose them: is it closer to you? Or a little further?
Oh, maybe, when you are so successful, there will be a girl who looks like your college girlfriend, but she just takes a fancy to your kindness, sincerity, hard work and easygoing. Without knowing your net worth, she decided to join your world. At this time, please tell her again: I can totally support you. At the same time, don't forget to send an invitation to your college girlfriend: Please attend my wedding on February 14. I married the most beautiful bride in the world.
Although this is only a dream, if you don't chase it, you will always be the object that women throw away.
I am optimistic, please cheer up and don't let me down.