For me when I was a child, happiness meant that my parents took me out to play and my family had a good time. For this day, I can refuse my friends' invitation to play and review my lessons just to get a good grade and get praise and reward from my parents. Because my parents are very busy at work, sometimes they have to work even on holidays, so my parents spend little time with me. I cherish this happiness even more. Although such a life is short, I still work hard for it and strive for more opportunities for happiness.
When I grow up, my definition of happiness is to earn a lot of money for my parents, let them live leisurely, cure their minor ailments and pains, stay with me for a few more years, and have less white hair on their heads. After I entered the society and realized the hard work of making money, I really felt the hard work of my parents for many years, but they never complained in front of me and always taught me the truth that no pains, no gains. So even if making money is not an easy task, I will stick to it for my parents and let our family live a better life and be happy together.
When I established a small family and became a parent, I knew that happiness was around. After I got married, I was too busy taking care of my small family to go home and visit my parents. I only send them some money every month. Once I went to see my parents on a whim without saying hello. Seeing their happy expressions, I suddenly felt a little sad. I began to choke when I heard that they were as concerned about my recent situation as ever and nagged about small things at home. My parents never need money, but my company, and I just ignore the importance of company and owe them a lot of family time.
Growing up, my definition of happiness is closely related to my parents and has never changed. In order to make my parents happy, I can become more sensible and get better grades; In order to reassure my parents, I can earn as much money as possible, no matter how hard it is. When I was a child, I felt that happiness was playing with my parents. When I grow up, I think happiness is to let my parents live carefree; After getting married, I think happiness means being with my parents and sharing happiness with them.
I used to think that happiness needs to be won and paid, and we can use excellent material conditions to increase the weight. But now I finally understand that happiness is around, and I don't need material conditions to add icing on the cake, just cherish it. When I was pursuing better material conditions, my parents didn't feel happy, but were more worried about me. When I neglected my parents, my parents never blamed me, but silently missed me and waited for the moment when I came home. For parents, a safe and beautiful family together is happiness. This is the happiness that my parents have experienced all my life, and now it is also the happiness that I have experienced.
There are many forms of happiness, but the form is not important. The most important thing is to understand happiness. I understand that happiness is around me and has never changed. Cherish the happiness in your hands and let yourself and the people around you be happy together, which is the greatest happiness.