Wu Mi, a famous master of Chinese studies and comparative literature, has been rigorous in his studies all his life, and his achievements in literature are unparalleled. After his marriage with his wife Chen Xinyi, he loved his wife's best friend Mao Yanwen in his heart and learned that Mao Yanwen was lovelorn. Even though his wife had given birth to three young daughters for him, he still divorced without hesitation and pursued Mao Yanwen.
Wu Mi loves Mao Yanwen so much that people in Sanzhou are shocked. Divorce is not afraid of sages, and money and fame are not enough.
His self-righteous poems were ridiculed by people at that time, and his amorous feelings became people's jokes after dinner.
Wu Mi's original name was Wu Yuheng, which was taken from "Chen Xuanji's Yuheng" in the Book of Books. When he applied for Tsinghua University, he changed his name to Wu Mi. He graduated from Tsinghua University in 1916 and Harvard University from 1917 to 1921, becoming a scholar of comparative literature. After returning to China in 1921, he set up a class of "Comparative Study of Chinese and Western Poetry" in Tsinghua University.
Wu Mi, a romantic genius, his wife Chen Xinyi, who is the sister of Wu Mi's classmate Chen Liexun and Zhu Yanwen's classmate, is a kind and even weak woman. Chen Xin and Wu Mi have been in love for a long time and have never met each other, but they fell in love after seeing the poems published by Wu Mi. She entrusted her brother to convey her love for Wu Mi, and Wu Mi replied on the spot.
When Wu Mi and Chen Xinyi met for the first time, he also met Chen Xinyi's best friend Mao Yanwen. Unexpectedly, since then, a life-long love life has begun.
Mao Yanwen, born in 1898, had a brilliant life. She was both talented and attractive, which once admired the literati at that time. She not only had beauty, but also pursued it. She overcame difficulties, went abroad to study, and even married a 28-year-old elder for her own career.
At the age of 15, she went to Hangzhou Women's Normal School, and at the age of 18, she was admitted to Hujun Girls' School in Xing Wu, Zhejiang.
When she was 9 years old, her parents engaged her. By 1914, when she was 19 years old, on the day of her formal wedding, her husband's family carried a sedan chair to get married, and she ran away from the back door in a hurry. At the back door, waiting for her is my cousin Junyi Zhu. Later, she got engaged to her cousin.
Junyi Zhu, similarly, is also a big shot in academic circles. He is six years older than his cousin Mao Yanwen and has a brilliant life experience.
Junyi Zhu and Mao Yanwen grew up together. They were childhood friends. Zhu Yanwen loved her cousin very much. After they got engaged, her cousin went abroad to study. However, my cousin wants to break off his engagement with Mao Yanwen after returning from school. His reason is that close relatives are not suitable for marriage. Perhaps he realized the harm of consanguineous marriage, and his six-year separation broadened his horizons. Mao Yanwen was in great pain. She asked her cousin's classmate Wu Mi to persuade her cousin to change his mind. Persuasion failed, and Mao Yanwen and her cousin Junyi Zhu finally parted ways.
From then on, Mao Yanwen began to exclude people with Junyi Zhu from his heart, including Zhu's good friend Wu Mi. Wu Mi, on the other hand, launched a fierce pursuit during the neutral period in Mao Yanwen, and Mao Yanwen naturally found it difficult to accept him psychologically, which more or less caused the emotional difficulties between the two people.
Wu Mi and Junyi Zhu are classmates of Tsinghua. At first, they were moved by Mao Yanwen's love letter to Junyi Zhu. Later, after Junyi Zhu stopped accepting Mao Yanwen's love, Wu Mi began to divorce his wife Chen Xinyi and turned to Mao Yanwen.
Perhaps it was sincere, and the stone opened. Mao Yanwen accepted Wu Mi's pursuit. In 193, Mao Yanwen studied in the United States and Wu Mi studied in France. At this time, he asked Mao Yanwen to come to France to marry him. After a year, they met in France. She was annoyed that he frequently sent books, which distracted her and made her unable to concentrate on her studies.
people are masochistic. Love but not feelings will stay in my heart, will be unforgettable.
Mao Yanwen loved his cousin Junyi Zhu, and maintained a relationship for more than 2 years. At last, Junyi Zhu loved someone else and they separated, which greatly hit Mao Yanwen. When the news of Junyi Zhu's death reached Mao Yanwen in November 1963, she was 65 years old and had a heavy heart and couldn't sleep all night. In her memoirs, she wrote:
Because of this bad news, my heart was in a mess, my old feelings were rekindled, and I couldn't sleep at night. All the past events that settled in my mind emerged one by one, so clear and true. Junyi is gone, and my scar is not calm.
with such a person in your heart, how can you love others?
In February 1935, Mao Yanwen married Xiong Xiling and started to engage in charity.
their union was at its peak at that time. Their combination may not be out of love at first, but in the end, they even have love.
After Mao Yanwen and Xiong Xiling got married, Xiong Xiling liked his little wife very much. Every holiday, he got presents, and every day when he left, he wrote letters. The two people who had forgotten the New Year were even inseparable and loved each other sweetly. For Mao Yanwen, these two years of harmonious life between husband and wife are precious to her, and she will always miss them.
After Mao Yanwen married Xiong Xiling, Wu Mi really felt the pain of love. He wrote 38 more "love poems", which made people shake their heads and sigh and laugh at him, so that his favorite pupil, Mr. Qian Zhongshu, couldn't stand it anymore. He wrote him a poem:
Who will pay for all the ups and downs?
Xiong Xiling died in December, 1937, and Zhu Yanwen became the president of Xiangshan Kindergartens. At this time, Wu Mi's love fire was rekindled, and a new round of pursuit tasks was started. He wrote many love letters to Mao Yanwen, but Mao didn't reply, and even some letters were returned by the original way.
During this period, Wu Mi inquired about Mao Yanwen everywhere. He often met her in his dreams, with sweet words in his dreams, but when he woke up, he was disappointed. During the Cultural Revolution, Wu closed his eyes forever in his thoughts of Mao.
Mao Yanwen died in 1999 at the age of 11. Experts who studied Wu Mi visited her before, and when she talked about Wu Mi's deep affection for her, she asked her about her feelings for Wu Mi. She said,
"It's so boring. He is unilateral and a nerd. "
Talk about a few words, expressing Mao Yanwen's rejection of Wu Mi's lifelong affection. Wu Mi's hopeless but unremitting feelings are really incredible!
However, Mao Yanwen didn't really think that Wu Mi didn't exist. In The Past, she summed up Wu Mi as follows:
wu jun is a scholar with a kind heart, a stiff manner, a sense of justice, a strong scholar temperament and a bit of romance. After his divorce, he still paid more attention to his ex-wife, not only paying for her and their daughter's living expenses.
At the same time, she also revealed that Wu Mi is not so fond of her. "It is rumored that she sometimes visits Ms. Chen. He is by no means a fickle person."
Indeed, when Wu Mi was 59 years old, he started a romantic love affair with a 2-year-old woman, Zou Lanfang, and they even got married. But only three years later, Zou Lanfang died of tuberculosis, but Wu Mi had been taking care of her nephews and daughters until the Cultural Revolution, which was also a very affectionate person.
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Wu Mi loved Mao Yanwen, and spent his whole life loving him. Sadly, alas!
Is there any way to correct Mao Yanwen's love affair with Wu Mi and Junyi Zhu's love affair with Mao Yanwen? There is no way. Love is love, and no love is no love. What's wrong with Mao Yanwen? What's wrong with Wu Mi? Loving in spite of grievances is not love.
a person's life is so short. To love or be loved will be a thing of the past.