First of all, it is best not to meet each other, so that you can not fall in love.
The second best is not to know each other, so that you don’t miss each other.
Thirdly, it is best not to accompany each other, so as not to owe each other.
The fourth is best not to cherish each other, so that you can not remember each other.
The fifth is that it is best not to fall in love, so that you can not abandon each other.
Sixth, it is best not to face each other, so you can avoid meeting.
The seventh thing is that it is best not to misunderstand each other, so that there will be no negative consequences.
The eighth is best not to agree to each other, so that there will be no continuity.
Ninth, it is best not to depend on each other, so you can not depend on each other.
The tenth best thing is not to meet each other, so you don’t have to get together.
But we know each other once we have seen each other. It is better to see each other than not.
Ande and you are inseparable, so we don’t have to worry about lovesickness in life and death.
Source: "First" and "Second", and the last four sentences are the same poem by Tsangyang Gyatso, just different translations. The "third" to "tenth" in the middle, according to the writer Tong Hua, are the continuation of his readers' "white clothes and blue" [2].