Euphemism is very important.
Wine is a very good topic, but if it is based on "beauty, can I buy you a drink?" Sorry, I can't think of a better word than dead wood. Successful capture of the goddess' heart must be based on the premise that the other party does not hate you. It's no use trying to start a conversation with wine if the first impression is bad.
When you are sure that a sister paper has not given you a bad review, you can consider opening the situation with wine. Especially for girls who have studied in school, or like to follow American/English dramas, and have a little literary taste, it will be smoother (there are many such high-quality beauties in the tasting activities).
Talk to her about what to drink abroad, or which western restaurant you like. Is the star in the play holding the cup in the wrong position? Really can't find a reasonable starting point? Let's talk about the country She likes American TV series and mentions American wine. She likes English TV dramas and talks about how much the British love sparkling wine. She likes Japanese dramas and talks about whisky or sake. It doesn't matter if the turn is a little stiff. The key point is to enter the next stage by the following sentence:
"Speaking of wine, I'll give you two bottles to taste!"
Why send two bottles?
Sending wine to my sister and asking her to drink it are two different things-
For girls, "buy me a drink" is close to "you have to fill me up", which is basically synonymous with "you have ulterior motives"
But "give me a drink" not only means "you are so generous", but also means "you are a gentleman" and even "your life is not bad". Do you think you have a chance?
However, how to send it is also exquisite. Maybe, the plug is still unplugged. The other party forgets your name first. So you have to promise to deliver two bottles as soon as you come up.
A bottle of wine, the other party may recite it at will, and two bottles of wine can make you say, "It's too heavy/takes up too much space, so I'd better express it to you." You see, as long as you get the mail, you can not only ask people's phone numbers and addresses, but also call them aboveboard to ask if they have received anything, teach them how to keep it, and ask them how it tastes.
In this way, two bottles of wine will give you at least three more chances to chat. As long as she doesn't avoid you, it's definitely no problem to go out for dinner now.
Give her the wine she will like.
Don't always think about giving something particularly expensive, okay? Wine is like a bag. If you only know one person, you can give luxury goods. When you see them, your sister will know that you have ulterior motives.
Subtlety is very important.
At this time, you need to show your taste, but you can't just appear rich. A small and special wine, plus a little story, must be very popular. In this regard, Zhiweijun has prepared two further strategies for everyone: "What kind of wine is delicious and suitable for girls?" And "What kind of wine is suitable for girls to drink? Please study it carefully.
To put it simply, many girls tend to like aromatic and sweet wines, so varieties like Gewurztraminer, Muscat, Riesling and Sauvignon Blanc are worth choosing. There are also sweet wines such as late maturity, expensive rot and ice wine, which are also girl killers; Sparkling wine is also good, but some champagne needs some experience to appreciate better. There is a wine that meets the three requirements of "fragrance", "sweetness" and "bubbling" at the same time-Moscato d'Asti from northern Italy. Many people, both boys and girls, are beginning to fall in love with wine. Yesterday, a reader who knew the taste left a message saying, "Moscato d'Asti made my bearded uncle have a girlish heart after drinking? "",ha ha you see.
Show her your taste and manners.
It is very thankless to show off your knowledge of wine from the beginning. Too boring technical terms kill the romantic atmosphere at once, making it easier for people to think that you are too melodramatic?
Tasty is a good topic, but it's best to use it next time we have a chance to drink together. When delivering wine, the best topic should be the romantic story related to wine first. I don't know what story to tell. Pay close attention to know the taste!
After the wine is delivered, it is appropriate to "suggest" to accompany the meal and save it. Of course, we should understand the meaning of these suggestions.
For example—
"I originally collected this bottle of wine three years ago and planned to save it for Valentine's Day next year. I didn't expect to be single now. "
"The champagne in this house is great. It is my ideal perfect wedding wine!"
Sister really didn't hear the implication. Where is it? And then use simple all-around skills-
"This wine goes well with steak. Hey, speaking of steak, I know a restaurant that does a good job. Let's go out to eat together another day. "
"This wine goes well with Japanese food. Hey, speaking of Japanese food, I know a store that does very well. Let's go out to eat together another day. "
"This wine is very suitable for frying. Hey, speaking of frying, I know a shop that does very well. Let's go out to eat together another day. "
Well, it's all routine.
When you go to a restaurant, especially a high-end restaurant with more exquisite environment and atmosphere, it is an excellent environment to show your charm. If you can take a wine list full of foreign languages, read it leisurely in French and order a glass of good wine that complements the dishes that night, it is hard for the girl opposite to be unmoved.
Invite her to participate in various wine tasting activities.
If all the above attempts are successful, congratulations, you can enter the regular offline meeting and dating mode, invite her to dinner and drink irregularly, take her to wine tasting, tasting and so on. During this period, various exchanges and interactions can enhance feelings. If she can't drink enough, she can still act like a gentleman.
If she falls in love with wine,
When the two sides are familiar with each other, it will generally be natural. Ideally, she will fall in love with wine and you at the same time. If I really don't love you, it's not bad to have another person I like as a drinking friend.
Zhi Weijun once heard a famous saying of Jancis Robinson MW, who is known as the "first lady of wine": "If you like wine and want to simply enjoy it, then the easiest way is to find someone who knows both you and wine." Tell this sentence to your goddess, and she will understand what you mean.