If you take this sentence as a reason, then you may be an insecure person. You are afraid that a love will not have a good result, so you dare not start a relationship, but have you ever thought that in this case, you will miss something, and you may miss the true love of your life? Why not look on the bright side and think that you will be together? Will you get married, have children and grow old together?
And you are afraid that your relationship is the result of hating men's infatuation with women, so you dare not start this relationship, but have you ever thought that sometimes the process is more important than the result? Anyway, people live all their lives, and in the end everyone can't escape a dead word, so why do they need a process?
If you start and get a satisfactory result, will you feel regret and fear for your original idea? So if you don't start, you won't get the wonderful process and a perfect result. You are worried that the result will be bad, but have you ever thought that sometimes manpower can change many things, and you can also reverse the ending by your own strength?
So don't choose to start because you are afraid of the result. Don't protect your heart too much. Sometimes, if you open your heart, it doesn't matter even if you experience some twists and turns, but you can become stronger.
If you are afraid of the result, your life will be mediocre, whether it is feelings or career, because your feelings may have a bad result, you may develop your own career, and you may get nothing in the end. So you may not choose to start to avoid these results, so your life is mediocre.
On the contrary, if you choose to take risks, you should start a business and start a new relationship now. In any way, you should give yourself, your life, your destiny and yourself completely. Wait until a few years later, you can look back at your decades of experience and think about the results you got at this time, and you may find that it is not that bad.
So, don't be afraid of getting hurt, don't be afraid of bad results, don't protect yourself too much, have no sense of security, just try to find a sense of security for yourself, feel inferior inside, try to be a confident person, don't be mediocre all your life, and comfort yourself is ordinary and valuable.