My cousin Xu Zhimo is a professor at Peking University, my cousin Jin Yong is the father of martial arts novels, and her husband Qian Xuesen is the father of China aerospace and missiles. There are many talented people in the family, who have made immortal contributions to the development of new China and become the eternal swan song.
19 19 is a year of shining stars. She was born with a unique temperament and outstanding musical talent. She became the first East Asian to win the soprano title in 1943 Chen Lu Universal Music Annual Conference. This is Jiang Ying.
As a teacher, Jiang Ying has been teaching music for more than 40 years, adhering to the old saying of China that "a teacher should teach with the Tao and solve doubts with the Tao", and has worked hard to train 26 students, most of whom have made remarkable achievements on the domestic or international stage. Famous musicologists such as Tie Haijing, Zhu Ailan and Jiang Yong all stepped onto the international stage under her guidance.
Jiang Ying's father, Jiang Baili, may be regarded as a great star, but he was a scholar when he was a child. He read hundreds of books and learned about eastern and western music.
It was her father Jiang Baili's love for music that prompted Jiang Ying to enter the music kingdom. She had the opportunity to enjoy the influence of family music atmosphere since she was a child. Her father once said, "When I was a child, my baby daughter could sleep peacefully by humming Beethoven's songs!" "
Jiang Ying's two cousins are also two leading figures in the literary world.
Jiang Ying is five years older than Jin Yong, but he has no sense of disobedience in life. 1947 At the first concert after Jiang Ying returned to China, Jin Yong excitedly praised his cousin: "My sister's voice is very loud, which is really rare among sopranos in China ..." Jin Yong once took the lead in applauding, which shows the close relationship.
Xu Zhimo and Jiang Ying, one is Jin Yong's cousin, and Jin Yong is Xu Zhimo's cousin. They have a good relationship. Jin Yong has repeatedly expressed his admiration for his cousin Xu Zhimo. When Xu Zhimo really left in a hurry in his later years, Jin Yong and his beloved wife wrote an inscription "Poet Xu Zhimo" for his late cousin and signed it as "Cousin Jin Yong". Jiang Ying is equally sad.
Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen are happily married. Jiang Ying's father Jiang Baili once adopted Jiang Ying to his early close friend Qian Junfu, the father of Qian Xuesen. They were once regarded as "brother and sister".
However, after discussion, young Jiang Ying finally returned to his hometown. Later, both parents mentioned marriage, because they admired each other and finally got married.
Jiang Ying just got married on 1947 and made some achievements in music.
However, Qian Xuesen is not inferior. Although he is in the United States at this time, he always has a heart to serve the motherland. He is bent on mastering the core technology of rocket power and missile development and returning to China quickly. He hopes that the people of his country will live with dignity and backbone, and he hopes to contribute to his country's national defense and space industry through by going up one flight of stairs. However, at that time, China was at war.
Looks like there's only one chance. Finally, at 1949, Qian Xuesen got the good news he had been waiting for for a long time-the people of China and the country were established! When the news reached his ears, he burst into tears and immediately gave up all interests in the United States and resolutely prepared to return to China.
I didn't expect to be imprisoned by Americans for five years until 1955.
During this period, Qian Xuesen once said to his wife, "It's really too dangerous here. You take the children back to China first, and I will arrive later! " Jiang Ying, on the other hand, insisted on sharing weal and woe with her husband, and accompanied her husband for five years under the pressure of the dark forces of the US military. As everyone knows, this is just the beginning, and this companionship is a lifetime.
Not far away, after Wan Li returned to the embrace of the motherland from the United States, he did not let them live a quiet life like ordinary people, because he stood out from the crowd and Qian Xuesen was ambitious. After returning home, he found the land of China in ruins and was bent on doing something big. As the saying goes, "Behind a successful man, there is always a woman who silently supports him", and this person is his wife Jiang Ying.
As we all know, China's missile research and development design is the top military secret, and sometimes even his family can't say goodbye to sudden tasks, so he is often as silent as "turning into air". However, Jiang Ying, who is as clever as ice and snow, knows a little about her husband's work and has a high political consciousness. He knows what to ask and what not to ask, so he pays silently and feeds his family alone.
But there is often a fragile heart hidden under her beautiful light ring. She's just a woman. She is always at home alone, and he will miss her husband. How much courage and perseverance can a woman have to overcome all kinds of difficulties and support a family silently? She did it.
Even once, I really couldn't stand the man who went to the National Defense Office and cried and asked everyone, "Where is my husband Qian Xuesen?" In fact, he knows in his heart that he can't find his husband. She just expressed her feelings that she had been holding back for a long time. After crying, she silently went home to take care of the children and support the family.
She knows better that since she can't do earth-shattering things for her country, she can't bother her husband to serve it. What is even more admirable is that the husband did not live up to his wife's high expectations. He successfully led the team to develop China's first atomic bomb, the first hydrogen bomb and the first artificial satellite, which made great contributions to the construction and security of the motherland!
Jiang Ying's husband is one of the greatest scientists in China, and he has no pride in his heart. After her husband succeeds, he can enjoy the top material security, live in the best house in the ordinary building, and ... but she refused them all.
Life is like the most ordinary old man. The couple have been living in the old house where they have lived for more than 40 years. It is not simple and warm at all. The details of their lives reveal their love for each other. Every time two parents take a walk after dinner, money is always the first to come, and Jiang is always the last to come, taking every step without saying a word.
In their later years, their inner world is no less than that of young people. In their usual words, Qian Lao's humor deeply attracted Jiang Ying. When Qian Lao learned that he had won a scientific research award in Hong Kong, he could not attend because of physical reasons, so he arranged for his wife and children to accept the award instead of himself. He jokingly asked Jiang Ying, "You can get the bonus and let your son get the certificate, ok?" Jiang Ying agreed, and Qian Lao nodded with satisfaction and said, "The money belongs to you, and the prize (Jiang) belongs to me." .
Every time he can make the whole family laugh. After receiving this million-dollar bonus, my parents donated it as always. In their hearts, there will always be people who need the money more than themselves. For example, in this big right and wrong, parents' consciousness and quality are always highly consistent, and it is with this similar value that an indestructible and eternal love is promoted.
From two small conjectures to caring for each other, love is long-term patience, perseverance and mutual trust. It is with these that they have a rock-like love for 62 years.
Only intimate love can have a delicate balance, and this balance can only be achieved because of perfect matching. This balance is not internal friction between the two sides, but requires both sides to put their best efforts into their own careers, not love, not because they don't deserve it, but because it is unnecessary. Love has different missions and plays different roles at different stages. Only with this balance can love achieve years.