Men in their forties, when they reach middle age, must have learned a lot about life along the way. The following is the life experience of men in their 40 s, welcome to read!
A man in his forties feels that the exchange of four seasons, the brevity of spring, summer, autumn and winter, the eternity of that moment and the wonderful moment are all frozen. Natural harmony, harmonious extension, is an image that will never fade. Ah! Life is like the four seasons in nature. When you step into the threshold of 40 years old, you step into the autumn of life. Yes, "a leaf falls and you know it." A 40-year-old life is nothing but the golden autumn of nature, which is cool and pleasant, deep and quiet, and has a long meaning.
Looking up at the blue and clear night sky, you understand what is vast and noble; Looking at the endless Akita, you understand what is deep and quiet beauty, ah! This is the taste of life in autumn.
Watching time fly, I have spent forty years in spring, summer, autumn and winter. I'm forty years old, and I can't help feeling a little sour. Facing age brings me fear, pessimism and disappointment. I have lived more than half my life, witnessed the vicissitudes of forty years, and experienced the vicissitudes of forty years. What have I done in these forty years? I admit that I am unsuccessful, I have no career, I have no achievement, and I have no glory. The only thing that can bring me is sureness and satisfaction.
I don't expect too much, just a person who is content with the status quo, and I won't imagine it. Although the imagination is beautiful, once the real interpretation is far away, I just want to let it go and let me shine all the way.
I never think about age, age is not a problem, but it is not ignoring its existence. It flew one second in advance, accompanied by flowers and plants, flowing in the fleeting time.
Forty years old, when this concept appeared in my mind, I was reflecting on myself. Was the road I walked before straight? Are you satisfied with what you have done? Have you ever experienced no regrets? Have you ever regretted it? No, I don't regret it I am very frank and have a clear conscience. I just follow the inner peace, inner peace and inner call.
In the years to come, how can I embark on a journey and take my own step? Every step is a solid footprint. Every step will leave a deep mark.
At the age of forty, it has gone through childhood ignorance; Forty years old, has passed the flower season; At the age of forty, it has experienced the baptism of the world; Forty years old, it has to meet new challenges.
In my 40-year-old life, I deeply "understood" the life creed of "being vague and regretful", listening more, watching more, thinking more, being cautious in words and deeds, and walking peacefully and calmly on the road of life.
Forty-year-old life is a branch of autumn, waiting for the red fruit. You just need to wait patiently and steadily, and it will mature day by day, and the fruit will be fragrant and refreshing. ......
Life perception of men in their forties: two or three things.
1, learn to close the door: that is, learn to close yesterday and tomorrow, live today, live today.
2, learn to calculate: that is, learn to calculate your own happiness and calculate what you have done right. Calculating happiness will make you happier, and calculating the right things will make you more confident in yourself.
3, learn to give up: especially recommend a good word: willing. Remember that "giving up" comes first and "getting" comes last. Things in the world are always won by giving up, or will be won by giving up, while "not giving up at all" or "wanting everything" will be counterproductive or accomplish nothing.
Two or three sentences theory
1, forget it! In other words, the best way to face the unchangeable facts is to accept them.
2. Never mind! That is, no matter what happens, even if it is a big thing, you must say to yourself: Never mind! Remember, a positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve any problems and overcome any difficulties.
3. it will pass! No matter how hard it rains and how many days it has been raining continuously, we should believe that it will clear up, because it will not be cloudy all the time. Naturally, so is life.
Third, learn "three pleasures"
That is: helping others, contentment is always happy. Furthermore, we should help others in good times, be content in good times and learn to enjoy ourselves in bad times.
Fourth, learn three "don't"
1, don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. In real life, there are many people who are not afraid of suffering and death. No matter how heavy the burden is, no matter how difficult it is, they can't scare him, but he can't stand injustice and injustice. In fact, grievances and grievances mean that others made mistakes and you didn't; And can't stand injustice is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Knowing this truth, the best way to deal with this situation again is to laugh it off and not take it seriously.
Don't punish others with your own mistakes. When you are wronged or treated unfairly, you also wronged or treated others unfairly. In fact, when you hurt others, you will be hurt again.
Don't punish yourself for your mistakes. What is a good man? We think that if we give him 10 things to do and can do 7~8 things right, he is a good man. Obviously, this sentence has another meaning, that is, good people make mistakes, and good people make mistakes. Therefore, it doesn't matter if a good person does something wrong or makes a big mistake, as long as you carefully find out the reasons, learn from them and correct them.
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