First, in a woman's life, the most vulnerable and the worst health is confinement. There are many men who can't understand what it means for a woman to have a baby and confinement. Coupled with the arrival of children, most new fathers are around their children, while some men are lazy in giving birth to children, and most of them listen to the saying that "someone has been here." If the mother-in-law is "doing", then this woman is really miserable.
Because the mother has just given birth to a child and is still very weak, she has experienced everything from being a treasure before to giving priority to taking care of the children behind her. If you are not careful, it will become postpartum depression. If you can't even eat well and your husband's family is still in a mess, it will be even worse. In this case, even if you don't divorce, you must be remembered by the diaphragm for a lifetime.
Second, the second month, deliberately not let the daughter-in-law eat well. Such a mother-in-law still can't get along. Better leave. There will certainly be various problems in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but most of them can be solved, except for the monthly hatred. There is a simple reason. As mentioned above, women are the weakest in the second month and need the help of their husbands and elders most. At this time, elders can find an excuse not to help, and young couples will find their own way.
However, it is very unkind for the husband's family to make trouble at this time. Most people's common sense knows that after giving birth, they have to make up for it. This mother-in-law, who has been through it, said that "it is good for your health to eat green vegetables in confinement" and did not let her son make chicken soup. Such an old lady is no longer the kind of green tea mother-in-law who can escape by "not knowing". Her heart should be punished! Women should not insist on such a family. After all, divorce may be difficult to stop for a while, but if you continue to get along, you will be wronged for a lifetime.
Third, divorce can only solve the problem of not being angry, but it does not mean that everything is safe. In this case, divorce can only be solved in a way of "out of sight, out of mind", which does not mean that it is completely fine. After all, it is a big problem to support yourself and your children in special times. If the women who were relatively independent before were ok, at least they would not starve to death in the empty shell period, but most women could not be completely independent. A truly independent woman let Yue Yue live in the Confucius Center, which is well arranged and doesn't need her mother-in-law to take care of herself.
In fact, in this society, there are many women who endure, and some women leave directly. Women who endure are either unable to help their parents or unable to live independently. These women have the most postpartum depression. In short, women should be financially independent, so that they won't suffer indignities in the second month. If they make up their minds because they are not independent, they will have to suffer for themselves. There is no other way but to blame my own bad eyes.