In the original text, I am a pooper, Kan Kan Yanyan, loyal and respectful, and a scholar. Fools are gentlemen, widows are lucky.
If there is chaos, the words are in order; The door of the mouth is three to five, and the disaster comes out.
"Book" has a ring of shame, "poem" has regrets, the sky has a rolling tongue star, and people have a silent inscription.
Since the sin of silicon can be grinded, the sin of words cannot be done. You can't chase when your teeth and cheeks are moving. Hey, I can't stand it!
Modesty and prudence, clear speech, no hurry and no delay, affability, acting according to one's ability, honesty and integrity, honesty and courtesy are the basic principles of treating people. People who are praised usually don't talk much, but those who are rigorous in their words can be called gentlemen.
Illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth, and the mouth is the door of three to five, from which disaster comes out. A person who is not good at rhetoric, does not choose words, and his language expression is not rigorous, his environment will often be chaotic. In this regard, the ancients had the foresight to warn future generations.
Ming Shou, the Book of History, records that words must be kept, and once they do not conform to etiquette, they will incur humiliation. Similarly, there is a motto in the Book of Songs "Don't be deceived". There is a tongue-rolling star in the sky that can read slanders, and there is a silent inscription on the back of the golden statue.
It should be kept in mind that broken white jade can be repaired by polishing, but there is no way to remedy a person's inappropriate remarks. The ancients once lamented: "A word spoken is a promise that cannot be recalled." How can you not hold back your big mouth? Comments can't bear harm. If you talk too much, you lose. Jump to conclusions when you speak, and the impact can't be compensated by hundreds or thousands of words. During the Three Kingdoms period, Yang Xiu was good at showing off his cleverness and was willing to reveal anything, which made Cao Cao, who was already suspicious, very disgusted. Finally, it was fatal because it revealed the meaning of "chicken ribs". In fact, others may not understand what Cao Cao means. Yang Xiu only said that he was smart and didn't look at the occasion, so he missed his life. In real life, we should pay attention to the art of speaking at all times. Blindly seeking speed, not paying attention to the seriousness of words and acting willfully will often bring endless troubles to your eyes!
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Do everything, don't catch fire; People who blow everything don't hate the wind. Wind and fire value, fan Yan fierce.
The wind moves its heart and follows suit, because the wind is as strong as a drum furnace. If you raise it, you become a gentleman, and if you are violent, you become a man.
When you get angry, you forget your body and your loved ones. It's not chaotic at all. Hey, I can't stand it!
Of all the things that can dry everything, nothing is hotter than fire; Of all the things that can shake everything, nothing is more violent than the wind. When the wind and fire are together, the fire moves with the wind, and the consequences are unimaginable.
People have the same reason. Fire and wind are like good people, and people are angry. If you listen to rumors again, the consequences will be unimaginable. So gas has a great influence on people's state, just like a blower blowing air into a furnace. Only those who can keep calm in times of crisis and cultivate "strong spirit" can become gentlemen, while those who are easy to get angry and irritable are doomed to mediocrity.
If you forget yourself and your loved ones because of a moment of anger, isn't that confused? Please remember: "When dealing with people, you must submit to humiliation".
Comments are easy to lose your temper and will eventually hurt yourself. It's really not easy to tolerate resentment in your heart, but how can you let a moment of anger go to your head if you think about it more? There is a story about this truth: in ancient times, a minister was sent by the king to other countries to purchase goods that were not available in his country. The minister came to a country and heard an old man selling "wisdom" in the market. He found it novel and decided to buy it. He paid the old man five hundred and twenty pieces of silver, and the old man said to him, "Think about it, and don't be angry when you die. Although you don't need it today, it will be useful. " The minister who bought the words of wisdom went home at night. Afraid of waking his wife, he sneaked into the house, only to see two pairs of shoes by the bed, became suspicious and killed someone.
At this time, he suddenly remembered the wisdom he had bought and unconsciously read it out loud. The sound woke up the people in the room. "The son is back! The son is back! " Cried the man on the bed. It turned out that the minister's wife was ill and her mother came to take care of her. The minister who knew the situation unconsciously shouted, "This wisdom is really cheap!" I secretly praised the wise words given by my elders. Imagine if the minister didn't control his anger in time, wouldn't it be a waste of two lives of his loved ones? happy
The original text is deaf-mute, color-blind, galloping crazy, and preventing the elderly.
Nocturnal songs, thirty-six years, no victory.
Jingu amused herself and spoiled Lvzhu, but Shi Chong was punished.
Life geometry, less than 100 years old; Heaven and earth go back and forth, and time passes; If you don't consciously, have fun; Joy is extremely sad, and the autumn wind falls. Hey, I can't stand it!
Chapter 12 of Laozi says: "Five tones will make people deaf, five colors will make people blind, and galloping to hunt will make people crazy."
Singing and dancing during the day and playing music at night, in just 36 years, the Qin Dynasty was extinct. Indulge in the Golden Valley Garden and spoil my concubine Green Pearl, so Shi Chong was killed: How long can a person's life last? It is less than 100 years old. Heaven and earth are only temporary hotels, and time is always a passer-by; If you don't cherish this short time and just indulge in fun, you will be extremely happy and sad in the end, just like the plants wither after the autumn wind.
Alas! The extremes of things must be reversed, and the joy is extremely sad. How can you not endure the desire for wanton pleasure? Comment on what is happiness? To succeed, you have to be in a high position, right? Very rich. Very rich, right? These may be reasons for people's happiness, but they are never sufficient conditions for happiness. A couple lives by selling cookies. Although they are poor and hard-working, they are also very kind and caring, talking and laughing every day. Suddenly, one day, they came back from selling baked wheat cakes and found a bag of gold. They are very happy. However, trouble followed. They are afraid that the host will not tell anyone when he comes to the door, and they are also afraid that their neighbors will find themselves being set up. I am afraid that others will find out and be accused of stealing. As a result, the two men were afraid to go out all day, suspicious and without a smile on their faces. In fact, sometimes, happiness does not need a good reason. Isn't it the greatest happiness to have a delicious Zhajiang noodles with my family on weekends and make a snowman with my wife and children in the snowy winter? In fact, happiness is a state of mind, not wanton enjoyment and desire for ease.
correct
It turns out that sons and daughters avoid power and protect themselves; Dale played politics and made a mistake.
Power is a good thing, a good king, a bad minister, a good division and a bad specialization.
However, that fool, greedy for power and self-interest, was as hot as the market, killed and took away, which made people angry and threatened to look up.
A pale head and a lonely son, a tiger with wings, was once a disaster, and it was as fast as lightning.
Who leads Li Si's yellow dog? Flint red people avoid it? Hey, I can't stand it!
Sean gave up high officials and high salaries, valued power, and saved his life in this ingenious way; Yang became prime minister by royalty, and Li by flattery. These two people bully others, play politics and mislead the country and people.
Generally speaking, power is beneficial for the monarch to govern the country, but not for the minister to master it; Conducive to rank and title, but not to the exclusive rights of ministers.
Only a fool will attract power into his own hands and monopolize it. When they were in power, everyone was flattering, crowded and lively; They hold the power of life and death in their hands, and they can also command people with their eyes and expressions. Others respect and fear them, and even dare not look up.
The villain gained power, adding wings to the tiger and becoming more rampant. Everyone knows that the seeds of disaster have been planted. Once the disaster comes, it will be like lightning, and it can't be avoided.
Who else will lead his yellow dog when Reese falls? Huo Guang's family was killed, but who can escape? Alas, from this perspective, how can we resist the temptation of power? The temptation of commenting on power can never disappear. When a person is in power, the beauty of money and the respect of others are hard to refuse, even if they don't want it. In fact, the most fascinating thing about power is that it gives people a feeling of being held by everyone. People are vain animals, and when the conditions are right, this inferiority complex will often be exposed. Power can satisfy people's vanity, and the satisfaction of vanity can often make people feel the greatest happiness. If you don't believe me, you can look at those who have retired from high positions. Their faces often lose their former style. In fact, material enjoyment may not have changed much. What makes them unbalanced is the attitude of others.
Those things that drag people into the mud or even the abyss are sometimes things that push you to the top from the beginning. Power is such a thing. In any society, the struggle for power is the most cruel. It is for this reason that Zeng Guofan repeatedly warned future generations to stay away from officialdom in family training. People in high positions should probably understand that power and power should be enough!
force
It turns out that the wind is driving the boat, thousands of miles away; If you don't collect the longitudinal sails, you will drown in your professionalism.
Madam's strength is also good, and the sky can climb up; And it fell out of favor, and it landed. The glow of dusk is fading, and it becomes a slap in the face. The hot will die, and the rumbling will die. Watching the thunder and the fire, for the sake of benefit and truth, actually close its voice and hide its heat. A smart house has a ghostly view of its room. Hey, I can't stand it!
Isn't it a pleasure to travel thousands of miles a day along a powerful and popular ship? However, if you go on like this and forget to grasp the direction of the ship in time, you will also be doomed to capsize and drown.
The same is true of human power. Only when people are in power can they rise to a high position; Once you lose power, you will plummet. A person's power changes instantly, and he is still a minister in the morning, enjoying all the splendor; When you lose power at night, you are a civilian in clothes. This change is as easy as reversing the palm of your hand. The blazing fire will be extinguished, and the rumbling thunder will be extinguished. Looking at the thunder and fire, there are ears full of dazzling light, but the thunder is closed in the sky and the earth is hot. People in high positions are always watched by ghosts and gods.
Ah! The change of power is so rapid and unpredictable, shouldn't we be patient in the face of its temptation? Comment on the bully, after all, he is also a civilian, but he claims that he is different everywhere, and he insists on using the power of others to bully his neighbors in the village. In fact, such people are the most worthless and ignorant people. They don't know what will happen. They often only value the immediate interests, but they don't know that they have lost sesame seeds. The fate of those who bully others is often tragic. In the Western Han Dynasty, Huo Qubing was named a title of generals in ancient times by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, which made great contributions to defeating Xiongnu. His younger brother, Huo Guang, was an official of Fu. He accepted the imperial edict of Emperor Wu and assisted the Prince. The Huo family was once famous for a while. Huo Guang, on the other hand, is greedy for power, domineering, conniving at his family's abuse of power and doing evil, and totally ignorant of the ways of courtiers. The Huo family was too arrogant, which led to the court's dissatisfaction and even posed a danger to the imperial power, and was finally blacked out. It can be seen that power is the most unreliable, and those who bully others will kill themselves if they do more injustice.
Rich
The original text is rich and polite, which was taught by Confucius; Wealth and ruthlessness are forbidden by Mencius. Gairen is long enough to eliminate disasters, and courtesy is enough to prevent defeat.
Rich and deceivable, Yu Zi has glimpsed Xi; Those who are rich but not arrogant are fresh, and the historical fish is deeply alarmed by uncles.
Celebrating the wealth of seals is not a reward, but Yan Zi's wealth is as rich as silk. Get rid of its arrogance and meanness, punish its anger, stifle its desire, and protect the blessings of the nine realms.
Hey, I can't stand it!
Being rich and loving ceremony is what Confucius taught the rich. Mencius warned the world that if you concentrate on getting rich, you can't do righteousness. Usually, people who do righteous deeds can protect their blessings and eliminate disasters, while those who love rituals can completely protect their merits and prevent failure.
Because of his wealth, he likes to bully others. Yu Zi has seen the end of Xi. Few people are rich but not arrogant, which is Shiyu's profound warning to his uncle.
Celebrating wealth is not a gift from the sky, but actually a punishment. Yan Zi insisted on ethics and refused to be richer, because he understood that "the rich can't be safe, and those who benefit will take it".
Being rich is not a sin, but if you don't control yourself, it will bring disaster: if you can get rid of your arrogance, your vulgarity and meanness, your anger and your desire and greed, you can almost enjoy Five Blessingg. Therefore, after a person has a certain wealth, how can he not restrain his arrogance? In fact, it is not a crime to have money, but it is the truth that you don't know how to ask for more happiness by being arrogant and rude to people and letting lust and greed flood. Indeed, money can bring us material enjoyment and make us live a better life. However, money is not something we can rely on all our lives. Money can be there or not. There are many examples of getting rich overnight and losing everything overnight. What we can really rely on all our lives is good character, good knowledge and good talent. Some knowledgeable rich people often understand this truth, so they know how to control children's material desires. Joseph, the father of former US President Kennedy, is one of the five most famous American entrepreneurs. In order to prevent future accidents, Joseph saved10 million dollars for each child, but he would never let wealth corrode them. In order to let the children know how to be frugal, he gives them a little pocket money every month. After Kennedy became president, the newspaper published a formal request he submitted to his father when he was ten years old, asking him to increase his pocket money from Thursday to sixty cents, but his father refused. On the other hand, however, Joseph attaches great importance to cultivating children's good character. He often invites celebrities to get together at home and encourages children to join their conversation at the dinner table. He sent all the boys to non-church schools to broaden their horizons. His four sons all went to Harvard University and made a difference. This is the best example of being rich and knowing manners.
religious rites
A baby's illness hurts a sense of fullness, and a noble unfortunately hurts a pet.
Long Yangjun's crying fish, yellow wolf's dream.
Dong Xian made color and cut sleeves, making contributions to the royal family. Yao Chan failed, and the main points have been divided.
Guo Zhong's sister is extremely expensive; Shaoling's poems are beautifully painted; Yu Yang soldiers, bloody ghosts.
Wealth does not follow the arrogant period, but follows the arrogant period; Arrogance is not about death, but death. When you think about Mou Wei's advice, you will feel chestnut and palpitation for a while. Hey, I can't stand it!
Babies are usually sick because they eat too much; Rich people are in trouble, usually because they are favored.
Long Yangjun wept for the fish he caught because he was afraid of falling out of favor. The yellow-headed wolf entered the dream of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, just to please Deng Tong.
Dong Xian was loved by his beloved emperor because of his handsome appearance. There are countless treasures and tributes, and the Emperor Ai wants to give him the throne. Unfortunately, he was beheaded before he succeeded. Yang's brothers and sisters, full of flames, are very lucky. Du Fu also wrote two poems "For Tao" to describe this scene. An Lushan rebelled in Yuyang, and the imperial concubine was sentenced to death.
Wealth will not encounter arrogance, but arrogance will come automatically; Arrogance does not meet death, and death will come uninvited. Think of Gong Wei said to himself, the thick can't help but worry. Expensive because of pets, rich because of expensive, arrogant because of wealth, and desperate because of arrogance, this is the inevitable destination! Facing the temptation of luck, how can we not restrain our yearning? Who doesn't want honor and love in life? But too much love often brings disaster. In the Han Dynasty, Dong Xian was favored for his handsome appearance, cut sleeves for him, and took charge of state affairs as a fu. His father, brother, wife, father, etc. He also built his first house and a grave by virtue of his official position, which cost thousands of dollars. The luxury houses in Dong Xian are also extremely luxurious, including Four Treasures of the Study. The imperial court and even the empress dowager were greatly dissatisfied with this. After the death of Emperor Ai, Dong Xian was quickly dismissed from office. Knowing that catastrophe was coming, he and his wife committed suicide together. From this point of view, it is good to be favored, but once the forces you rely on fall, disaster will follow. Isn't the decline of Jiafu in A Dream of Red Mansions also due to Yuan Fei's fall from grace? shame
People who can swallow their pride will succeed in the world. The bridge crawls for shoes, and the ovary is the wisdom of the emperor; City people laughed, but Han Xin was burdened with waiting for the king.
If you are drowned in the ashes, why should you be ashamed of Ann? Things in the toilet are always waiting for you. Shame is the poison of disease, not dazzling but embarrassing.
Therefore, people who tie socks are delayed, and those who spit on themselves are in the same phase. Hey, I can't stand it!
He who can endure insults will surely achieve great things. Sean climbed under the bridge to pick up shoes for the old man, and later cultivated the wisdom of the Lord; People laughed at Han Xin for climbing from other people's legs, but in fact he had the magnanimity of princes and princes.
"Shuo Wen Yuan Zhong Tan pian" said: "It is safe to endure, and it is safe to endure." Han Anguo was treated as an irreparable death, which shows the extent of his insult; Although Fan Sui was once wrapped in a mat and thrown into the toilet, he was finally named after winning. Insult is really a poison to drive away disease. How can we cure the disease without making the patient unconscious? Therefore, those who tied trousers for others became lieutenants, and those who were willing to let others spit in their faces and commit suicide ended up in the position of prime minister. The process of Sean, Han Xin and Han Anguo from humiliation to glory just shows that they can endure the unbearable of ordinary people and finally achieve great things.
In fact, no one in the world wants to be insulted. Whether to bear the burden of humiliation depends on the situation. In spring and autumn. When Yan Zi, a doctor from the State of Qi, was sent to Chu, the king of Chu knew that Yan Zi was short, so he deliberately dug a hole next to the main entrance to let Yan Zi in. In the face of insults, Yan Zi never gave in, and said something like "only dogs can enter the hole in the dog country", which made the king of Chu sit up and take notice. Yan Zi's trip as a special envoy represents the dignity of a country. Unwilling to be humiliated, he not only won dignity for himself and the country, but also successfully completed his mission. However, Sean's shoes for the elderly and Han Xing 'an's being kicked are naturally another situation and cannot be generalized. From this perspective, forbearance or forbearance depends on the occasion and purpose. However, for most people, we have a piece of advice: when a person is still in the early stage of starting a business and lacks a serenade horse, he must endure loneliness and not quarrel because of his contempt. When others ignore you, you can strengthen your strength through good external conditions to achieve the purpose of strengthening yourself.
safe
The original banquet was poisonous, which was deeply forbidden by the ancients; It's strange to be happy to die
If you are full and have no intention, you would rather avoid the game; Living in seclusion without teaching is close to the worry of animals.
So Liu Bei shed tears and knew that he would die in Shu; Scholars travel every day, and they know the power of their plans.
The cover moves too much to generate yang, and the human body moves mainly. A family is not an ant, running water does not rot. Hey, I can't stand it!
Excessive pursuit of a comfortable life, like wine, is toxic to people, which is the warning of predecessors; It is not surprising that happiness will definitely lead to death!
It's not good to do nothing when you have a full meal, even if you learn to play chess; Living a comfortable life without education is no different from animals.
Therefore, Liu Bei was in tears because of the fat on his legs. When he was old, his career was not established. Tao Kan carries a hundred jars back and forth every day, in order to exercise physical strength and restore the strength of the Central Plains.
Taiji exercise can produce yang, and people's body should be dominated by exercise. The running door shaft will never be eaten by insects, and the running water will never stink. Life lies in exercise, and success lies in diligence. In the face of ease and enjoyment, how can you bear it?
Comment on "born in sorrow and died in happiness", a comfortable life is certainly a kind of enjoyment, but it is often the beginning of failure. A writer in the Ming Dynasty wrote a fable called "Lin": Lin is very small and has a pair of sharp claws. When the tiger's head itched, he climbed up and scratched it, which made the tiger fly. He kept scratching and dug a hole in the tiger's head, but the tiger didn't notice because he felt comfortable. So he ate the tiger brain as a delicacy. In fact, in real life, there are many similar situations. Nowadays, there are many variables in shopping malls, and many large enterprises have weakened from strong to weak, and finally they have been eliminated. In fact, the fundamental reason for the failure of these enterprises in Maicheng is often the same, that is, in its most glorious time, managers lack a sense of urgency and crisis, prepare for danger in times of peace, lack foresight, and lack understanding and preparation for the dangers they face, which eventually leads to failure.
dangerous
In the original text, Wei Qi won the battle of water and rode alone into the Uighur army. The prime minister's generosity is beyond the reach of the marshal's wise men. Gaian is uneasy, the outcome is uncertain, and the account is urgent, so he is afraid, so he sees the cause.
Floating on the sea, encountering the wind, the color of Zhang Rong remains unchanged; The mutinous soldiers swept and shot, and it was difficult to move in Yugong.
Whales are surging and ships are being sent home; White-edged bee dance, control who follows. So try Heroes of the World. Hey, I can't stand it!
When the Battle of Feishui was won, Xie An was playing Go with his friends. On one occasion, Guo Ziyi broke into the Uighur military camp alone, retired from the division, and won without a fight. This is the generosity of the prime minister, not the marshal's joking about his life. Usually, when the security is unclear and the victory or defeat is undecided, when a military commander panics, his subordinates will be discouraged. At this time, it is just right to show the literacy and attainments of the generals.
When encountering a storm during the voyage, Zhang Rong's face does not change color; In the chaos, the two sides attacked each other, and you cut me and killed me. Yu Liang's face hasn't changed at all. Huge waves, sent to the ship; White blade dance, the environment has no other choice, this time can just test the heroes of the world. In times of crisis, it can test a person's courage, generosity and calmness, and courage, generosity and calmness are exactly the character foundation that a person should have to succeed.
Only by being calm in the face of crisis can we win. When an emergency happens, people are often unprepared, so they usually show a certain degree of surprise and panic. In fact, many times, the situation itself is often much better than we thought. It is our own emotions and our reactions under the control of these emotions that make things more complicated. In fact, in the face of danger, anyone will inevitably feel anxious or nervous, which depends on whether he can adjust himself and exercise self-restraint. In the battle of Feishui, Xie An and Zhang Xuan were both very calm when playing chess, and they were not necessarily upset or excited. This can be seen from his reaction after hearing the good news that the guests left: Xie An couldn't restrain the joy at that time and danced into the room, biting all the fangs at the bottom of the clogs. From this perspective, in the face of crisis, self-regulation can finally get out of the crisis. At this time, you can keep a bold, calm and calm mind and show your true colors as a hero.