If plants are planted too densely, the harvest will be worse. Why? This is because the plants are too dense, the gaps are naturally small, the light can't enter, the plants can't carry out photosynthesis, can't produce organic matter, and the harvest is definitely not good. This is the role of the gap.
So many times, we need to leave a gap in our life, just like a safe distance between two cars-a little buffer space, so that we can adjust ourselves at any time and advance and retreat according to the evidence.
In communication, we need to leave a gap between people's hearts. Don't rub against each other on people's right and wrong. Some words are not heavy, but a little carelessness will weigh heavily on others' hearts. At the same time, we should also train ourselves not to be easily hurt by what others say. In this way, there will be more respect and understanding between people, and naturally there will be less quarrels and conflicts, so as to live in harmony.
In learning, diligence doesn't have to spend every minute on books. At an appropriate time, leave yourself a relaxing gap, and your learning efficiency may be higher. Don't strain every nerve, it will only backfire.
In life, we should also leave a gap in our hearts to make ourselves more open-minded, because open-minded people will not be stubborn and can be optimistic and enterprising. If you are narrow-minded and care too much about your own gains and losses, life will become vulgar, negative, pessimistic and even self-indulgent.
A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. It is more of a burden and another kind of loss; Less is not enough, it is another kind of surplus; Giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a wider possession. Careful observation reveals that rich people are not necessarily happy, and those with good academic performance are not necessarily obsessed with books every day. If you want to live a good life, you must have a relaxed heart. No matter how the outside world changes, you can have a peaceful world.
Try to leave a gap in communication, study, life and various situations, which will make your mind feel relaxed and happy all the time!