Many people are blind in choosing marriage. After getting married, they regretted it, and the final outcome was to dissolve the marriage.
Divorce may not have much impact on your life, and it may not delay your remarriage. However, unknown so's successful marriage and divorce are disrespectful to marriage and irresponsible to life.
Some marriages are not necessarily because of love, but also because two people are suitable, but no matter what you get married for, you must know each other's personality and his family.
The world is big, and there is no wonder. There are always some great people in the world, hiding in places you can't see. When you meet some strange people in your marriage, you will know how hasty you chose this marriage.
And people with bad conduct, you can be noble, but not shameless; You can't be great or mean.
My hair Xiao Xinping missed the best age to get married because of work. By the time she wanted to get married, she had been dumped. Men of the same age are basically married, or have already got married.
The family is also eager to introduce her everywhere. Finally, she met her husband through the introduction of others. At that time, I also heard that this man was married for the second time and was five years older than himself, but Xinping didn't care. She thought it would be nice if they were happy after marriage.
When they got married, their in-laws said that the old couple were too old to get the bride price without income. Xinping is very accommodating. She married herself without a bride price.
After getting married, I live with my in-laws, and I have a sister-in-law to marry at home. Xinping goes to work every day and rarely does housework, but his salary is higher than her husband's.
But her mother-in-law has to cook and do housework every day, so she is very dissatisfied with Xinping, saying that she eats ready-made meals every day after work. Xinping thinks her mother-in-law is a little unreasonable. It's already six or seven in the evening after work. Are they waiting for her to go back to cooking without eating?
Less than three months after marriage, her mother-in-law was dissatisfied with Xinping and bluntly asked Xinping to give her living expenses. Xinping gave her living expenses according to her mother-in-law's request. Mother-in-law only accepts Xinping's living expenses, and her husband and sister-in-law don't have to give her living expenses.
Xinping told her husband that she had planned to give her mother-in-law a large sum of money by the end of the year. After all, she has been eating with her, so she has to show something. Unexpectedly, after more than two months of marriage, my mother-in-law came to ask for living expenses.
Her husband's words made Xinping wonder if he married the wrong person, because her husband said, "You are just a daughter-in-law, and my mother has no obligation to take care of you. You can give her more money. You should be self-aware. "
Xinping asked her husband if his ex-wife wanted living expenses at that time. The man said of course, not only the living expenses, but also all the housework at home. If Xinping's salary is not higher than his, Xinping will also be responsible for the housework of the whole family.
Xinping is a very rational woman, and she knows that it is impossible to live with her mother-in-law without living expenses, but her idea is that the family always calculates the accounts so clearly, which is too strange, so she says to give her mother-in-law more money at the end of the year. I had no idea that her husband would treat her like a family.
She probably understands why her husband's ex-wife divorced him, and even her husband didn't regard himself as family. This marriage might as well end early.
Sure enough, after a while, her mother-in-law made a lot of demands on her, saying that her eldest sister-in-law was getting married and asked her Xinping to prepare some dowry for her. Mother-in-law also had the cheek to say that Xinping wanted to give her a sum of money, and her sister-in-law asked her to pay a high price!
After Xinping told her husband, he also said that her salary is the highest in the whole family anyway, and she is also a family anyway. Just give her sister-in-law a dowry. Xinping turned his face on the spot. She asked her husband angrily, "Now you know that you and I are family. Why don't you say you are a family with me when you ask me for living expenses? "
In fact, one sentence is very correct: not a family, not a house.
Husband and mother-in-law are exactly the same, and even have the cheek to argue with Xinping. These two things cannot be confused at all. Xinping thoroughly saw through the virtue of this family, and she filed for divorce with her husband on the spot.
As everyone knows, men don't take this seriously at all, and they brazenly say, "You are 32 years old. Who will marry you if you are divorced? "
Xinping said angrily, "Leave it alone. I will be single for a lifetime and will not spend a lifetime with a man like you. "
After the divorce, Xinping returned to single life. She still rushes to work every day, and her busy schedule gradually makes her forget her life. She also went through a short and absurd marriage.
Now there will be some older young people who want to get married in a hurry because they missed best age for marriage, and the standard of choosing a spouse has also been lowered. In the end, you will find that the person you are eager to get married or marry back is far from the standard you originally wanted to marry.
No matter whether you are a man or a woman, no matter what age you are, you should not be anxious or careless about choosing a marriage. Maybe because of impatience, dislike of each other, marriage failed, and finally I was labeled as divorced for no reason.
Therefore, when we choose marriage, we should not get married because we are too old. Marriage is a lifelong event, not a child's play. You can't just get married and then divorce if you feel inappropriate.
Marriage is not about finding anyone to experience daily necessities, but finding someone who can enjoy fireworks with you and regard you as the most important person in his life.
In the face of marriage choice, if you are a person whose three views are out of step, don't fantasize about living with him all your life.
In this world, there is no such thing as getting married at any age, but choosing a loving marriage is responsible for yourself.