Personality can only be independent after economic independence, not to say that you lose this personality when you get married. Don't forget what attracted your husband. Must be a unique personality. Don't relax just because you're married. You think your husband will be good to yourself if he invests in his family. You must keep your unique personality, which needs the support of your career. So you should have your own career after marriage and do it well.
You can be busy with your career and take care of your family, so that your marriage is stable. Many women think that if they are busy with their careers, they will not have much energy to take care of their families, which is completely wrong. Busy career is important, but family is also important. Don't be too busy with your career to ignore one thing. Family and career can be balanced, especially for married women, it is particularly important to balance the relationship between them.
To sum up, married women should be busy with their careers in order to maintain their independent personality, spread their charm and stabilize family development. If women only care about their families for a long time, their circle will shrink and they will lose their goals. Worrying about trivial matters at home every day will soon become a yellow-faced woman. So we need to find something to do, that is, the career is busy and the career is developing well, and everything will get better, including the relationship between husband and wife.