Happiness is the highest pursuit of life, happiness is the greatest reward of life, happiness is everyone's gratitude for life after coming to this world, and happiness is your re-understanding and re-experience of the people around you.
Everyone wants to pursue happiness, but when happiness comes, they are not sure. When happiness is lost, they find that they have lost a person who is most suitable for him. At that time, it was too late.
Many people clearly love each other, but after something happens, they don't know how to admit their mistakes to the other half, so missing each other is a kind of harm to both of them.
At any time, you must understand that once people miss each other, there is no way to start over.
When you miss each other, you must reflect on whose fault it is. If it's your fault, you must admit it to the other party.
Some things have been said, and you may start over, but if both sides are unwilling to admit their mistakes to each other because of face, it may be lost forever, and no one will wait for you in the same place.
When you lose someone, only you know how painful it is to lose her.
Many people are always stubborn in marriage and always feel that they can live well without each other.
But once he really left, he found that the fact was not what he thought. This also reminds us that when we love, we should love well and cherish everything in front of you.
02
Mr Zhang divorced his wife because of a mistake.
At that time, he did something wrong, that is, cheating on his wife with other girls. When his wife found out about it, she still refused to admit it and tried to hide it.
Nobody is stupid. If you lie, sooner or later, you will reveal the clues, and it will always surface at that moment.
Later, his wife found out that he lied about it, but she was angry at the moment and asked him for a divorce.
Mr. Zhang clearly knows that it is his own fault. He should have saved his wife, but he is angry with her. He always feels that he can live a better life without his wife. So he didn't stop his wife when she divorced.
In the year of divorce, he was 45 years old. When he divorced, he left part of his property to his wife, because these were originally the joint property of husband and wife.
After the divorce, he once felt relaxed, because during the marriage, his ex-wife often nagged in the marriage. To tell the truth, after a long life, there will always be some moments when feelings will fade.
For days, he found his wife's nagging too annoying. Now that he has finally stopped, he feels that he is finally free.
But freedom is only a moment, and after freedom comes his troubles.
He is 45 years old. He used to rely on his wife to handle everything at home. She cooks, takes care of the children and settles his parents. He is only responsible for making money outside.
He is the only one left in such a big family now. He's a little unaccustomed. Every morning, he can only go to the early stall to buy some food and make do with a few bites.
No matter how delicious the breakfast at the stall is, it is not as delicious as the one cooked at home. A few days after the divorce, he began to feel uncomfortable.
I used to be lazy at home. When I got home, my wife had done everything for him. Now he has to do everything by himself.
Only then did he know how inconvenient life would be after losing his wife.
Between people, maybe that's it. At first, there was love between you, and then it gradually became a family relationship. You are full of dependence on him. When he left your life, you were not used to it.
How short a person's life is, if someone is willing to be with you, it is the deepest concern for you, and love is the most beautiful encounter in life.
No one wants to waste time on someone she doesn't like, so when someone is willing to spend time being nice to you and taking care of you, you must be grateful.
Mr. Zhang undoubtedly didn't realize the importance of his wife to him before, and now he knows how bad his life can be after losing his wife.
For a moment, he wanted to remarry his wife, but he knew that her had been greatly hurt. He is afraid that she will not forgive him easily, so he dare not speak easily on this matter.
He even avoids meeting his wife, but the more you don't want to meet, the easier it is for her to appear in front of you.
Equally coincidentally, Mr. Zhang met his ex-wife again.
He had just come home from work, and unfortunately, he met his ex-wife. When he saw his ex-wife, he had a feeling of sadness in his heart.
You know, the two of them have experienced a lot together, and the scene of shopping together is still vivid, but now they can only smile face to face.
The man is still the same person, but his feelings have changed. He can't put everything on his wife as before.
The moment he saw his ex-wife, he said hello to his ex-wife: Hi, long time no see, how are you?
The ex-wife's sentence "I'm fine, and you?" In an instant, Mr. Zhang wanted to find a hole to drill down. After a long pause, he reluctantly said to the other party that I had a good life and left that place.
Obviously, Mr. Zhang regretted it, especially when he looked at his ex-wife. He recalled all the sweet things in the past. If he hadn't made a mistake, maybe they could still be together. He destroyed it himself.
03
It's easy to love someone, but it's not easy to love only one person all your life. So in the world of love, trust, tolerance and understanding are needed.
When you are together, you should know how to tolerate each other. Everyone has shortcomings. If you want to be happy together, you must tolerate some shortcomings of each other.
In marriage, it's not the relationship of 1+ 1=2, but cutting off some personalities and shortcomings, embracing each other with their own advantages and synthesizing a whole.
No one is perfect. After discovering that you have done something wrong, you must know how to reflect. It is not difficult to admit mistakes. As long as you admit your mistake, you will find that you still have a complete family.
What I fear most in my feelings is knowing that I am wrong, but making mistakes again and again, making people who love you sad. If so, then I'm a little sad.
How many men began to regret after divorce, began to get used to it, and began to miss their ex-wife's kindness, but they were ashamed to mention it, afraid to apologize to their ex-wife, and even tried to save face.
If so, then your performance is cowardice. It doesn't matter if you are wrong once in love. If the other person still loves you, she will forgive you if you admit your mistake to her.
But if you don't even have the courage to admit your mistake, how can you let the other party give you a chance?
In order not to repeat the tragedy, before ending a relationship, you must think it over and make sure you won't regret it.