Frankly speaking, it is a special taste and attraction that emanates from the inside out. With good temperament, you will have the most spiritual vitality in the world!
As Haruki Murakami wrote: "People don't grow old slowly, but grow old in an instant." In other words, you don't grow wrinkles from the corner of your eyes, or white hair from your temples and start to get old, but bid farewell to your youthful vitality from the moment you give up on yourself.
But in life, there are such a group of people, time can only push their age forward, but they can't take away their unique temperament.
A beautiful face is just a skin, and temperament is the vitality from the heart!
It is said that some people will become more temperamental and stable after experiencing the disaster of life and tasting the taste of life. I didn't believe it before.
But recently, I once again heard Faye Yu, the goddess of youth, say on the screen: "beginning of life is old, starting from the heart, wrinkles are related to youth, not beauty."
At this time, I really understood that there really are such a group of people in this world, and they are just old. Time is not a butcher's knife for them, but a sharpening knife, polishing them delicately and with extraordinary temperament. And this group of people have the characteristics of * * *.
"Childlike innocence, absolute false childlike innocence, is the first to think of it." This sentence means that people's nature in the initial stage is as pure as childlike innocence.
If you still have childlike innocence, then your world must be colorful, your life must be clear and bright, and happiness is within reach.
Some people may think that childlike innocence is either naive or immature.
In fact, having a childlike innocence does not mean that you are immature. On the contrary, if an adult can still love life and look at the world with a kind mind after experiencing all kinds of disappointments in life, it is a sign of maturity. After vicissitudes of life, they still maintain a childlike heart. How can a naive person do this? !
Tong Xinru is full of vitality, mature and unsophisticated.
"Beauty is an uncontrollable strong emotion, just like hunger."
"The love of beauty is not only to make others look pleasing to the eye, but more importantly, an attitude towards life. If your attitude is beautiful, people will naturally become beautiful. "
Mao Mu's two sentences tell us that maintaining and pursuing beauty should be everyone's lifelong belief and an attitude towards life that should not be abandoned.
No matter when, where and what, please don't give up the pursuit of beauty, don't lower or even give up the standard of your internal and external image, or simply don't decorate.
Imagine that when you dress appropriately and make up exquisitely, the whole person will be radiant and full of energy. In this state, you will give people a feeling that you will definitely lose a lot of age!
I remember reading a sentence by Lin Yutang, which probably means that the beauty of a woman lies not in her face, but in her posture. And the "state" in his mouth refers to the temperament that emanates from a person's bones.
When you are elegant and confident, your words, actions and smiles will make people feel as comfortable as the spring breeze. This is why some people will give you a feeling of "very comfortable". This is a kind of beauty that will make people dream and move their hearts.
There are such a group of people, the road they have traveled and the people they have loved will become better and better because of their existence. They have a magical power in their hands, which can turn the life of a chicken feather into a picture scroll and a poem.
Writer San Mao once wrote in his work "About Reading":
Read more, and your appearance will naturally change. Many times, I may feel that many books I have read are gone and I can't remember them anymore. In fact, they still have potential.
It is not difficult to cultivate a hobby, such as fitness, traveling, cooking, reading, writing, keeping pets, etc. Find something that will make you devote yourself to it. But long-term persistence and Excellence are a test.
However, once you find something that can make you physically and mentally happy and keep thinking about progress, you will experience a different life, be passionate about life and keep a fiery curiosity about the world.
Time will only push your age forward and can't take away any of your temperament.
Cultivating temperament is better than a panacea, only it can keep you young forever!